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writes: Does my tutor fancy me?Right now I'm in school, one of my subjects is tech design. I have this male teacher whos like 25 26ish. I spend loads of time in the tech rooms in my free lessons so i spend loads of time with him.A month or two ago was the prom which he was at and I was at. and i asked him to dance because i was abit drunk. n he was like - 'i wanted a drink but i'd prefer to dance with you' so we danced and he was like stairing at me and holding my hands. then he offered me a drink, and we sat talking for ages, then when i was leaving he was saying 'oh no dont go' and stuff, so i had afew pictures with him and hes like really hugging me in them.We were back in school then the week after and he was just talking to me again, and in my lesson he came and sat right by me, but we do have like two teachers at once and only about 5 people in my class, so i guess it wasnt that unusual. Then the wednesday after some of our classes tech work was on display in this place, so some of my class and all the tutors were there, he had his girlfriend with him at the night and as we were arriving, he was too, and he came in the lift with me and my friend while he girlfriend went up the stairs, which i thought was abit wierd,In the lift he was saying stuff like 'wanna go back down? ;)' and was joking that he was gonna get out of the lift looking all red and roughed up, i noticed when he was talking to me aswell he was sort of stairing at me a little bit longer than you normally do, which my friend also noticed. Then when we were leaving he was with his girlfried abit, but then came over to me and my friends from school and asked if we wanted to go and have a drink with the tutors, so we said ok.We didn't end up going in the but we walked around for a bit, and then when we were leaving, i was linking arms with one of the other man tutor,so that he'd make me look older so i wouldnt get checked by the bouncers, and he waved good bye to everyone else and then came over to the teacher i was with and my friends said it loked as if he wanted to come over 2 me.So then on the way home, one of my friends said 'kate u'll have to be careful there!' and i was quite like 'why?' and she said 'its obvious he likes you!', so it wasn't just me who thought it - it was others too..On the day of our semi-finals results, he was at the college, it was in the middle of the holidays, so we were there in just normal clothes, and I'd told my friend all about what he'd been like with me up until then, and she was keeping an eye out for any signs. We both noticed that as soon as I went in to get my results, he clocked onto me, and i could see him looking at me in the corner of my eye...and my friend said that he was looking over his shoulder at me alot.I saw him the week after in other results too when i went to get my friends results with her, and he came up to me and was like 'hiya kate!' - i just went 'hi' - i think he knew the game i was playing, as if i didnt want to talk to him.I told him once that I'd had a relationship with this boy, and it turned out he was in school with him. and I think him knowing that i'd had a boyfriend who was just a little bit younger than him changed his opinion of me.He's only 8 years older than me, which isn't really that much - as im practically 18, and - we obviously share the exact same interests - as we spend so much time together making things. Obviously I don't think he's in love with me or anything!!!! He has a girlfriend etc. I think it's just flattering to have someone act like this with you? I think he knows that if he flirts, he'll get a flirty response off me? But you wouldn't just randomly flirty with anyone?What do people think about thatdoes he like me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): i think u r looking for all the wrong signs....maybe he is being flirty but it is not worth loosin his career over and maybe he is just being nice. he has a girlfriend so leave it at tht!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): Your a child he's your teacher if he does then he is not worth knowing. Wait until you've left school or he will lose his career. It is a nice fantasy that I have experienced but that's all it should be until you are no longer at school. Work hard and have fun but don't pursue him.
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reader, penta  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 It's possible that he likes you, but if you care for him at all cut him off. He will get fired if any HINT of a relationship between the two of you (real or imagined) gets to anyone in authority. I know its fun to have him as a suitor, especially if he's as great as you say, but this is his career. You're a student.
You might tell him that you'd like to look him up when you're out of school, but that for now you're going to stop being as friendly, with a smile. Then cut him off. He'll know why, and he'll understand.
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