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writes:okay so me an my ex broke up back in march '07 we were together for 2.5 years, why we broke up is not important, just that I want her back. We went out on date last Sunday, the date went really well, but at the end of the night when we went back to her apartment she got really upset and stuff, b/c she feels so bad for hurting me, she said she still thinks about me and still loves me and misses me, but she is dating someone else, but it's not serious. well anyway she hasn't called me or contact me since that Sunday (9 days ago) we had been talking and emailing and having lunch on a regular basis prior to the date. So why hasn't she called do ya think? What is that she could possibly be thinking about?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Why you split up may be an important key to you getting back together for her anyway.
I think she's torn between moving on and forgetting whatever she did to hurt you, and staying with you after being together for so long.
I would talk to her about how you feel and what you want and ask her how she feels and what she wants. Tell her that yes she hurt you but you want the pair of you to move forward together- if that is how you feel.
She may be scared of repeating whatever it is she has done? And she may be feeling guilty and silly around you because of what she did.
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