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writes:theres this guy. and he has been my bestfriend for years after years. and we have dated alot. but now i like him and he isnt interested in me. infact he got mad at me for liking him. what do i do. im in need of help.!!!!!!! D: Reply to this Question
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (28 August 2007):
Maybe he is mad because he likes you too but knows you two aren't compatible, afterall you said you two dated a lot before, there must have been a reason why it ended.
Perhaps he is interested in another woman/women and your feelings for him are making confusing him.
The bottom line is that you can try to talk to him again, really sit down and talk about it with him and if he still says no, you'll have to move on.
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reader, chilly-18  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 first of all dont bring yourself down by knowing that you let him know that you like him. thats the best thing you could of done. yeh you didnt get the reaction you wanted but its always good to be turthfull with your friends. wether you like them differently or not. truthfull friends always have the strongest bonds in their relationships wether there intimate or not. dont dawn on the fact that you told him and he was mad at you. maybe he is'nt mature enough to deal with it. now i dont know how old he is but somepeople cant deal with things like this. sometimes when you have known someone for a long time you regard them as your family and nothing else. iv been in this situation i know how difficult it is. sometimes its best to let go of things you want. now im not telling you that you should, im only giving you advice on what i think is best. its your decision what you do. maybe letting go of him might be the best thing to do. i dont know how old you are either and im just guessing but if your young relationships at a young age are hard to deal with whatever the outcome. alot of girls in relationships feel insecure. i know its hard to deal with rejection but just think to yourself. think about that there is someone out there that will treat you like royalty. you really want to be with him but sometimes you cant get what you want. think about how he treated you now for future references then it will be easier to make difficult dicisions in the furture. relationships are difficult no matter how old you are. just think that if you get with him later on sometime in the future maybe the relationship wont be very strong. hanging on to things or people is'nt a good thing to do. the longer you stay with that same feeling the harder it will hurt when and if the relationship ends. and maybe if you get with him and maybe if the relationship ends you might not even be friends anymore. at the end of the day its your decision what you do. you like this person very much. think how he dealt with that. and just think how he will be if you get with him. life is about moving on and sometimes its difficult to let go and move on from what you feel deeply about. but in the long run maybe its the best thing to do. maybe its just good to be friends with him. afterall its best to have him as a friend than not have him. you dont have to take this advice thats your choice but theres always people out there who you can talk to like family and friends. hope to hear back from you. chilly-18
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