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writes:My probelm is as folows, this guy and i have been "dating" on and off for a few years now, the relationship tends to be physical although there is a connection, he just recently got out of a long term relationship and now wants me back (he actually broke up with her to be with me), everytime he breaks it off with me it kills me, how do i know if he really wants me or if he's just in it for the phsycal side...
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Hi
Sounds like a nightmare for you!
You say usually broke up with her for you? so i assume he's been doing a fair bit of yo yoing? Thats just awful and i cant imagine how you put up with that.
Wouldn't you be better off cutting your loses and dumping him, then moving on in time to someone that wants to be with you and isn't with anyone else too? I know that will hurt but isn't it hurting this way, over and over???
Yes i think he's confused, no i dont think he is totally using you for sex. I mean, he has left her for you more than once by the sounds of it. But it doesnt sound like this guy can make his mind up, i would be tempted to make his mind up for him, just so i didnt get stabbed in the heart repeatedly!
Good luck though.
C xxxx
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