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writes:I told my boyfriend we never have any fun outing anymore. All we do is sit at home and he’s on his computer and I’m on my computer. I wanted to go to interesting places that I can have a memorable weekend. He agreed with me and said we’ll do something different this weekend. I was thinking it’ll be nice for my boyfriend to plan something and surprise me. Like many other guys, my boyfriend isn’t the planning/surprise type. He asked me to look into any cool plays or music concerts this coming weekend. I’m okay with finding cool things to do, but it isn’t the same when your sweet boyfriend plans it and brings you there. Am I expecting too much from him? He’s busy with his work stuff and probably doesn’t have the same amount of time as me to plan things out to do during the weekend. Also, anyone have any unique suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Some guys just aren't good at stuff like that. But maybe he will learn from your example. Plan something fun and don't be afraid to do it a few more times. Perhaps he will eventually take the initiative once he figures out it's not rocket science. My b/f and I love to visit a trendy nearby city and bar hop in the college district, listening to all the different bands and drinking cool and unusual drinks. But if that's not your thing then plays, concerts, symphonies, and comedy acts are also a good choice. It all depends on what the two of you enjoy. At least he agreed that it was time to do something more exciting than sit in front of your computer screens. I hope you have a great time!
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