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*prty09chick
writes: So I broke up with my boyfriend back in Febuary and we didn't talk again until this summer. Things started going really well and we started thinking about dating again. Or at least I did but he was acting like he wanted to date me again. So a few days ago we were talking online and he said that there was nothing I could say to, not make him, but to help him still feel the same way as before. I loved him and he loved me but I was afraid that I would get hurt again so I broke up with him. So since I broke up with him why can't I get over him?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 August 2007):
Hi
I feel for you, its horrible isnt it. Time and strength is the only things that will work through in the end. Like ive said to people before, you can know things aren't going to work, so split, but still feel terrible. Love isnt a light switch.
Wish i could help more, but you just have to ride this out and go through the normal emotions to come out the other side and learn from what went wrong, and then the same pattern doesnt keep happening in the future.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, Tuda Judy +, writes (28 August 2007):
HiIt all depend how deeply loved him,and you can only go about it through comparing how much he broke your heart and how much you loved him. Then find side weighs heavier then you'll make a decision from that point.You should know what you heart desires.
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