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writes:My boyfriend and me are 16, weve been going out 4.5 months, we argue, but its only because of silly things, he keeps doing things to start off arguements, such as planning on seeing me then texting me last minuite saying he'd rather see his best friend, he spends almost every night with his bestfriend and is constantly making me feel left out, he rushes off to see him, goes to parties without me, when i do go to parties he rushes off. Hes a flirt, but i dont think he realises hes flirting.i was in a relationship before with a boy for a year, and on our year anniversary he cheated on me with my best friend. i was totally heartbroken.i dont want to go through that again.we also both start college soon.i dont know what i should do?stay with him and argue?or break up and be heartbroken?
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reader, xxlaurenxx +, writes (29 August 2007):
okayyy;; :get him to sit down with you and tell him that you want to be noticed and not be used. Tell him he can spend time with his mate but he has to spend time with you or else there is no point in going out. as for the flirting keep your eye on him. If anything happens that you dont feel comfortable or happy with break up with him. Break ups are always differcult but you dont sound very happy. try to get him to change his ways and if he doesnt get rid of him and be strong you deserve ALOT beeter!xx
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (28 August 2007):
 does your boyfriend know you ar feeling this way?he may not notice what he is doing to you otherwise honey he is playing games with your heart and i realise your insecurites may be ruling your head at the moment but you must overcome that and realize that this lad is no good for you and you deserve better than to be with someone like this so assert yourself!tell yourself you are beautiful, you deserve better ten times and then ask yourself do i deserve this?you may be scared to be heart broken but there are better guys out there for you ones who deserve your love and attention he is treating you horribly you both start college soon do you really want to be hurt in school?added stressed to your studies is unnessasary with starting your new college soon look at is as a fresh start new chances opportunites and fun times/experiances if you still wish to be with this guy then assert yourself bite the bullet and aim!xlovex
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reader, flower girl +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Babe i would get rid now, you have only been together 41/2 months and he is already treating you like this.
If you don't want your relationship to end up like the last one did then you need to toughen up and call the shots, you will get over this and like you say you will be starting college soon so there will be plenty of opportunity to meet new people and get yourself out and have some fun.
Take care.xx.
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