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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

This girl who I fancy says that I'm her favourite boy in the class - also that I'm nicer than the others - does she fancy me or just like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl who I fancy says that I'm her favourite boy in the class - also that I'm nicer than the others - does she fancy me or just like me?... (31 words)

If he loves me how do I get him back, since he's too stubborn to take me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay If he loves me then how do I get him back since he's too stubborn to take me back...?... (20 words)

I think my guy likes his ex still. I want to break up with him but I dont think he's taking me seriously??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi stright to the point am i his rebound??? well ive been with my man for a year and a few months and well, he went thru a bad break up with his gf of like 9 months and she treated him real bad, i knew her. me and him where friends but i knew her as she slept with my ex at th... (560 words)

I don't want to have to choose because I need them both in my life, but I really can't take any more of this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My mum hates my boyfriend so much that she even used an old mobile to text him so it looked like he was cheating, I know because I knew the number was my brother's old number from his first phone. She's always talking bad about him and calls him all the names under the sun. ... (278 words)

Next week I leave for another job 20 miles away, how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seriously going crazy over this guy at work, who I really like. He is everything I look for in a guy, manly, smart, kind, sweet and loves football, of which I'm a huge fan. The thing is I leave next Friday and I can't help but think about how much I'll miss him. I'm moving ... (188 words)

My 17 yr old boyfriend doesn't take me anywhere and says because I'm 15 he didn't think I would want to go anywhere. Was I right to take offense?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

- my 17 Yr old boyfriend never takes me anywhere. earlier i confronted him about this and he said "well your only 15, i didnt think you'd want to go anywhere" i took offence by this and he stormed off to bed when i expressed this. was i right to take offence to it? help. ... (58 words)

I really like him and enjoy spending time with him and I want to be in a proper relationship with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for about 9 months now only every couple of weeks because he lives in another town. I really like him and enjoy spending time with him and I want to be in a proper relationship with him. From the conversations we've had it seems like he doesn't want ... (122 words)

I've recently got together with my uncles best friend! But he is 40, I am 23 and he now wants to cool it a bit. I dont want to lose him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I am after a bit of advice regarding a new relationship i have started with an older man. I am 23 and my partner is 40, we met a while ago and have seen each other on occasion at my relative's house(he is my uncle's best friend!)I had not really thought about hi... (216 words)

I'm pregnant by the guy I've been having an affair with! I dont need judging, I just need some advice...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for years. Before you judge me you don't have to live my life and there is a lot of screwed up stuff in my marriage. I am married and scared to death of my husband. I found out that I am pregnant and don't know what to do. I am 100% positive that ... (135 words)

WHY do people masturbate?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this may sound really stupid but its always been something i'd like to know the answer to. Why do people, both men and women masturbate? Are there any particular reason why they do it? I have before and i've never known why mainly just because i want to feel it but i have no ... (81 words)

I dont seem to have goals in life. I'm in a long distance relationship and she's starting to annoy me a bit. Whats happening???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i need some help! first of all i wanted to know how to not feel so insecure about myself and hav a vision in my life to achieve a goal? i dnt hava vision i cnt seem myself going any where, even tho i study and wnt a degree i jus have no vision to i duno y! i also wanted to k... (243 words)

My friend is Bi curious and I love her! She said she wanted to experiment with me. Should I tell her I love her????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I hope you can help! I'm 20 and I was recently joking with my friend that's also a girl that I would give her oral sex and have sex with her because she has never had it and I said that she is missing out on it! She's never had any sexual experience so I said I would do... (215 words)

He's so controlling towards me all the time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months coming to 10 months, since we've been together we have so many arguments and hes so possessive, he always tells me what I can and can't do, he's stopped me from seeing my friends even at work I'm not allowed to talk to the other staff, ... (139 words)

How can I tell if he's cheating on me when he lives 40 minutes away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am currently in a relationship and he lives about 40 minutes away from me. We get to see each other about once a week and speak by text quite frequently. We have just booked a trip away together and he tells me he likes me all the time but I get the feeling he is cheating ... (83 words)

Should I wait around or should I just leave and forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have lived together for about 2 years. I love him dearly, and we have had some trust issues lately. He has lied to me a few times about dumb things so it made me be a little paranoid. He doesn't like the fact that I snoop through his stuff and ask questions. ... (271 words)

My fiance cheated and she's pregnant. He told her in front of me that he doesn't love her but will I ever trust him again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out a few months ago that my Fiance had been cheating on me for 2years and the girl is now pregnant. He told her infront of me that he doesnt love her and has always loved me but couldnt seem to get rid of her. Will i ever be able to trust him again? ... (56 words)

We got on great, then she went back to her ex. Would our age difference of been a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 34, single male, no kids. Through my workplace, I met a wonderful, caring, attractive, 21 year old woman. She'd been dating her boyfriend for two years, but recently stopped their relationship after she discovered he had cheated on her. Her and I had an innocent ... (258 words)

I helped a mate out when they split from their partner. Now they're interested in me but I'm married! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a predicament partially of my own making and I don't know the way out. I'm pretty certain I'm confused. I've been married/involved for the past decade. A friend of mine has been going through some rough times with his relationship of 4 years. I offered emotiona... (303 words)

I'm 11 and me and my girlfriend keep breaking up. Should we be together? Help please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - me and my girlfreind keep breaking up and getting back together over and over should we be together i am eleven... (21 words)

I'm not keen on giving oral. But I want to please him. I feel a bit guilty?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok well me (20) and my new boyfriend (26) have started having sex and hes given me oral but i havent given him yet because it makes me feel sick doing it so ive only done it twice before. i want to please him but im worried as i will be rubbish as ive only done it twice, plus i ... (146 words)

We are seperated because i dont feel I love him anymore. Have I done the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 1 year and I have off and on felt that I was not in love with my husband. I always tried to push the thoughts off and not think about them because he is so good to me. Finally, I started to have panic attacks (they were horrible!) and I fessed up to him, ... (199 words)

My boyfriend is a Sikh and his family cant find out abous us. I cant bear to lose him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a BIG problem and its driving me and my boyfriend up the wall. The thing is he's a Sikh and he can't do certain things like have a girlfriend so his family don't exactly know about us... we plan to tell them in two years, But if they find out before his family will ... (137 words)

My wife has been emotional since coming back from a school trip. She's a teacher. How can I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i've been happily married to my wife for 7 yrs now, she works in a school(teacher) and has recently come back off this adventure holiday type thing that is arranged for 1 week in the summer holidays, there was her and about 6 more teachers went.She rang me 3 times when she ... (308 words)

I've gone on the pill but now I'm worried my mum will find out? I'm a teen..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have Just Went To The Doctors to Get The Pill.. But Now Im Scared My Mum Finds Out.. I Cant Tell Her Why I Have Them Because She Will Go Crazy, What Should I Say?... (36 words)

Drinking can make my guy go into a rage. I've met someone nice but dont know who to be with???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I've got myself into a bit of a dilemma. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six years however in the beginning of the relationship he was very wild. He used to become violent when drinking, he cheated on me, took drugs. Then I forgave him for cheating... (251 words)

He loses his erection when it comes to condoms. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend never has any problems getting an erection during foreplay. He can whenever and wherever. But when it comes to sex he goes limp. He says its due to nerves. Ive tried helping him right before but when he goes to put the condom on it goes limp and we can not get ... (95 words)

The condom kept splitting, I'm not worried, I've got no symptoms. But what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and frequently have sex. The condom always seems to split and we're going to go to the Doctors soon so I can get put on the pill. Because the condoms have been breaking we got worried so we decided I'm going to go ... (133 words)

We managed a long distance relationship but her parents dont like me! What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a deep situation and I almost feel as if all hope is lost. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year and 4 months now, and we've had our rough times, but worked out just about every problem, even the distance issue, because she is a Junior in High School a... (580 words)

I'm not keen on my mother-in-law. My spouse would love us to get along. Any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i deal with a hypocrite mother-in-law and still have a great relationship with my spouse? he loves me and his mom and would want me and her to have a good relationship.... (35 words)

I lost my virginity 2 days ago. We used protection but I feel bloated and ill. Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 17 and lost my virginity 2 days ago, it was protected sex as he wore a condom. It hurt when while having sex and i bled a little but afterwards i felt fine. But the day after i felt a little sick and bloated and i still feel like that today. Is that anything to do with ... (95 words)

I want to make our anniversary really special

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey ladies I was wondering...I what is the best thing a guy has ever done 4 u...I've done a lot 4 my girlfriend and our 1 year is coming up next weekend...and I want 2 do the best thing ever...I was thinking about making all her favorite foods and setting the up on a blanket in ... (97 words)

I cant get over my work colleague

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've mentioned before on here that I've fallen big time for a colleague, I've known here for 3 years now and over the last year really fallen for her, sadly she doesn't feel the same way and much as it hurts I accept I can't change that. We used to be 'mates', we disagree ... (184 words)

I have been having sex with a married man. He says he loves me and his family. Could he just be after sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a colleague at work who is married with a 3 year old kid..i was new and got atrracted to him, i was the only one single in the office and many guys wants to court me, but i fell inlove with this married man and we see each other secretly,we had sex always, even inside ... (86 words)

Two weeks ago I lost my dad to a massive heart attack. He was still young and I don't know what to do. There's such an empty silence in my life and in our house.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Two weeks ago I lost my dad to a massive heart attack. He was still young and I don't know what to do. There's such an empty silence in my life and in our house. He was always here because he was retired due to ill health. I miss him so much. I come home exspecting him to be ... (190 words)

When she and I started having sex she always and still does complain about pain but my concern is that her vagina does not seem tight at all.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a problem with my girlfriend but she doesn't know of it. She is not a virgin (neither am I); she said she had very infrequent sex with her ex who by the way took her virginity. Furthermore she never bled with him nor with me. They had sex maybe 5-6 time over a one ... (160 words)

Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating? Its only four years. Just look at my parents they're six years apart and they love each other and my friend's parents are fifteen years apart. But when young people date at a young age at ... (94 words)

My ex is getting married next week and I'm still in love with him.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm still in love with my ex and he is getting married next week.. it still hurts inside.. what should I do? I really need advice asap!!pls..... (27 words)

I've got no confidence... any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay this is gonna sound lame to some of you, but i have no confidence...okay lemme explain, ive had borderline anorexia twice and ahve been thru depression, not a good combination i know. now to add to that ive been screwed around a few times and have now lost any last bit of ... (81 words)

We never seem to be alone to try to have sex together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to have sex with my boyfriend and he says he wants to as well but we never have a place to do it because there are people always in my house and his so we can never be alone and also I wouldn't know what would start us off, would it be a sexy line or should I ... (63 words)

Do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn't want to know? I'm 44 she's 22.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age - Please help I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now, I do have a past, people have been telling her things about me. Lately she's always busy or she says she has a lot on, do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn't want to know. I'm 44 she's 22.... (60 words)

I want a friend to tell my teacher I love him

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, i have a real bad problem. For about 8 months now ive really really fancied my teacher, and its beyond a crush, i kind of love him. Hes all im thinking about to be honest. Lately its getting so bad, that when i start college, im gonig to go back to school to pick ... (212 words)

My parters brother in law keeps coming on to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age - Hello, I sincerely hope you can help as i do not know if i am right to be concerned here....my partners brother in law keeps 'coming on to her' he has once grabbed her and kissed her and on another occasion entered her bedroom while she was alone in the house and made s... (130 words)

What can I do to get our relationship back the way it was?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a week ago his mates told me he has cheated on me but we talked and we said we would give it another go. He apologised and i knew he meant it because he was crying and he told me he has not cried since his grandad died. What ... (73 words)

I am 14 and fancy my 48 year old married uncle

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 14 and i fancy my uncle who is 48 and has a wife and two children. everytime i see him i have to wait before i go out otherwise it makes me nervous and i dont know what to do! please help me. thank you Carla ... (49 words)

How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted to make love with her but she ... (79 words)

He is wonderful when we are together, but a jerk when we are apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hey aunts. hrmm, i've written quite a few posts within the past few weeks. i'll give u the detailed story... i was with my boyfriend for 8 months and we broke up for 2 months with ALOT of troubles within that two months he, had other girls over, liked his ex and and... (471 words)

He broke up with me and I texted him that I love him but got no reply!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age - My ex has been to pick up his things and we sat and chatted for a whole hour and a half and he was saying things like he needs time off work and hes not feeling well etc. He works as a Taxi Driver and lives over 200 miles away we met on the internet and were going out together ... (270 words)

How can I get rid of these awful headaches?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

- I suffer from cluster headaches. They are like migraines, but they come at the same time everyday and can last up to over a month with me. The best way I can describe it is a feeling like someone is trying to push out my left eye from inside of my head with an ice pick. ... (193 words)

I am a pathological lier

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've lied so much, about stupid things (pregnancy, boyfriends that don't exist) but I don't know why I do it. I sort of black out and I just say things I don't mean, but I can't tell the truth because people will think I'm doing it on purpose and just being an attention seeking ... (98 words)

My boyfriend is breaking up with me cause he says I dont trust him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi,my partner said he is leaving me!!!!!!! he recently found out that he has an 18 year old daughter from a woman he went out with at school, then had a 1 night stand with her a few years later, i accepted he had a daughter, we havent got kids together but my daughter looks up ... (177 words)

My friend is really bugging me about our size differance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and lately my friend has been bugging me, she is kinda overweight and says its weird that im two sizes smaller in clothes than her because we look the same, and the other day i did a test to find my BMI (body mass index) which shows you if you are a healthy weight or ... (156 words)

What does this recurring dream mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Since the beginning of the week Ive been having the same dream everyday. It includes me and a guy, the situation is somewhat complicated but I have alot of feelings for him we are just not in a together. In the dream, I'm taking the train to and from home. The guy meets me in ... (87 words)

I'm 14 and i can hear my mum and her boyfriend in the next bedroom. I also found some condoms in her bag! I'm sickened!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and my mom and dad are split up but my mom has a boyfriend and after about 3 months of them going out he started to sleep in our house sometimes, he is nice but at night i cry myself to sleep because i can hear my mom and him moaning and their bed creaking (well its ... (140 words)

I think my mum is looking at porn and joined a dating site, but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and recently i have found porn on the family computer, the only people who use it are my mom and brother who is 13 (my mom and dad are broken up but my mom is with someone now). i was on bebo (a site where you talk to friends from school and share videos etc) when i ... (164 words)

I have to look stunning the next time i see my ex. Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have to look absolutly amazing the next time i see my ex. so does any one have any tips how to look absolutly flauless. much appreciation, Xxx ... (30 words)

I've been with him 4 yrs but now he's started disrespecting me. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my bf for4 yrs, sex was great till he started calling me names, disrepecting me.Just verybally abusing me to the point that I more sad and now I question myself of how good of a person I am, and what he thinks of me. Because of this, I feel that he doe... (129 words)

Attracted to my new girlfriend's friend (who's engaged)... !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a girl for about a month now and everything is going really well. We get on well and the attaction is there. I live with my house mate and have done for some time now. Recently a new girl started work at her business and they have become good friends. We ... (203 words)

I have a girlfriend but have met someone I like more. But she is engaged. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

He said we would get married then I caught him with a girl in his bedroom. It's hurt so much. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a relationship with this guy who always tells me he loves me so much. we have been in this relationship for two years now. i also love him so much. He has gone to the extent of introducing me to all his family members. he has promised to marry me soo... (219 words)

I'm 20 and haven't yet even kissed a girl. Am i odd or is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

- My story is a depressing one. I'm 20 and whilst most of my friends keep talking about having sex, I still have yet to kiss a girl. I'm not talking about a quick one on the lips, I mean a proper snog. Never. Am I an odd case or is this fairly common?... (56 words)

Torn between two lovers...who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I like two amazing guys and I dont know what to do. The first guy B, is very attractive, sweet, caring, loving, is always there when i need him and makes me the center of his world.B is also very clingy and is everything opposite of myself. The second guy N, is differen... (282 words)

Why do guys eye up other women? I do so much for his family but he doesn't seem to care about mine.Is there something wrong with our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Do i deserve to be treated this way? i am a mother of 4 children...going on 5 children. my common-law husband and i have been together for 11 years. he has been great with the kids, chores around the house, and our sex life is fine.but then problem here is that he works where ... (239 words)

He was neglecting me so I ended it. I wanted him to chase me but he now says he needs time. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I cant believe I am writing this, but I have really reached the bottom of the barrel. Its simple I started dating a guy that chased me for a very very very long time and he did everything write from the beginning. We dates for three monhts and the first two months wer... (447 words)

Did I cheat or do I have worry issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Umm this is a wierd one but I am a real worrier and need to know that I am just snowballing a worry. Anyway, Im in a relationship with a person a I love very much. I went out with the girls one night and saw one of my boyfs friends out and latched onto him bought him a drink ... (194 words)

He treats me bad and I feel i should leave. I need some strength...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Thank you for you support through your advice. I have been with the guy am talking about for almost 4 years. We moved for 1 and half year and without any reason he left me. I never went into any relationship again because I loved him. After 3 years he came back and being s... (446 words)

She's admitted she's having an affair but how do i trust her now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 August 2007 (M)

age - I have just found out that my wife is having an affair and she admits she is having sex with the guy.she says it is now over because i have found out ,what shall i do to beleive her because she will not tell me who the guy is even if it breaks our marraige up she says she will ... (65 words)

I think he's addicted to the gym. It bothers me. Am I being selfish???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have been with my bfriend for 1 year we live toghether and are happy, the thing is he is always at the gym! we both work fulltime, he goes to the gym after work and on saturdays, he finishs work at 5pm and doesnt get home until 8.30ish pm! he has always done this, wen i ... (151 words)

I'm having a lesbian romance, but I dont know how much chance we have of this working?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello and thank you in advance for your advice. Sorry the back ground is so long but my question wouldt make sense without it. Im a 26yr old gay woman, im currently working as a head of year in an english high school, studying hard to earn the extra qualifications to become a... (655 words)

My guy doesn't seem interested anymore. What do you think?

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30 August 2007 (F)

- Hi there, well could anyone help me. Ive been with this bloke for 5 months now and yeah i really like him, but recently hes been messing with ma head. Two weeks ago we had a big arguement over another girl (i was drunk) well after that ngt i texted to say sorry and he igno... (198 words)

My boyfriend seems to be ignoring me and saying I'm harassing him!

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have sent sms msgs to my fiancee and he has not replied saying he is busy always supposedly in meetings (like 12hrs for 4 days in a row) (which i find impssible to believe). later he replies saying "this is harassment!" Someone who says something like that wouldnt say some... (71 words)

Why do I allow myself to go back to a cheating woman?

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30 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i had this xgirlfriend(very pretty) who is again showing sign of interest in me, she says that she is not having an afair with anyone, but i know from a very good source that she is having sex with a guy, i will be seeing her very soon, is there anyway that i can confirm that ... (71 words)

I lied to her and now she is ignoring me. What can I do???

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30 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody plzz help me. i cant live without her but she just left me and went away. I told a lie to her and she got it frm my frends gurlfriend. from that day she is ignoring, but is that right? I just lied to her because it was good for her but what can i do to get her back... (64 words)

Why do I thrive on attention from this unavailable man?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok well recently like a month ago a friend started text messaging me his um "secrets" which I blew off because well it was really shocking and funny to get a random text of his private parts. He has a girlfriend they have been together for a while, I don't actually know her, ... (223 words)

My issue is that I am confused on what might be considered "cheating." I have never physically done anything with anyone else but when I see a guy I find gorgeous I start to lust for him.

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and have a very open relationship when it comes to communication. We love each other very much and plan to get married someday when we are both ready. This is my first relationship and he is my first everything. My issue is that ... (165 words)

We met online and now he wants to meet me but I'm not who I said I am and I'm already married!

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Theres this guy I met online while selling him a membership to an adult site. Anyway, To make a long story short we ended up talking on MSN and on the phone for about a month already and now he wants to meet me. I have already made up several stories as to why we can't meet ... (158 words)

He got back with his ex but he calls and texts me every day. What is he playing at?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been seeing this lad for 2 months in which time he admitted he had strong feelings for me and phoned and texted me everyday. A month ago he told me that his ex had been back in touch and that she wanted to give their relationship another go, he has decided to give it ... (244 words)

Will this marriage be successful given the age gap and me becoming a step-mom?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 yrs. old and in love with widowed 40 yrs. (lost his wife on 25th April 07) having a son 11 yrs. old and daughter 6 yrs. old. He also loves me a lot. We know each other from a year. I feel very secure and complete with him and he also cannot live without me. He wants to ... (108 words)

I love him with all my heart but a part of me wants to try new things.

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating my boyfriend in 6th grade. (I know that's young). We dated for 2 years and then broke up for a year and neither of us dated anyone else. when I was in 8th and him in 9th. We got back together last year and have been together for about 10 months since then. ... (274 words)

How do I overcome jealousy? And why am I such a jealous girlfriend?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. He is great, he has never cheated on me and I'm positive he never will because he has such good morals and high standards with how to treat women. Knowing this I do not understand why I am such a jealous girlfriend. He doesn't ... (133 words)

So close to my daughter feel like I'm losing her to her boyfriend... Anyone feel the same?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I have a daughter who has recently fell in love with her long time boyfriend. I think that he is a great guy, with some flaws of his past, but who doesn't. Anyway, I like him, but do not like having to share my daughter's heart with him. I was a single mother fo... (226 words)

I am 14, pregnant and haven't told anybody! What do I do?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i had sex with my bf and we used a condom and i still got pregnent, I'm only 14 and nobody knows, not even my bf, I'm scared to tell anyone, my mom said if i ever got pregnant that i would have to get an abortion. What do i do??? HELP PLEASE... (58 words)

Are we at the end of the road?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. Me and my partner have been together for 6.5 years, but i need to know if it is normal for a man to cause arguments everyday and for me to fight for any attention. i trully love him but need to know are we at the end of the road?... (53 words)

My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him who it was, he said someone ... (423 words)

I don't want my increased desire for sex to ruin my marriage, my husband says I'm an addict!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 and married. my husband in the begining of our courtship was able to keep up and now he says i want it all the time and i am a sex addict and he is 26. I do want it everyday many times and that is how i was since 14 as well and have not changed in fact my urge has ... (121 words)

I've just slept with my best friend's boyfriend....

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So my problam is kind of confusing.... me {Amanda} and my bestfriend {Taylor} are going out with these two guys {Dylan and Josh}. Taylor and Josh have been going out for over a year and a half and me and Dylan have only been going out for about 3 months but for about the whole ... (217 words)

Having a mild depression, what can I expect after a break-up, and how can I get over this?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This is my first break-up ever and neither does my mother, sister or best friend had ever had this experience. What can I expect after a break-up?. I just took an online depression quiz and it seems I might have a mild depression. I'm constantly trying to cheer myself up but I ... (69 words)

Just because it wasn't physical, doesn't mean it wasn't bad! Now he acts Mr Nice, how to deal with the feelings of wanting to get back?

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30 August 2007 (F)

- I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago. My reasons for breaking up with him was because he was emotionaly abusive and seemed to have a narcissistic personality. At first I didnt want to break up with him because despite how badly he treated me, he could be a very nice and loving ... (492 words)

I've had enough! My 2 children are confused, our bank is drained, and my brain is strained...

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have 2 young children together, and he has a 12 year old from a previous relationship. The "Baby's Momma Drama" is an ongoing thing, IN and OUT of court for numerous FALSE allegations, a SEVERE case of Parent-Alienation. ... (354 words)

I felt jealous, because I'd consider a date this invitation to lunch! Am I overreacting?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Firstly, thanks for reading my question and would really appreciate any advices. I am quite confused at moment, do not know what to do. I am having relationship with this guy for almost 2 years and been living together. And before this, I had never have that close relationship, ... (146 words)

Problem in keeping the erection. Please help!

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30 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. When I masturbate I can get pretty hard but I think it may be harder for me than most people, but I can definitely get there. When I try to have sex with my girlfriend I can't ever make it hard! And she is always so in the mood, everytime I am about to put on ... (130 words)

I was talking to him and he had to go, all he said was night and didn't say I love you or anything. I'm upset and don't know if I should mention this to him

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - HELP ME PLEASE I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DOO ! ! ! I went away for a week not seeing my boyfriend. I've come back and things have gone okay, up till the other night at a party he was all flirty with all the other girls especially my best friend, I was talking to him and he ha... (113 words)

We have been together for 2 years and I flirt a lot with other guys. I have never cheated, just love the attention...

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a relationship and we get into it a lot We have been together for 2 years and I flirt a lot with other guys. I have never cheated, just love the attention and I am in love with my man, I just can't seem to keep him as the only man that gives me attention he doesn't ... (106 words)

I would never have sex with someone under 16, but is it ok, (or legal) for me to go out with her, or do some of the things she is talking about.

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30 August 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and have been mates with this girl who is 14 (nearly 15) for a while now. She has just revealed that she likes me, and has been giving me some vivid messages about what she wants me to do to her. I do like her, but am worried about the age issues. She does seem in... (170 words)

Do men really CARE, or is their mind set to sexual desires, generally speaking?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this is just a general question for all the guys out there. Do guys really CARE about girls? Do they love us like we love them? or is your mind 99% sexual desires? just trying to get the gist of it.... (46 words)

Can I leave home, being 16?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, here's the deal, i want to get out of my mom's house but i can't b/c im 16. Can i really do that? Just leave my mom's place?... (29 words)

Woman, started to develop intimate feelings for a younger girl, what can I do to help that?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 26 year old female going onto 27, recently I've started to have intimate feelings about a 17, nearly 18 year old girl... Do you think this is disgusting? She's like the total opposite of me, but she makes me laugh with such ease. She's also sexualy inexperienced, what ... (68 words)

Friends have told me to go to a prostitute in compensation for my high sex drive! Is it right, since I have a girlfriend?

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30 August 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My urge for sex has abnormaly gone so crazy that even my girlfriend just can't take it all the time. Some friends have told me to try out prostitutes to save my relationship. Do you think it's right?... (39 words)

I think this is wrong but I'm not sure...

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my boyfriend is 16 im turning 13 in december is this wrong? I think it is but im not sure.... (21 words)

He told me he prefers oral over regular sex? Is that normal?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - It is normal for a guy to prefer head over regular sex? My guy loves for me to go down on him... now don't get me wrong... he loves to have sex as well but he told me that he prefers head over sex. Now is that a normal guy thing or should I be kinda hurt by that? I really don't ... (68 words)

What relation is to me the mum's cousin?

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am seeing MY MUM'S cousin what relation is he to me is he my 2nd cousin or 1st cousin. Can anyone share any light on this and help me.... (30 words)

I have come to terms with wanting to have sex with a guy, to see what it is like. I just don't know how to go about it.

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30 August 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am constantly fantasizing about sex with a man. Not as much as fantasize about women but the gay fantasy was always there. I have a friend who is openly gay... I would feel safe experimenting with him. I have come to terms with wanting to have sex with a guy, to see what it ... (66 words)

The engagement ring is beautiful, but not the one I envisioned wearing for the rest of life; worried he'd be hurt if I want to change it...

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30 August 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6 months recently proposed. After discussing, we decided to wait on the engagement because it seemed too early. I'm very much in love with him, but I wanted more time before that kind of commitment. Our relationship is going strong 1 month later, but I kee... (201 words)