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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I am looking for some advice, and this is kinda personal, so I am staying anonymous. Lately, I have been having some trouble when it comes to being intimate with a girl. At times it is difficult for me to "get it up" or so to speak. I have no problem masturbating, but when it comes to being alone with a girl, it for some reason just becomes very difficult to have sex or do much of anything, really. I need to fix this problem, but I do NOT want to use any kind of aphrodisiacs. Is there any methods other than pills/aphrodisiacs that anyone would suggest doing to help fix this problem? It would really save my ass from a whole lot of embarrassment in the future if I got some good advice. thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): just a question, not meant to embarass you and you need not answer, but.....you say you have no problems masturbating. What do you do when you masturbate? What stimulates you? Are you becoming dependant on your masturbation stimulation? Do you feel under pressure to perform when you are with a woman and when you are alone this doesn't matter? Are you under a lot of stress? Are you tired? How often are you masturbating? Do you eat well? Smoke? Big list but there are many factors to consider........good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): Your head is telling you not to have sex with just "A girl" even though your natural drive wants you to. Your confidence is probably in need of a boost and that would be with someone you care about and know well. Take it easy, don't rush. If it does not work but it is with someone you trust and value you can be sure they won't tell anyone and will be kind, caring and patient about it.
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