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Something inside me keeps pushing me to pursue other women, especially when I'm drunk.... why can't I be content?

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Question - (5 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2007)
A male Ireland age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi, I have been with many women this year and can't seem to settle with any one of them. Have recently started dating this girl and I'm trying really hard to be faithful. But something inside me keeps pushing me to pursue other women especially when I'm drunk. Being with a lot of women has not made me happy yet I continue to do this!!!

Why can't I be content in a relationship like other guys??

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A female reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2007):

BEEN THERE DONE IT agony auntHi there babes,

You obviously have not found the right woman for you yet thats all babes.....Be careful though as when your drunk it clouds your judgement and to be honest here if you attracting women when your drunk are you attracting the right kind of women????

There is nothing wrong dating loads of women to find the right one but try to be faithful it hurts and I amsure you would not want this done to you would you hun?????

Just relax have fun get to know her then be honest with her if she is not compatable there is no need to be unfaithful if your open and honest, it may hurt her at the time but she will respect you a whole lot more for being a gentlemen.....

Good luck babes,

Hope this has helped you

Love Donna xx

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A female reader, redcurls1982 United States +, writes (5 August 2007):

If you can't keep it in your pants then don't kid this girl that you are going to. If you want to change you will.

If drinking is the problem, then don't drink. You could also bring her with you so you can be with her instead. Maybe talk to her about your weakness and see if she is willing to put up with it. It's not fair to her that you have baggage. Other than that, find a girl who likes to swing and see if that works.

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