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writes: I love my boyfriend we been together 4 years and got a daughter. He got caught a lot of times talking to other women on the phone, that's even after the baby was born. I still feel he does it, he claims he don't but I can't trust him and every time we go out he always looks at other women and he says he doesn't. We can't even go in a store together. What should I do? We have a family but his old ways are coming back. He claims they're no one else, he just looks but man, what am I to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, accused +, writes (5 August 2007):
 I can understand where you are coming from on this one, I've got a friend who's BF does her the same way and they too have a daughter.... I've been around when he's done it and I know what I felt like and I was just a visitor.... My advice is seriously tell him and stand strong behind what you feel, because if he can disrespect you like that, then you don't need him... And yes a man will look, as do women. But there's a little thing called RESPECT, and if someone your in love with has it for you then they would know it hurts.... Tell him how it makes you feel, and if he does not stop then you will move on... Trust me If he can't stop. then let him go.... Best of luck
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reader, edsbabygirl +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Jsut remember your the one he has a daughter with. Your the one he is coming home to every night. You are the one he loves. You should look with him and realize all you have that she doesnt, him. I know that with my boyfriend, I point the girl out before he notices her so it feels like he looked because I told him to and not on his own!
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