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writes:I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 2 months (we are on good terms and 'friends'). He lives a few hours away from me. I ended it because it didn't seem like he cared about me, like when we first got together.. After the break up iv'e called a few times and he still really didn't sound like he cared. But last night when he was drunk he told me that it would be really hard to compare any other girlfriends to me and hugged me and wouldnt let go. I've been missing him and want him back, this made me want him even more.. I REALLY want to call him and see if we can try again, but I dont want to get hurt for the 100th time.. what should i do, do you think i have a chance??
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reader, Basschick +, writes (5 August 2007):
 If you communicate in specific terms to him, perhaps you'll get different results. I think if you're missing him that much, and he is obviously missing you too, you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. That you'd like to try the relationship again but one of the reasons you ended it before was his non-commital way of acting towards you - like he could give a rat's ass. Maybe it was a protection mechanism and it cost him the relationship. Perhaps now, he'll act differently towards you. But a word of caution. Some men have difficulty opening up. I was once married to a guy who seemed distant and quiet most of the time. I fell out of love with him because his actions always made me feel like he wasn't really there. Turns out he really did love me but he showed it in other ways and I needed someone to talk to, someone I could feel close to intimately. This could be the case in your situation so go into it with both eyes open. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): That boy is in love with you. so don't wait just go ahead and call him. He acted like he doesn' t care about you but in reality he is in love with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): I think that if you called him, he would just act like he always does (like he doesn't care) I think the fact that he was drunk is why he said those things. Not that he didn't mean them. Maybe it's hard for him to open up when he's sober. Most people say true things when they're drunk. But that doesn't mean he will act that way if you call him. He may even feel akward that he said that & he may close up even more.
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