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writes:My boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago... After being together for 7 years.Since we broke up i lent him $400 and has not paid me back and he won't take my calls, well i took some stuff of his from his place and i told him he will get them back when he pays me back. I have tried calling him and he still won't take my calls. I saw him the other day while i was out with my sister, she called him and he smiled and waved but when i called him he looked the other way and acted like i wasn't there. It hurt! Why did he do that? I still love him and I still want to be with him. Has he gotten over me already?
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reader, penta  +, writes (29 August 2007):
 It's more than the money. He's done with the relationship. It's probably been coming for a while. The money is just the reason he's avoiding you; like sour icing on a bad cake.
Please write off the relationship. Anyone who treats you like this is not worth it. Whether you write off the $400 is up to you, but don't try to use the money as a way to stay in his life. It will backfire and he will avoid you even more (if that's possible).
Try sending him a certified letter initiating a payment schedule. You can let him know that you get the "hints" that he doesn't want you in his life in any way and you'll honor that, but you want the money back.
I know this isn't the answer you want. Good luck hon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIs it really about the money? or has really gotten over me that quickly! wow that really hurts damn...
How do i get over the man that i obviously still love. we've been together for 7years and talked about marriage. how do i say goodbye and don't look back!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): What on earth did you lend him money for? ESPECIALLY after you broke up with him?!
You ask why he's ignoring you. Isn't it obvious? He doesn't want - and has no intention - of paying you back.
Surely you can't want to be with a man who doesn't want to be with you, and who is basically acting like a thief?
You have two choices: either kiss your $400 goodbye, OR you could try to sue him in small claims court.
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