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He cheated on me and wants me to take him back

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - problem. me and my boyfriend are both 19. Before we moved in we lived ages away from each other and I became less interested in him and we broke up, that night I slept with someone. He phoned me the next day asking if we could get back together and i told him what i had done. ... (265 words

I am trying to be ok with his porn viewing, but am having a hard time with it

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I can't stand it when my boyfriend looks at porn on the internet. He says he does it because they do things that I dont really do, like deep throat. I know that he is a guy and most guys masturbate to porn but then again, I wanna be a cool girlfriend who trusts him and doesnt ... (72 words

He told my brother I was pretty and asked for my number, but never called!

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - i am on my own and my brother has a friend who is a lawyer who is also on his own but he has been through a divorce and so hav i. My brother let his friend see me but didnt tell me that he his friend had seen me but his friend said that he woz impressed 2 c me and he asked 4 ... (169 words

I am getting mixed signals from him and I am too shy to talk to him!

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok people, If you're shy and find it hard to talk to guys ur interested in, how would u go about asking them out or simply trying to find out whether they like u or not? Some of u may have seen my other posts, but theres this guy i like, im getting mixed signals from hi... (120 words

Sometimes he hurts me when he gives me oral sex

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend sucks too hard while performing oral sex...Sometimes i gets really painful and I am not able to reach an orgasm. I dont want to emberrass him and complain...What should I do???... (33 words

I really like this girl I met online, but she says she doesnt want to lead me on

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1 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Okay i'm zell and i'm 17 and i really like this girl i need some advice because i'm wondering if she likes me or anything you know? okay first off I met her over myspace and facebook, she's absolutely drop dead sexy....well anyway it's over the computer so i figured i'd ask ... (407 words

I've been talking to a guy for 2 weeks but all he wants is sex

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have been talkin this boy for a bout 2 weeks all he want from me is sex. he say that he likes me but i really don't know if hes telling me the truth to me i think he just tell me what i wanna hear for i can give it up to him. what should i say to him before things get ... (75 words

I met this guy and he is 21, but I told my parents he's 19 and they still dont approve

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I met this guy, and i really really like him. and hes 21, doesnt have a car, and im only 16 and i cant drive. we tried to hang out several times but it seems like something always goes wrong, i met him like twice without something going wrong, (like once the times got ... (132 words

I am 15 and would like to have sex

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I am thinking of having sex soon, first time. I'm 15 and i'm worried whether a condom is enough or do i HAVE to go on the pill? Answers?... (30 words

I dont want to sleep with a girl right away, why is this a problem?

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1 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Girls, please give me your words of wisdom! I have not have sex I like over a year! I’m not ugly or anything! Just been real relaxed, REAL RELAXED about – getting out there. I hate one night stands – just not me. And this really isn’t about sex anyway I much prefer to slee... (562 words

How can I figure out if he likes me?

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi their all. ive found a bloke that i like and hes really shy and im too hes a friend of mine, weve never spoken about bf just general chit chat and nothing more, i like him but im not sure if he likes me, was wondering on any tips on how to find out if he likes me or to flirt ... (72 words

How do I choose?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok so heres the problem ive been dating someone for the last few months and before we dated he was one of my best friends. right around the time me and him started dating i met someone else and since then ive been basically dating them both only one of them knows (the newer ... (134 words

I'm 12 and was washing my privates and stuff come out

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1 August 2007 (M age 26-29 - I need some answers. I am a 12 year old male. I was in the shower 2 days ago washing my private area, and some stuff came out of the tip and it tingled really a lot. I was using body wash and i guess that is what it looked like. so i am woindering if it was some body wash that ... (94 words

My boyfriend keeps cheating on me

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi every1! am in love with this lad av been on and off with him for a year but he has dumped me 3 times for an ex, each time it has been a different lass but we are close again and wen i left his the other night he slept with sum1 just after me! but i love him please help!!!... (62 words

My husband and I fight all the time

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1 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am 29 years old and my husband is 44 years old, we have been married for 1.5 years. My question is that we fight all the time. Can you please tell me how to talk to him and let him now that I am almost at the end of my witts??? Please help thank You... (57 words

I have fallen for the guy my best friend likes

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - i haven fallen for the guy my best friend likes! i mean fallen hard- i dnt want to hurt her, or lose her! me n this guy hooked up a couple of times but the second i found out how much she liked him i backed off (i knew she used to have a thing for him but she was with another ... (186 words

I have fallen out of love with the father of my child

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi, i've been goin steady with my boyfriend for 3 and 1/2 years,, we have been living together for a year of that and have a child who'l be 2 in sep.. i loved this guy at one point but now no longer feel the same way and i dont know how to end our relationship... (56 words

I feel like she never gives me an answer and leaves me hanging

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1 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend just split up after a year and half relationship, we work together which really did put a strain on our relationship. I love her and she loves me and we want to get back together, but she wants some time. I feel like she will never give me a answer and ... (62 words

I am 27, engaged, and scared to death!

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am 27, engaged, and scared to death. Here is my story... I dated my fiancé for about 1 year or 2 years in his eyes. He is a pilot in the Navy and gone all the time. He was married for 5 years before he met me. I have always felt he is not over his ex wife. I asked him to ... (561 words

My husband is a little too rough with sex, I am worried he will hurt me or our baby

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi guys. I am now 13 weeks pregnant. My husband and I are very excited about our first baby. We want to still have sex during pregnancy but he wants me to do all the work (in our sexual realtionship). Because of the baby I get tired quickly and I not as pleased and when I ask ... (121 words

He told me he was working night shift, but my friend saw him going in to a disco!

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm 24, my husband's 29. For the past few weeks my husband's been working nightshifts to earn extra money, which I wasn't too pleased about, but when I heard him saying we'd get more money if he did double shifts, I accepted the situation. So for 4 weeks he'd been doing ... (300 words

He broke up with me and said someday he will come back to me begging, but he hardly contacts me!

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - ok i met my ex b/f through the internet and i moved to the city he was studying to live together.It was the best year of my life.he was telling me all the time how much he loves me and he was showing it in many ways and promised after graduating and getting a job to get ... (228 words

I am dating my older second cousin

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - im dating my 2nd cousin who is 20 years older then me and dont no how to tell my perants. anyone have any advise?... (24 words

I'm nauseous, I'm tired, feverish, losing a lot of weight! What's wrong?

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - ok so i have alot of white discharge down there and i think i have a yeast infection but i've been feeling really sick lately and feverish, nauseous, and i've been losing alot of weight without trying to like the other day i had 3 peices of pizza and some wings and i lost 2 ... (91 words

Do I wait for him to tell me he likes me..or should I just go for it?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay. So there is this boy that I've started to really like. I went to school with him at my old High School. One day he started IMing me out of the blue and we started talking a lot. One of my best friends who talks to him a bit has said that he thinks I'm "pretty" and he ... (157 words

Is it that bad to be smaller than my friends?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am 14 and 5ft 2 i get teased regularily about my height as all my friends are 5ft 6 etc. Is it that bad to be small?? P.s. Yet my guy friends don't seem to care. X Thanks, Please help me!!... (42 words

I'm not lesbian so why.have I fallen for this girl at work??

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi.plzz plzz help me,ive just started new work,its been 2 months and ever since ive set eyes on this girl ive just fallen in love with her.plzz let me state that am not a LESBIAN, strictly straight but i dont know what this is. i cant get her out of my mind, i cant even speak ... (98 words

My guy is considering an army career and I'm afraid...he'll find someone else! Any advice?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend who i love more than anything has been really considering going into the army. I support him 100% but i am just afraid that he might find someone else while he is there. Do you think that there is a good chance that would happen?... (47 words

Too shy with the guys! Help!

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey. I'm really confused. I am quite shy around guys even if they are just friends. Why is this and what can i do to stop it? I never used to be so shy and now i am again. Please help!! X... (42 words

My straight friend snogged me today...does this mean she likes me?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, so i am going out with my girl Jess and i luv her to bits. i told my closest friend that i was going out with a gal (no one else nos i am gay) and she was so cool with it and she hasn't told any one. The thing is today she snogged me and and was stroking my leg. i didn't ... (108 words

My ex bf's mental illness is serious. Should I ever consider a future with him?

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am 24 and have been with my boyfriend (now ex) since I was 19. Our relationship has conquered many battles and each time we have came out stronger. I love this man, more than words can say. I always knew "he" had a specific fear of death, love and loss,planes, not being in... (634 words

Need perspective on what to do about this other long distance girl I still like.

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1 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hello everyone. Things finally seem to be settling down a little, at long last. It's been over a month since my long distance girlfriend of 2 years split with me, and I feel a little easier about the situation right now. We are still in contact. Last time we spoke was ... (371 words

I have to masturbate to climax even after 1-2 hour sex sessions... is this normal?

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1 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - I can't seem to ejaculate while having sex i have to masterbate to climax. Me an my fiancee usually have sex for one to two hours and i have to masterbate to climax what could be done to help with this or is it normal. ... (45 words

I need to get my mind off him!!!

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi i am 14 and i recently went to a football match and i really like one of the footballers i saw playing (it was a pre season match) i cant stop thinking about him although i have only seen him twice (i saw him in his car on the way home ) he is 21 i really dont want to feel ... (93 words

Is it true that if you wear a bra to bed your breasts don't grow?

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1 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - i really need some help is it true that if you were a bra to bed they either shrink or don't grow. My mum and my cousins take their off and it really concerns me!! plz help thanx for any advice xxx... (44 words

What should I say to my boyfriend when I am really tired?

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I was wondering if this is a bad thing. So My boyfriend is always touching me in a sexual way, like he will just walk up to me and grap my chest or the other part of me. Well Last night when we went to bed I was starting to fall asleep and I felt his hand go inside ... (192 words

How can I cope with her breaking up with me?

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1 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for the past 10 months. Only recently she has moved back home to Wales and since then the relationship has seemed strained. She has been home for about a month and is now asking for space. Things have seemed strained for the past 2 w... (194 words

I can't forget about him, even though he has a girlfriend!

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I really need help with this situation. I feel like im in love with someone. He has a girlfriend, and has been with her for over a year and a half now, but he cheated on her various times with me. He treats her bad, and their always arguing. I know his girlfriend, and we get on ... (144 words

Do not want to risk our friendship.

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1 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi I don't really know how to go about asking things like this. My best friend has just finished with her boyfriend of 3 years and I really like her more than a best friend. We're both at university and have helped each other through rough patches both in study and our personal ... (79 words

My boyfriend is terrible with money and it's affecting other aspects of our relationship!

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - HI guys I need help! I am 23 and having a rough time. I recently graduated with a Bachelor's degree, and have started a "real" job. My boyfriend and I both work midnights (I always worked). I bought a house on my own, even though I have a live-in boyfriend. We are having ... (248 words

I'm 20, 4'10in and worried.

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and only 4 ft 10. My mother is 5 ft 3 and my father is 5ft 5. I am really getting worried about my height. I have been to my doctor who says i have nothing to worry about as long as i am healthy. Can any one help me please because i dont know what to do, i ... (79 words

I have a bump down there, do you think it's a std?

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been sleeping with this guy for about a month now and this morning I found a bump "down there" it hurts just to the touch. Do you think I got a STD from him? My next womens visit isn't for a month and they dont have any earllier appointments. Does anyone know what this ... (57 words

Should I continue loving my cousin, or should I ignore my feelings?

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1 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - me and my cousin haven't seen each other since we where really lil kids finally we meet again after 17 years i feel strongly connected to her. we play around bit wrestling tickling etc. i cant keep my eyes off from her. i do like her allot. i don't know if this is like nor... (129 words

I'm missing some excitement.

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I really need help to decide. I have a daughter to my partner of 8 years and we have lived together happily for over 7 years. He is relaible, dependable and everything a girl should need but there is no spark there no more. I have found myself looking at other guys in a ... (122 words

They have not been together long and he wants to buy a house.

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My best friend and her boyfriend have been together for just over a year. Its her first serious relationship - well her first real boyfriend if you like. They got together literally just weeks after his last long term relationship ended, and more or less right away he was talk... (216 words

Is there something wrong with wanting a baby at this age?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 14 and my bf is 15 and we have been having sex and i got worried that i was pregnant then i got my period. And now i want to have a baby! Is there something wrong with that? And how would i tell my mum? She would go crazy. I really Luv my bf and he Luv's me and i want a b... (96 words

Is it possible to have your period still, even if you are pregnant?

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - i'm a little concerned. This might sound really weird, but I was wondering if any girls out there have had proper real periods when pregnant. I was lying in bed last night and I felt like a fluttering in my belly - a very strange sensation, from what I've read it sounds s... (169 words

Seen her text messages from another guy! How do I talk to her about this?

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1 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi all. I have been with my girlfriend just over 3 months now and I am totally in love with her and I do really believe that she loves me and things are amazing most of the time. However I have a jealousy/trust issue. I checked her phone this morning whilst she was in t... (227 words

Deep inside I believe he will come back to me. What do you think of all these?

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - ok i met my ex b/f through the internet and i moved to the city he was studying to live together.It was the best year of my life.he was telling me all the time how much he loves me and he was showing it in many ways and promised after graduating and getting a job to get ... (228 words

We were supposed to marry but he's now marrying someone else, his family chose for him! I am heartsick..any advice?

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I was in love with a boy(my neighbour)who proposed me 10 years before. We spent a lot of time together. My family and I did a lot for him...helping him in his studies, job, personal development etc.He got a better job than me.His parents approach my parents for our ... (251 words

I was doing great until my ex came back to town. How do I handle this?

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1 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Well, my ex is officially back home from her trip of two weeks out of the country for school. I feel like I had been doing great the past week or two, but the last couple of days (realizing she would be home soon) have really set me back. In fact, I feel down right miser... (277 words

Can i give consent to sex?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok im 16 and i want to know if i can give consent to have sex?? i live in orgeon.... (20 words

My girlfriend wants to have phone sex?!

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1 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - hey ummm my g/f wants to have phone sex. i didnt want to and got realy pissed at her, cuz she said that her friend and her boyfriend probaly done it. but idk how to have phone sex. well i do. but i dont no how to explain to her that i dont want to have it. also weve told ea ... (144 words

He seems to be busy all the time, what's wrong?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for just about 10 months, and we used to spend most of the days with eachother and we always had fun times. But lately everytime I invite him to hang out with me he seems to always have an excuse not to, and when I call him he never stays on ... (167 words

She is supposed to be my girlfriend, but she keeps meeting people she likes.

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1 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hello! I have been together with my girlfriend for almost a year now. I love her very much and everything would be fine if not for one little problem. Everywhere she goes without me she meets a guy that she likes. The last time that happens she told me it was because he was ... (164 words

We have a 4 month old, but i'm getting bored.

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1 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend and we've been dating for a year and a half. We have a 4 month old baby. Our relationship was really strong at first, but now I'm getting bored and 'falling out of love' with her. I revently started talking to my ex, and all those feelings are coming back. ... (65 words

I ended it by text.

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I was seeing someone but finished with him because he had another girlfriend, he siad he didn't love her but would not leave his children. He admitted he was scared of getting hurt but he did love me but he had to hold back. I finished it because it was leaving me off balance ... (232 words

Should i just go on strike?

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1 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Taken for granted: I do 100% of the maintenance work, 90% of the cooking, my fair share of the cleaning and laundry, and more than half of the finances. Our point of contention is that she doesn't seem to notice what I do and gets her panties in a bunch when I say I'd rather n... (124 words

Sex at 14.

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Am i too young to have sex at 14 ?... (10 words

We love, but are not in love, what should we do?

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend and I will have been together for 2 years on August 18th. Tonight, he told he that he loves me, but he's not IN LOVE with me anymore... yet he claims he still wants to be with me, and try to work things out. This is his first serious long relationship,... (212 words

Should I stay with the secure but unhappy relationship, or the new, uncertain relationship?

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - what should i do i have a two boyfriends now,i dont know who really i choose,my 1st bf mamed vic,we have almost 1yr relationship but we lack of communiction and then now i dont feel any feelings for him,im not happy now to him.my second bf was jason we just new,but im so happy ... (101 words

Why did he dump me and now, why suddenly, does he want me back?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i'm 17 and about 3 months into my relationship my boyfriend dumped me for no reason... I went to school the next day and acted perfectly normal, if not better, and almost everyone freaked out knowing what had already happened. Well we promised we'd still be friends and we were ... (222 words

Is this nightmare about my bf hurting me..coming true?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi... i'm 17 years old... I have a great boyfriend now and we've been going out for almost half a year. I honestly think i'm in love with him and i love being around him. A while ago i had this really weird dream... where he was REALLY hurtng me... ever since i havent been ... (173 words

Is it ok for a virgin to use a sex toy?

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Is it ok for me a virgin to use a sex toy or doll or do i need experience with these things ? like with a vibrator i have never put anything inside me like tampons so i am not sure if i should put a vibrator in me . the only person who put something up inside me during an pap ... (110 words

Why has my boyfriend of a year cheated on me?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi Well My Name Is Kristal and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a couple months and he has ben cheating on me not sexually but in other ways why has he been doing this?? i am very sad i need to know??... (50 words

Do guys like to date plain-looking female virgins or am I doomed?

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Do guys like to date plain female virgins ? I though i would find a man in high school nothing happened , then college but still nothing . I am about to graduate from college and then go to a career college . i fear i will find no guys there who are interested in me . I don't ... (84 words

He has a partner and kids..I have a baby with him. Should I stay or leave this man?

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - i am dating a guy that has a commonlaw wife,and has two little girls with her.but i also have a baby by him we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs. and i'm pregnant.he fully helps supports us fiancually and comes and spends time with us everyday.oh by the the other woman knows about ... (184 words

How can I bag myself a military hunk?

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1 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - How can I flirt with single military guys? I'm currently visiting a military base and I have found some pretty interesting cute guys, but because of my job I can't get too much contact with them. What type of things can I do in order to get attention to attract them.... (52 words

Need spice for a dying long-time relationship!

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I just would like some ideas to spice up my dying long-term relationship with my boyfriend. Romantic as well as sexual ideas needed, any help will be appreciated! Thanks.... (33 words

I want to break up with my gf but am having a hard time...I can't get away from her! Any advice?

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1 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - My girl and i have been going out for 1.5 years and it was awsome but i lost feelings for her and now she is all lovey and all ... i called to break up with her many times but like she will just start crying and it doesnt bother me thta she crys cause i just dont have fun with ... (172 words

Can sex in the shower harm my baby?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys. I am now 10 weeks pregnant. :) I am very happy with my married life, but my partner wants to have sex with me every day. I am okay with that. BUt yesterday he asked me to have every type of sex there is in the shower. I am okay but is it safe and can it hurt my baby? ... (62 words

I stop liking them because of the way they look and talk.

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1 August 2007 (F - Have you ever stopped liking someone as much as you did because of how they looked or how they talked? then after, you got over it because you realize how much you like them? Did you feel guilty for once doing this?... (42 words

My friend is pregnant and her bf cheats on her. How can I help her?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok well I'm on BCP, so I'm not trying for a baby. But I was wondering how easy it would be for a 17 year old to get pregnant. In a magazine I read that under 18 it is very easy to fall pregnant - If this is true, why is it? Alot of my friends are pregnant and it's making me b... (156 words

I cheated on my bf and I can't get this other guy out of my head!

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1 August 2007 (F - Ok so im in a relationship of 2 n half years i cheated once had sex with someone i workd with, my bf knew i told him about a week after i did it, hes still with me because he loves me so much. i love him to but im not in love with him cos all i can do is think about the guy i ... (171 words

How would I tell my mum if I accidentally got pregnant?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok well here goes.. Im 14 nd ma bf is 15 nd we are havin sex. Im completly comfortable wit it. Ive discussed wat would happen if i got pregnant nd he said he would stay wit me nd help look afta da baby. But im still worried. If he does get me pregnant accidently wat would i ... (114 words

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1 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - How do people live alone and do okay? I find myself single and alone due to the ending of a 20 year relationship but I absolutely hate it and think now, that I have been co-dependent my whole life. How do people do it? I get so bored and lonesome. My parents are both dead, my ... (167 words

Morning sickness, sore breasts, unprotected breasts... could I be pregnant?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, just a quick question really. Okay well i feel nauseous all the time and my breasts are usually quite sore (but i do have a F cup and im only very petite)i have periods and have felt like this for about two or three months. Is there any chance i could be pregnant? Yes ... (68 words

should i go off to school or spend the rest of my life with him?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month. he asked me out a week or so before he went to basic. he is amazing and i love him to death. i know it is crazy but i do. anyways the day he was on his way to basic he asked me to marry him. i said i would write ... (209 words

I have 2 boyfriends and can't decide what one to choose

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey i have this boyfriend and i really 3 him and every thing. But this other guy really lyks me and i said yes to him to. Now i have to bf's and i only want one. I really 3 ma first bf he is perfect for me but the other guy i lyk to. Wat can i do i'm so worried that they will ... (94 words

She met a guy on holiday and he confessed he likes her; she says nothing's in it but now we're on a break. Should I be suspicious?

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If we do get into a relationship how do we start it?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - okay, this might be long, sry. So i was texting one of my bestfriends and she started asking me if ive ever thought about being lesbian. I told her yeah and we started talking about it. We both decided it would be better to be bi because we like guys to. But she told me that ... (222 words

I want to stay with her but her trust issues are making it very difficult

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1 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hi- I have a tough one. I am engaged to a girl that I have only known for 1.5 years and we have a 9 week old baby. She wants the relationship, yet has some serious trust and insecurity issues. Her dad cheated on her mom and her mother told her about it it during college,... (275 words

I started losing weight fast and now my sex drive has gone.

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1 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - So this is super weird right my sex drive was close to it's peak and me and my other were having this awesome amazing sex then all of a sudden i started losing alot of weight like i dropped 5 pounds in 3 days and my sex drive started lowering and i didn't want to have sex much ... (84 words

Booked in to get a tattoo but scared of the pain... will it hurt?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - im getting a tatoo on saturday and i am realy scared,i dont know how much it would hurt me i dont like pain, im getting it on the bottom of my back and i realy want one, i am going to get it because i have booked it now and i am going to keep in my head the reason i am getting ... (93 words

I enjoyed her touching me, does it mean i'm bi?

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1 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 nearly and one night i was drunk and me and my boyfriend and my mate were at mine, my girl mate started touching me sexually and i enjoyed it! we done many things does this mean im bisexual or is it just the drink?... (46 words

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