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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: Best of Luck to you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 July 2008: Hasn't your solicitor heard of a continuance. You have the right to be hard in all matters of law.
After these decisions are made, do you have a higher court to appeal the ruling of a lower court? I don't believe your solicitor did a job the best... (read in full...)
Do you think there is a possibility that we might get back together?
Q. What should I do?My 7 year relationship ended 3 weeks ago. I am 24 years old and he's 27 years old. We argued because I said he only wants to be with his friends and told him he didn't care about me. He says he loves me and cares about me but he ...
A. 9 July 2008: You've made the right choice. Not because of ending a friendship, but because it's hard to move on if the past keeps you trapped from doing so. It's like he wants what he wants, but also wants you to stick around to suppliment what he doesn't ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Sounds like you're doing better, as a manner of speaking. Your right it doesn't look good to the judge to drag out court.
Just a bit of warning. Seeing someone prior to the end of the divorce can be used in court as well. Legal marriage, is lega... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 June 2008: That's what you need to concentrate on. As far as his taking the solicitor out to lunch and such. Violation of ethics. People here get their licenses taken away or suspended for those behaviors.
Keep a calendar of all issues. Everytime he cance... (read in full...)
Does a rape victim want friends/parents to freak out in their defense, or be quietly understanding? How can we help these people?
Q. I am finding out that almost everyone I know has been raped, guys and girls. My daughter just told me she was raped over 3 years ago, in high school. My husband was raped as a teen, but we established early in our relationship that he was OK, and ...
A. 31 May 2008: Parent's do freak out when their child gets raped. But their anger is more directed toward themselves, all though they might visiably direct toward someone else. Her dad just got a huge reality check. Parents can't be there all the time to protect ... (read in full...)
How can I cope with the hurt and anger about her emotional affair? It's like pulling teeth to get her to admit that what she did is wrong!
Q. I am in a lesbian relationship of five years and my girlfriend started to fall for a male coworker. We went to therapy and it turns out she had inner issues about her parents not accepting our relationship because of their Indian values (she has ...
A. 31 May 2008: Glad you're moving on. I just have to correct something the other poster stated. She may dress like a whore or a slut, but that is by her choice. We can't change the way others act, but we can change the way we do.
As far as drooling. Nope, I deci... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 30 May 2008: You don't have too. You chose your act, which caused damage to your relationship. He forgave you. He then chose to cheat, so it's now your choice if you should forgive him or not. We can't make that decision for you. My point of view is not too. ... (read in full...)
How can I cope with the hurt and anger about her emotional affair? It's like pulling teeth to get her to admit that what she did is wrong!
Q. I am in a lesbian relationship of five years and my girlfriend started to fall for a male coworker. We went to therapy and it turns out she had inner issues about her parents not accepting our relationship because of their Indian values (she has ...
A. 29 May 2008: Lets look at this a different way. You keep saying "I want, I think, I believe" What about her thoughts, beliefs, and feelings. I know girls who show a bit of clevage. They get attention, but the reason they dress sexy is for their feeling ... (read in full...)
What does this mean -I'm lost?
Q. This is updated from earlier my boyfriend left for 3 days saying he needed to sort things out and stayed at a friends. Well he came home tonight saying he was coming to get some things I asked if we were over and if I could move on he got defensive ...
A. 28 May 2008: I would have to say he's enjoying being single. I wouldn't doubt it if he has someone else while he's making his decision. If he wanted to be with you, why does he need time to make that decision? I think he's playing you a bit. I wouldn't wait ... (read in full...)
Why's he behaving like such an arsehole?
Q. My boyfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up with me last week because he "suddenly" realized that I have a son and he didn't want to be a part of it. He has made some sorry excuses in the past for pushing me away, but then he always comes back with the ...
A. 28 May 2008: you need to allow him to choose for himself. you may want the relationship but need to accept it if he does not. you can't force him to choose different. you want someone who will be with you and your child. sounds like you need a man, not a boy. he ... (read in full...)
I do love him, but we can't compromise on religion!!!!! What should we do?
Q. Hi...i am wondering how many of you have married someone who is of a different religion than you are? If you did, how long did it last? Were there any major issues? My fiance and I are of two different religions and I can't imagine what it ...
A. 28 May 2008: your last line answered your question. with all the help i have give others, many different religions, several countries, what I've noticed is "love" has no boundaries. neither one of you has to change your religion. at the same time, it's not okay ... (read in full...)
Am I bipolar? I've been saying mean and hurtful things to my boyfriend.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am truely in love with him. I have recently for the past 3 months been really mean to him. I will say mean and hurtful things like call him fat and ugly. I tell him that I don't want to be with ...
A. 28 May 2008: what helps me is to sit down in a quiet place, pen and paper, and write down your thoughts. you're as strong as you ever will be, just need to tap into it. people don't change, their habits, behaviors and choices do. start developing yourself into ... (read in full...)
Am I bipolar? I've been saying mean and hurtful things to my boyfriend.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am truely in love with him. I have recently for the past 3 months been really mean to him. I will say mean and hurtful things like call him fat and ugly. I tell him that I don't want to be with ...
A. 28 May 2008: Bipolar, it could be. It could also be created by the trauma from loosing your sister, plus dealing with the emotional abuse. Trauma begins small, but when not dealt with, it grows. It does so to the point it begins peaking from your subconscious to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 May 2008: If you can establish proof of his dating his solicitor, that should establish a conflict of interest, which would pull her off the case, and may cause issues with her ability to continue law.
I woulnd't accept less than what you feel you dese... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 27 May 2008: It's nice to hear how everything is going for you. I really appreciate the update. It's nice to hear when people get out of bad situations and improve their situations. Take care, and best of luck to you.... (read in full...)
Our daughter, husband and their four children are living with us. He's not working, she only works 2 days a week. It's getting tough on us!
Q. Trouble at home, my daughter and her husband and four children that are well loved by myself and wife. It wasn't bad at first but going on 6 months and her husband hasn't worked a day and she only works 2 days a week. It's getting very tough on my ...
A. 27 May 2008: you're going to have to use tough love. you don't want to hurt her, but their taking advantage of your hospitality needs to end.
if you would sit with her and talk, without him, I'm sure his failure to seek employment is bothering your daug... (read in full...)
Am I bipolar? I've been saying mean and hurtful things to my boyfriend.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am truely in love with him. I have recently for the past 3 months been really mean to him. I will say mean and hurtful things like call him fat and ugly. I tell him that I don't want to be with ...
A. 27 May 2008: Before answering, just a couple of questions for you. (1) How has your life been at home? Any forms of physical, sexual, or mental abuse? How old was your sister when she passed? How close were you too her? How old were you when she passed? Anything ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between two men..one is my partner of 2 years, the other a man from my dancing classes.
Q. I have been in a relationship with my partner for just over two years. We live together and have both been having problems with depression and stress in the last 6 months. It was me first who started suffering and I totally lost my sex drive and ...
A. 24 May 2008: First of all, you need to be honest with yourself. You also need to be honest with your partner. Not doing so is a form of betrayal.
Now, you're developing depression and stress. Because of his additional weight, you're not attracted to your part... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has Asperger's Syndrome, and now I think I might have it as well. How do I talk with him about this?
Q. My boyfriend (let's say J) has Asperger's, and recently, I've been starting to question myself, as a lot of our similarities lie within his AS traits. It's easy to talk to him about most things as he seems to be able to relate to them. For examp...
A. 23 May 2008: I think you should get checked if your worried. What you mentioned is your intelligence. This syndrome is a learning disability as well. You would of had difficulty in school.
Your trust in no one is common for someone who had been bullied and tryi... (read in full...)
Should I stop having sex with him so he'll stop seeing her?
Q. I have known this guy for 4 years. It started off sexually then my emotions became involved about a year into it. We became friends but I wanted more.We continued having sex then three years in to it I became pregnant. He didnt want it but i had the ...
A. 19 May 2008: It can be hard for a while, but it does get better. I don't know much about wanting to have a family as bad as you do. I have a wonderful family. It's my children and I. I don't have to have a girlfriend or a wife to be a family with my kids. I'm ... (read in full...)
Should I stop having sex with him so he'll stop seeing her?
Q. I have known this guy for 4 years. It started off sexually then my emotions became involved about a year into it. We became friends but I wanted more.We continued having sex then three years in to it I became pregnant. He didnt want it but i had the ...
A. 18 May 2008: Live for yourself and your son. Your having sex with his is telling him, he can still get it and not have to commit in order too. What's the saying? Why by the cow, when you can get the milk for free?
He needs to realize you're not wanting ... (read in full...)
Is it unusual to still be a virgin at 21?
Q. Hi, I'm just wondering if this is unusual to still be a virgin at 21. I am quite shy and haven't had yet any boyfriend or girlfriend whatsoever. I planned an appointment to the GYN since they say you should go once you reach the age of 21 but...
A. 18 May 2008: I'm a guy. If I was with you, there wouldn't be a problem, because for me, sex is not just an act of sex, it's a connection between people.
What I have to say about being a virgin at 21. Honorable. ... (read in full...)
I don't know what is going to happen between me and my husband-can anyone advise?
Q. Quite complicated! Here it goes: I was unhappy om my marriage and after 3 years of friendship with a co-worker we started to see each other. His girlfriend of 5 years left him because she wanted to marry him, but he was confused. After she left him...
A. 18 May 2008: I would let him know he needs to back off. Let him know that one time should be all you need to state for him to move on, and that any other comments can be construed as inappropriate workplace behavior.
Your other issues are psychological. Your... (read in full...)
My mum get's angry when I stutter!
Q. When I talk to my mom she rolls her eyes, and she looks angry. I could tell sometimes she doesn't want me to talk to her. Sometimes when I talk I stutter or cannot get the words out of my mouth. Maybe my mom doesn't like the way I talk.I can't help ...
A. 18 May 2008: I don't agree with the posters methods of the verbage they used in talking to your mom. There is a definate problem here, not with the way you talk, but with the way your mom acts. I would ask her, why it is you can't have a conversation with her, ... (read in full...)
He loves his mother and sisters and they love him...I feel jealous because he is mine
Q. life is going smooth.married for two n half years.actually the problem is ...my possesiveness,may be overpossesiveness,for my husband whom i love like fish cant live without water i cant without him..its been three yrs that v r together ...i dont ...
A. 18 May 2008: It's a disorder which you need to seek psychiatric help. Just these symptoms you explain, symbolize attachment disorder. You attach yourself to your husband to an abnormal level. It can be treated, but you'll have to set up a plan with a doctor in ... (read in full...)
I finally came clean about everything about my past, and he broke up with me
Q. My ex broke up with me a couple of days ago. It was because I had lied about some stuff from the past, several times. The other day I finally came clean about everything, and he broke up with me as I expected. Of course I was hurt, and of cou...
A. 18 May 2008: You know, the past is the past. The past didn't include him. He should be with you for you.
I am worried about his anger issues, lack of trust, and dictating who you can and cannot have communication with. Relationships should not be rest... (read in full...)
Should I suck up my feelings and let her tramp on me for a little while?
Q. Alright, this one is going to be a long on, but I need all the help I can get fast, before I make another mistake. Me and Jamie have been in a relationship for about 4 1/2 years. To start, we started in highschool, and had a few confrontations w...
A. 18 May 2008: You guys have a real confusing situation. What you have is a woman who seems to be a player. She's playing you and playing this other person. Why not, you're accepting of her having two instead of one.
It reminds me of the song from Sam Kini... (read in full...)
Do you think there is a possibility that we might get back together?
Q. What should I do?My 7 year relationship ended 3 weeks ago. I am 24 years old and he's 27 years old. We argued because I said he only wants to be with his friends and told him he didn't care about me. He says he loves me and cares about me but he ...
A. 18 May 2008: I believe temptation is influencing. It seems as if he wants to take other women out for a test drive. That's the only thing I can think of with his explanations.
(1) He loves and cares for you.
(2) Giving permission for you to move on with som... (read in full...)
He told me he was clean, but I cannot believe him because of his actions!
Q. Hi I have been with my fiance for 2 and half years, and im feeling very confused at the moment when I first met hime he told me about his past that he used to take herion, but assured me he was clean. He has now found out he has bipolar we are ...
A. 17 May 2008: You seem like a nice person. You are willing to put up with this WHY? Unless he's a diabetic, or a doctor, I don't see any real excuse for his having syringes in his posession.
Heroin is an extremely dangerous and addictive drug. It changes the ... (read in full...)
Age Gap!-It is so hard dating him without friendship support
Q. Okay. I am dating a guy who is 20. I am 15. I know we should not be dating but we are in love. Some are my friends are telling me to leave him but I can't. It is so hard dating him without friendship support. I don't know what to do. I wanna be with ...
A. 17 May 2008: Personally, I believe love is love. But law is also law. It depends on the state you're in. Some states consider this dating to be rape. I don't think you'd want him to spend time in prison because of your relationship. ... (read in full...)
I am still talking and sexually involved with my ex boyfriend
Q. Ok so this is my delima I am an single 20 yr old and I am still talking and sexually involved with my ex boyfriend does that make me a whore if im only sexually involved with him. I mean the head he gives is bomb and asks nothing in return. Ladies ...
A. 17 May 2008: I'm a male. It's okay to have relations with your ex, as long as you're not involved with another and neither is he. As far as being a whore. With no payment involved, I don't see how that could be. ... (read in full...)
Men, did you ever pressure a girl into sex when you were in your teens?
Q. This question is for the older male uncles and visitors here. When you were in your teens, did you pressure any girls for sex or sexual activity? And if so, how do you feel about that now? Do you regret it or was it just part of growing up? T...
A. 16 May 2008: No, sure did not. I was too shy, and let the girl make the first moove. ... (read in full...)
What are his rights regarding access to the baby he had with his ex?
Q. My fiance had an ex who was pregnant when we met. She said it was his, but then was going back and forth with her ex. After being 4 months along, she told him he wasnt the father and refused a DNA. A year later he recieves papers in the mail for a ...
A. 16 May 2008: The court order should already have that information within the child support agreement. I couldn't see one being ordered without visitation being ordered at the same time.
Do the court papers state, "Liberal Visitation"? Standard visitation whic... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 May 2008: If he seeks an injunction, a hearing should be set to answer to it. If his calls were done by home phone, have your phone company pull a copy of those records which show his phone calls to you. If they are done by cell phone, your bill should ... (read in full...)
I'm hiding something from him, because it'll make him angry. I'm confused, advice please?
Q. Sorry, this is long... My boyfriend doesn't trust me. I am to blame of this, in part. He has trust issues because of previous girlfriends and being abused as a child (I didn't know about this until it was too late). But the thing is, he's always ...
A. 15 May 2008: First of all, you're not a horiable person. You wouldn't care about your boyfriend's feelings if you were. You asked if you have problems. In a way. your actions in question 3 show a lack of taking responsability.
As far as your relationship. Your... (read in full...)
I'm trying to write the music to a song that my bff wrote, but it's not very good and I don't want to hurt her feelings!
Q. Okay my bff wrote a song and she wants me to create the music to it. Im a pretty good musician but i can't make the music to it! My dad is a really good musician too and he can't make the music. the song isn't good at all. I've thought about asking ...
A. 15 May 2008: That's a good idea with your band teacher. Songwriting can be fun, but trying at times. When I look at song lyrics, the first thing I think about is how to bring out the feelings so when it's played the audience can feel the song. The lyrics alone ... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?
Q. This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...
A. 13 May 2008: The fact is, when court establishes maintenance, her rights to dictate if she wants the child around you run out. Courts set up visitation plans on the best interest of the child, not necessarily reasons parents may have.
If she violates the cour... (read in full...)
He says he needs space...so why is he seeing someone else?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend told me he needed space and is seeing someone else. He still calls me, comes over, we go to dinner, etc. I love him so much and I don't know what to do. Should I just let him go? My heart seriously hurts everyday that I ...
A. 12 May 2008: It will hurt, but which one are you? The main woman, or the other woman? Stand up for yourself. Tell him you will not be played. Needing space, as people call it, is not breaking up and doesn't provide an excuse to be jumping on someone else. By ... (read in full...)
I want her back as a partner, not a friend.
Q. My fiance' and I were together for 4 years. We have split and come back a few times, but recently she decided that it was time to end it for good. She still wants to be friends, but I still love her and wish her back. Is there anyway that I can ge...
A. 12 May 2008: The first and most important thing to do is to realize what part you had in the splitting. People don't just split and return over and over again just for something to do. So what mistakes were being repeated that caused this decision? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend makes me do things I don't want to do
Q. my bf always wana let me do stuff i dont wanna do like sex and smoke i told him i dont wanna do these things but then we together again and he says he wont do it again but he just does and i realy love him what should i do cause we realy love each ...
A. 12 May 2008: trying to get from you what you don't want to give is not love on his end. you may love him, but he's not really showing you respect. ... (read in full...)
Mother's Day blues...is it selfish to want to be by myself?
Q. Hey guys. Its mothers day, and I have 2 very young kids. Is it selfish of me to just want to be by myself today? I mean, I made the kids and my husband a big breakfast, but now, I just want to be alone, play guitar all day. Is this "holiday" really ...
A. 12 May 2008: Glad you had a good day. I did. Slept and played guitar. Had to get a song ready for recording today. That will be a good time as well. Have a wonderful week.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does not believe me about the person who harasses me by phone!
Q. ok this is the thing, my ex broke-up with me because he wanted to help a friend and let her stay with him and I freaked. I said if some girl was going to stay with him i was gone! so he broke up with me and lied about it for a month. after i foun...
A. 12 May 2008: I'd stay away from the bf. If he's not going to believe you, how can you expect him to be there for you in times you may really need him. He's full of it. I'd wonder how much of a relationship he's been having with this other girl. ... (read in full...)
I am not sure what is causing these drunken angers towars him...
Q. I am currently 22, 7 months into my first relationship. Things are going great, we have tons of fun together and get along wonderfully. The only problem comes with "going out" to bars and such. I used to go to bars all the time but as of late I ...
A. 12 May 2008: I agree in part with the other poster regarding subconscious issues. They may or may not pertain to your boyfriend. They may be personal issues from past experience as well.
I'm sure you know what depression is. There is a form which is most seen... (read in full...)
He started to change and become restrictive. Am I just an awful girlfriend?
Q. My boyfriend is so jealous/upset/dissapointed because of my past. It happened gradually... she knew about some stuff (past crushes, etc) when we started dating. It didn't bother him much then, he just asked me not to give him details, to talk about ...
A. 12 May 2008: You are not an awful girlfriend. His behavior is not appropriate. What makes you believe that anyone has the right to dictate who you talk to and who you don't.
Relationships are based solely on choice. You choose to be with him, he to you. The ... (read in full...)
I support my boyfriend financially and also lend his Mum money too now. I don't know what to do, any suggestions?
Q. I've been supporting my boyfriend financially for three years now, to the point I lend his mom money because she can't manage her own money. I don't want to break up with him because he stuck with me through very difficult times, but when I tell him ...
A. 12 May 2008: You do deserve better. If he really loved you or at lease respected you, why would he be angry when you ask him to assit financially?
Because you feel as if you have no one, you're willing to live a compromised life? This falls within how you feel... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?
Q. This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...
A. 12 May 2008: I believe the father should have contact with the child. He's the father and it would be not proper to request he do otherwise. This is a child. Working with couples, children grow up happier knowing both parents, even in separate households.
I... (read in full...)
Mother's Day blues...is it selfish to want to be by myself?
Q. Hey guys. Its mothers day, and I have 2 very young kids. Is it selfish of me to just want to be by myself today? I mean, I made the kids and my husband a big breakfast, but now, I just want to be alone, play guitar all day. Is this "holiday" really ...
A. 12 May 2008: It's your day. You deserve a day to yourself. I'm a single father. My kids were gone with grandparents for the weekend, I missed them, but really needed time to relax without obligations. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2008: I know this is hard for you to deal with. Working with people who have been through divorce and seeing the after affects, it's heart breaking. I can't figure out your question either of how someone can act or live as if they love and care for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 19 April 2008: The first piece of advice anyone one law gives is to not speak to the other person. Speak through your legal professionals. Reason being, "anything you say can be used against you in court." Couples who split up can get into some heated arguments. ... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 7 April 2008: Sometimes when a mistake is made, it's life changing. The thoughts "Why could she do this, then CLAIM she loves me?" "How dare her think everything is going to be okay, when she betrayed me." "How could she lie and cheat, then expect marriage?"
T... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm glad everything is working out for you. I can see where your solicitor is coming from. I'm in law as well and hoping to begin in family law. My two big pet peeves in family law are adultry and any lack of responsability on the best interest of ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2008: First of all, make sure you file your response within the time the court has allowed, it's generall (at least here) 30 days from the date you receive the paperwork. Remember too, the response, if you do it prior to meeting with the solicitor, i... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2008: Great, have your son contact me on here, I'll let him know you give your permission to toss your phone in the river.
Let me ask you this. If you didn't have your phone, would that stop you, or would you find another way?
Do you believe life... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Your doing what's right. I hope your strength keeps building. I know it's hard sometimes around the holidays to be alone. Before I got custody of my children. I would eat Christmas dinner alone at a diner. But other than that, being alone was OK. I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 1 October 2007: That is such a wonderful update. Please do keep us updated. This strength you have displayed, you should always be proud of yourself for taking that first step. It's people like you who become the "if she can do it, maybe I can take a step to" ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 22 September 2007: I'll be waiting anxiously to hear how everything goes for you. I do wish you the best as well. It's great to hear you took action. Please update as soon as you're safe with you dad. I know I'm not the only one who worries about people in difficult ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 21 September 2007: Let me tell you something. First I am a man, I didn't make a mistake by my gender on my profile. I was in an abusive situation, where I was the one being attacked. My ex was a girl who had a disorder the the movie "fatal attraction" and "hand that ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: I am soooo glad to hear you are moving on with your life. It's better for you and your son. You don't want him growing up imitating his dad's behavior. You are a wonderful person and someone who really loves their child and plans to put him first. I ... (read in full...)
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