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writes: how do i stop craving sex?every time i go to see a boy i feel the need to sleep with him. i always fee horny and kinky i always wanna have sex. im 15 so im not even old enough but i cant help it. i know ya probs think im a slag when you read this but i need help. i know its gone too far. i have slept with 9 people . =[ And i know i cant cope any more. One thing i do know and keep a check on is i am not pregnant and i am clean. Anyone know why i always want sex??pleasee pleaseee help mei cant go on with life feeling like a discusting little slag
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 November 2013):
 Okay 15 annoymous why did you dig this one up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2013): im 15 and feel the sameee way. i only had sex with one person a bunch of times and now i have a new boyfriend and hes a virgin. i crave it all the time but hes not on that level yet. what do i say or do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): Thats how i used to feel when i started having sex.I'm 18 now but two years ago i started dating this guy who was older than me he was 23.We started having sex early on our relationship. First it was twice a week and it went from the point that all we wanted to do was to have sex.A year later we broke up and i went crazy because i craved sex.I think if you have too much of something your bound to get addicted.I think you need to have a limit to sex and that will definitely help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): graham cell 0733610683 south africa . hi sweety we are given things that we feel with our body of a natural kind. know one thing, its only a feeling your body wants give in no one has the right to think you bad. but please talk with some one you trust .keep what you do on the down low as outhers with week minds will label you because they want what you feel and last but not least please use protection you got one life with all the passion its not wrong to feel and want . free thinker, down dirty south
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Are you most craving the affection? The naughtiness of it? The link to another person? The physical pleasures of it?I think the first step to slowing this trend down is to figure out exactly what aspect of sex is exerting such a strong pull on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): hiyuhh
well you are 15 and goin frew yuur hormones so yuu will want tuu ave sex and feel horney .
but sleepin with 9 people! tht is quite bad but if you know your protcted and safe then it makes it a lil better maybe you should juz learn how to say no to yourself and it dont make you a slag only if yuu were sleepin with your friends bfs or summit x
iam 14 and ii am still a virgin but ive never bee pressured into sex but sumtyms wen im with a boii ii juz wna but ii alwaiiz fynk why coz he will probz juz dump me init x
hope it works out xx
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reader, cuninglingwist +, writes (31 August 2007):
you are not a slag! your just a very sensual female, I knew a girl your age that was the same way, insatable.Guys doing her enywhere and everywhere, and her reputationruined, but she was a good girl, she found a girl that was just like her and became the best of friends and lovers, to day she is very happly married, and yes still is the best of friends with her girlfriend. just something to think about.shrinks will mess your head up and make you feel guilty, plus I dont know anybody whose prayers were ever answered!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): my tip?use an electric toothbrush to stimulate yourself yeah,safer than actually sex hope that helps
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reader, penta +, writes (29 August 2007):
 Check out this site: http://www.sexaa.org/12ques.htm -- it gives questions to see whether you're addicted to sex. If so, you might want to see a counselor.
If not, stop being so hard on yourself. Try getting acquainted with your hand, at home in private, so that you don't feel guilty about being with too many guys. Having a high libido isn't a problem unless it's causing you to feel shame, which it currently is.
Take care of yourself dear.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (29 August 2007):
 I want you to know that you are normal to have feelings. For some reason you feel compelled to act out on your urges. Some people have higher sexual drives than others. I suggest you see a female counselor to help you deal with your acting out, not to change who you are, but to temper your acting out on your urges. Try to stay with one guy for a while, as you grow older you will hopefully find a man that can meet your needs as you will his. Having too many partners can get you into a habit, and then your need to "quench your thirst" for variety can take away from living a complete and fulfilling life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): hello,
there could be a lot of reasons for your problem,
it could be that you have a very high sex drive, but at the age of 15, you should be concentrating on your studies and social activities rather than thinking of having sex all the time, i know you probably feel bad about this which is why you are posting here. and no, you are not a slag.
you need help, but you should also learn to take things a lot easier. you are not a slag and that's what you need to understand first, you may feel dirty but you are not, i am glad you are posting here with your issue rather than continuing with it, it is definitely going to harm you sooner or later.
what you also need to do is to control your urges, this is very important. you might feel the urge but it is possible to control it, try to spend more time in doing other things just to get your mind off it, and if that fails, then you might have to see a counselor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): Poor thing. I don't know how close you are to your parents; but perhaps you should talk to your mom or another adult that you trust. You aren't the first to feel this way and definately won't be the last. You know that promiscuous behavior is really not safe these days. Do you have a minister (preferably female) that you can talk to? Speaking from personal experience, prayer works...not trying to be preachy; but you need a way out of this dangerous behavior. I'll be praying for you. Take care.
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