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*amohir
writes:Got to the point when must ask this. Im dating the guy for one month(from the previous question)and started well,going out, nice evenings spent together and so on... And now im more than confused. He used to send me a heap of SMS, phoning plenty of times.. at that moment i was just busy with myself, but usualy was answering, not to all maybe but to some surely... Now, we see each other still, but no messaging anymore, no calls no ANYTHING!?? Got me confused and pissed off!! Dont know what actualy happened... Did he maybe run into conclusion that i dont like messages anymore? Or have i done something wrong? What the problem can be? I really dont know how to react... Any help any Advice Please!?? Reply to this Question
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reader, sexi  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Hi,you have stated that you like to be to yourself, then maybe he is giving you what you want - time for yourself.If you never really replies to his msgs then why are you feeling it now that he hardly smses you?!? Then few sms that you do get you should be glad with, atleast now you can reply to majority of them. Speak to. If you dont want to lose this guy you should sms him first so that to him it does not seem like he takes the first initiative.Good Luck
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reader, samohir +, writes (28 August 2007):
samohir is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well dont think that gaus like to be answered all the time..what is the point.. Somethimes we need to be alone with ourselves.. But speaking to him might make thing clear...
Anyway i will wait him to SMS me again, if not i will do.. Think is clever,isnt it?
I dont play games but i cant be avilable all the time!!! That doesnt mean somebody should not msg me....
Dont you think if he realy likes to be with me, would msg me again? Or is very prudent on my side?
Thanks
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reader, sexi +, writes (28 August 2007):
Hi, the only way that you would get the true answer is by speking to him. Communication is very important - It helps to keep the air around you and your bf clear. Ask him why he doesnt text as much,maybe he did come to the conclusion that you dont have time to reply to all his msgs or he is just busy and there is nothing for you to worry about. Speak to him and let him know what is really up with you (why you never really replied to him) You are probably stressing over nothing.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): Yeah he probably realised he wasn't as interested as he thought and perhaps he met someone else that he felt better suited him.Hey don't take it personally. We have all done that. Next time if you really like a guy and would like him to keep calling you, show him that you ARE interested. Be sure to return his messages, not just sometimes, all the time.Pick up the phone when you are busy. When I like a guy and he calls, I don't care where I am or what I am doing, I am going to answer that phone. You know? Don't play games with guys. And if you weren't even answering all his calls, and only some because you were "so busy" it sounds like you weren't that interested anyways (which is probably what he took it to mean). So why do you even care that he hasn't called? You see what I am saying?So don't play games with guys. Hard to get or whatever, that's stupid. Call them back and show that you ARE interested if you want to keep him.
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