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writes:Well I like this guy named Jesse. He is going into the US coast guard next month and I'll be here alone. I want to tell him how I feel, but he is 18 and I'm 13 plus he has a girlfriend. But he always seems to like me. In church he always gives me hugs and stares at me like I'm amazing. Even my best friend has noticed it. I wanna tell him before he leaves but I don't know what to do. Please someone help me.thanks kendall
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (28 August 2007):
 Under normal circumstances i would say that 5 years in relationships in nothing. However when you are only 13 and the guy is 18 the gap is massive. He could also get into an awful lot of trouble for doing anything with you because you fall under the age of consent, because effectively he is a grown man and you are a child.
He also has a girfriend, so my advice would be to not tell him how you feel & move on.
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reader, Katie-ann +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Hiya, Its a difficult situation, firstly because he is so much older than you. I think you need to think, if you did tell Jesse what do you hope he will do? If he leaves his girlfriend for you, would you want this adult relationship; he will be breaking the law if you have a sexual relationhsip. It will also be very difficult to have a long distance relationship where you rarely see him. I think it would be worth letting go of him. At your age there will be plently more men out there, I promise!Hope this hepls, Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): He goes to church yet he likes 13 yr old girls! well...when your 18 you will realise how disgusting he is. I'm 17 and people your age aren't attractive at all, just kids. Just leave him alone and tell your dad he's staring at you
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): if i were u i would rather tell the guy what i think of him and how i feel...he's leaving and what if he do not come back, you'll regret it for the rest of your life, but keep in mind that you're still very young and there are plenty more people who's waiting out there to meet you. what you feel now for this guy will probably go away. but i suggest you tell him how you feel and don't worry about his gf the guy is not married to her. RIGHT? good luck keep well
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