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writes:okay well the prob is i have a very special friend and i love him to peices in a brother-sister sort of a way. Im 14 and he is 17 and iv know him all my life, with our families being so very close.A Little while ago though on tour, being the last night tonnes of people came into our room and were chatting. as i was quite a bit younger than everyone else, i was much more tired and worn out than the others. my friend noticed this and came over, being caring and such a good friend, he cuddled up with me but we both ended up falling asleep together.And now everyons taking it the wrong way, and saying he was wrong to sleep with me, which isnt really what happened. its really annoying me now and i would love some advice on what to do ? also to people really think its that wrong ? xx Reply to this Question
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (29 August 2007):
 You could be playing with fire too. What happens if he rolls over in the night and wants to give it to you good? Half asleep, guards are down, you're in bed already, what the heck. It's a lot riskier that something will happen than if you didn't sleep together is all I'm saying. You're not little kids anymore. It's a lot to ask a boy to sleep with you and not expect something too. I'm sure there's a few gay men that have found out they weren't really gay when they slept with their best girl friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea i guess. But no nothing happened, we were just cuddling up and fell asleep. And yea i dont know if ur parents know, but they wouldnt mind and have seen it all before as wev'e grown up practically like brother and sister. And on family holidays together years ago, sometimes we would even end up sharing a double bed, i guess it was when were younger,but nothing has changed. And now all of a suden alot of our friends who were there, and a few others are taking it the wrong way! and its driving is insane.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (29 August 2007):
You did sleep with him whether you had sex or not. I don't know who everybody is, but you only have to answer to each other and to your parents or guardians. If nothing happened, then have a clear conscience, but you have to think about how it looks. If your parents ask, tell them the truth and that it will never happen again. Move on and ignore everyone else. Now I have to say this because only you and him know what really happened, so IF, and I say IF you did have sex, and you will again, make sure you use a condom.
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