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writes:Alright I'm not exactly sure if one of my co-workers is interested in me or not. There are some signs that I believe he is. Such as in one aspect of my job I put products back on the shelves when they are not wanted. Once he threw a pack of pads at me as I was walking away in our back room. Was this flirting? Also he always comes to my check stand when I'm cashiering. Also once when he was doing shopping I walked back and didn't say anything and he lightly smacked me with some paper to I suppose get my attention. He also talks with me quite a bit. But I'm still confused. Also their is an age gap between us. I've made my age clear but he doesn't tell anyone his. Hm. ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also want to just thank you guys who've answered, it gives me some perspective on the situation! =) Thanks a billion!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks i appreciate that. I hope so because i'm not really interested. Today though i found out that he may be a few years younger than i originally thought. It's one sided because he knows my age but he's one of those "i don't reveal mine" type of guys. I'm going to just go with it. I've already established that he's just a flirt. Haha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks i appreciate that. I hope so because i'm not really interested. Today though i found out that he may be a few years younger than i originally thought. It's one sided because he knows my age but he's one of those "i don't reveal mine" type of guys. I'm going to just go with it. I've already established that he's just a flirt. Haha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): I been in this situation myself two times. Sounds like he's just flirting with you, maybe because of your age he won't make a move on you as that what happened to me. Just go with the flow and don't think of it so much
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reader, Katie-ann  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Hiya, I think you sound like a responsible adult and it sounds like he is flirting with you. There is nothing wrong with that! You should find it flattering! If not knowing his age is bothering you then talk to him about it? You need to ask yourself if you like him? If you do then try flirting back and see where it takes you. Hope this helps you,Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): Yeah he is flirting with you. Do you like him? Well he is definitely flirting with you but now that you know this, just still let HIM initiate EVERYTHING. If you want to show him you like him back just flirt back with him. Throw a box of tampons back at him. Just flirt back to let him know you are interested. But let him ask you out, and confess how he feels FIRST. I am a firm believer that a guy should pursue a girl. Funny thing is I don't play games. If I like you, you WILL know it. But I will never ask a guy out or initiate anything further thatn flirting. I just give them lots of hints and let them initiate the rest. I figure if they are worth my time they will ask me out. Funny thing is I met my bf at work too. And he also was a lot older than me. And the first day I started working, he asked me out for a drink. I said maybe. But I didn't call him. But I had just met him that day, you know what I mean? So for the next month or so he just became my favorite person at work and we would flirt. And I realised I liked him and I wanted him to ask me out (again) but it took him a while to build up the courage to do it again. So I just didn't say anything either. And he went to ny for vacation and when he got back he asked me out! And we have been inseperable ever since. He even told me that he liked the fact that I was so ladylike about it and the tension and suspense that builds up is really great and makes the end result so much more worth it. I'm telling you.
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