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writes: I am really confused about sex. I am 30 years old, so I guess this is kind of strange to still be confused. I am attracted to men, and enjoy sex and get really turned on in the beginning of a relationship (even just at the thought of it), but after around 4 or 5 months I get bored with the sex and am no longer interested. I have wondered if I am gay because I get really turned on looking at women naked, but not from looking at men naked, but I have never had feelings for, or fancied any women, I just get turned on by pictures or images on TV. I don’t know what to do because I am in a relationship (with a man) and I really love him deeply, but I am no longer interested in having sex with him, or even kissing (we have been together a year). I am affectionate towards him in other ways, but only cuddling, holding hands and kissing without tongues etc, and I am not sure how long we can go on like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): You aren't gay, you're just the kind of woman who needs the thrill of a new thing/ and men naked look not so hot but a naked woman who is attractive is beautiful and fun to look at... I am with you on that one. But I am not the least bit gay. I can't make any suggestions though, all you can do is to either be bored, or be with a different guy every few months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): you are not gay if you dony fancy women....bi is a possibility, but i believe you are straight! i think you have just got bored of the your routine with your guy, you just need to spice things up and make it exciting again, try new positions or toys perhaps!
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