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*exiestgirlalive18
writes:Well me and my boyfriend were going to have sex last night and I thought I would jack him off and then we would have some fun and then f*ck. Well after I jacked him off about 5 minutes later he wasnt in the mood anymore. Does that mean he isnt into me anymore and Idont understand what is going on. That is how he is most of the time. I really hate getting him in the mood all the time. I can do that but it takes the feeling out of me if i always have to get him in the mood. whatcan i do about this i need some advice and help?Thanks
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reader, samohir  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 If i were in your place i would be lazy one next time, leaving him to "lead" the game next time. See what will happen. If he s making effort to make you hot than its ok if not means he is just pure chauvinist pleasure seeker.
Thats my opinion
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reader, Beckto +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Usually after a guy climaxes, they get really tired and many fall asleep. It's a biological thing. So, I wouldn't take it personally if he is "done" after he climaxes.
As far as getting him in the mood, is it 50/50? Does he ever persue you sexually? If not, then I would be worried. If he does persue you sometimes, but poops out after he cums, then I wouldn't worry. But, if things seem very one-sided, and he doesn't seem to be interested in your pleasure, I'd talk to him.
Or even, next time you're in bed together, don't let him climax at first. Say that you want to have some fun before he can. Make a little game of it, and see how he takes it.
Good luck.
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