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I'm 15 and met a guy on holiday. I love him but he lives 9 hours away! How do we work this?

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Question - (28 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met an amazing guy on holiday - we've slept together and already said "i love you" to each other. Now I've come back home to England and I miss him so much...I want to be with him and am considering staying with him next time I visit (in 4 months). Problem is I'm only 15, I don't know how to work my way round this as he is 9 hours away by plane but I need to be with him.

Any suggestions?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007):

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artistical_bumblebee, spanna & A female reader(anonymous)- those were great answers, they made me realize how a wasn't really thinking this through. Thanks for your answers [=

Xx...Lenii...xX -- I was on holiday for just over 2 weeks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007):

Yes - forget him. Sorry, but this is completely impractical. He lives NINE HOURS from you by PLANE? How on earth are you going to find the time - let alone air fare money - to see him?

Holiday romances are fun, but they almost never last.

Besides, at 15 you should not even be sleeping with any boys. You are very young, and below the legal age (16). Give yourself a few more years. Plenty of time for that!

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A female reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (28 August 2007):

artistical_bumblebee agony auntdarlin think this situation over carefully there is no way it will work out you are way to young to understand what love is honey i know you may not like what i have said so far but it is the truth at this age you have no experianced real love you can not possibly understand what it is , why did you sleep with him?that was not the best of actions i hope you used protection (condoms/the pill)this is infatuation rather than love and you can not be sure if he likes you the same way holiday romances are fun but they never last that long and are often only for holidays which is why i am advising you to move on and find other boy potential for i am sure you a beautiful girl and have many prospects to give your life up for some lad is silly and i am sure your parents will say the same thing there are other guys out there you just have to find them stop dwelling on this lad he is not worth the rush enjoy your life before rushing into things xlovex

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007):

may i ask how long you were on this holiday for?

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