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writes:What's wrong with loving someone who is a bad person? Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Hi
Nothing, but be prepared for a turbulant flight! Some people like the up n down emotions in a relationship with a bad boy/girl though. And that would be their choice.
I cant take it, i prefer a more even keel, someone on my wavelength. But ive got 2 children to think about too, that has to come into it.
Without you having put more, i couldnt comment anymore.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Its hard to say, i think you need to elaborate a little more on why he is a bad person and what he has done to make him bad.
Is he a two timer? Is he nasty to girls? Is he always in trouble?
k
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): Well if you are in love with someone who is a bully it would let them have more control over you and you wouldn't be able to let go of them as you love them. Then the bullying could get even worse, leading to serious injury or maybe even death.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): You can love someone who is bad like Jesus did, in the sense that you forgive them, but you also have to love yourself. That means you would not let them influence your life or affect you because it would spill over and spoil other relationships with family and friends. It may spoil your chances to make the most of your life and affect your children if your choose a bad person to marry. It says that you think little of yourself if you pick someone bad to love and place your self worth upon the idea that you can change them. You cant. People who get on in life select those who are their equals and worthy of them, they don't actively try to be with destructive people. It is OK to give love to people who are worse off than you through not their own fault. If they are cruel, unkind or self-destructive you can be dragged into that world.
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