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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Please a man's point of viewI have a situation that is forever nagging at me. The man i love is married. We were friends and dated before he got married. It did not work out because we were neither emotionally ready for a relationship. When he found out that i was pregnant he lost it and so did i. I am with the person i have a child with. When i was 5 months pregnant we both admitted on the phone that there was something missing in our relationship. Although, he still married her. Now 5 years later we still communicate and meet up and our intimate. 3 months ago i got up the guts to tell him that i love him, and he said it back. this situation is forever dragging on but i can't help having him in life. i always get the butterflies whenever i see him. i know this is wrong. he just had a baby too. horrible, i know. my question is does anyone think he is using me or we are using each other. i am not sexually attracted to my partner at all. this other person and i have admitted that we think about one another when were in bed with our partners. this is the only way i can have an orgasm. horrible, i know... leaving him is not an option b/c of my son. we don't fight hardly ever but the attraction is not there. i am so torn.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (28 August 2007):
By entering and reentering each others lives, you are confusing each other and using each other. Were you not emotionally ready before, or were you mentally incompatible while still having physical chemistry?
Perhaps if you made an exit from each others lives and don't distract each other so you can focus on your current relationships, things will start to go better and the gravity will break.
Try it for a while and if it doesn't work, you both may have to break things off with your current significant others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): Why are you posting this again? You got some responses from men.
You know that you had your chance with this man before he was married. You did not choose to follow through on the relationship then, and neither did he. No matter that you both claimed not to be emotionally ready.
I feel sorry for the man you are with now. He doesn't deserve to be betrayed like this.
I agree with you that its horrible. So selfish.
Well, you made your bed and you have to lay down in it.
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