My boyfriend doesn't even want to acknowledge me now we work together, does he think I'm not good enough for him?
Q. Hi In addition to my below question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/boyfriend-got-me-a-job-where-he-works.html my bf does not want 1) even to say hello to me in office 2) whenever he crosses me he doesnt even turn my side and even if...
A. 6 April 2013: Hi there, This is really a terrible. Hurtful situation. I had something similar happen with an ex. He worked at a location everyone in town frequented, but when I came in, he refused to even look in my direction. Even if I tried talking to him, ... (read in full...)
Just when I thought I was over her, the feelings have returned with a vengeance! How can I let her go for good?
Q. Hi there, I am in a bit of an odd situation here... So, many years ago back in 10th grade, I met a girl, and fell hopelessly in love with her. I thought about her every single day. She was perfect to me, and I connected with her on an intellectu...
A. 30 October 2012: Thank you for your responses!
Also, thank you for putting up with my long winded rant, I needed to get my feelings out.
Right now, I need to focus on how I'm going to handle seeing them together. What has me most worried, is that I might act... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a girl at school. Does she like me too? Should I tell her how I feel?
Q. OK, so, I'm a girl and i like my classmate. I have liked her for a few months now and i'm getting very depressed over this crush because she's really cute and when i look in the mirror me and other people find me really ugly and it makes me upset th...
A. 14 October 2012: Pssst.. Male responder... I think this is a young lady we're talking to here! In that case, due to the unfortunate world we still live in, I think you should at least get a feel for how she feels about same sex relationships. If that's a green l... (read in full...)
I am jealous and insecure of his female friend
Q. Hello. I'm in my first serious relationship. I've found some aspects of it hard, such as learning to trust my boyfriend, learning not to worry about things, learning to be confident and so on. I must stress that I have come a very long way in thes...
A. 12 October 2012: First off, I think you have half the battle won by recognising your behaviour isn't healthy. I personally wouldn't read conversation logs unless he was right there next to you to explain the context of the "friendly" language. Context is the most ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that I get jelous if my boyfriend likes other girls pictures on facebook?
Q. Is it bad that i get jelous if my boyfriend likes other girls pictures on facebook? and ive seen it a cuople times not often but when i do see it i get frustrated and a little hurt. I hate bieng the jelous type i cant help it... I mean i know for a ...
A. 5 October 2012: For me, it all depends on the context of the picture. Are the pictures OF the girls, or are they just the girl's pictures of other things he may be interested in? If the pictures are of the girls, is it just situations like if one of them got their ... (read in full...)
How realistic is it for me to want to date only uncircumcised men?
Q. I know this may make me shallow, childish, immature, but it's how I feel: Three years ago I was engaged to a man from Europe. He was uncircumcised; it was not my first experience with an intact man. I loved it so much, and he was so gentle wi...
A. 4 October 2012: It's really not the kind of car you have, it's all about how you drive it.
For example, I was in a relationship with an uncircumcised man, and he was absolutely dreadful in bed. DREADFUL!
Fast foward to my current partner, who is circumcised,... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend initiate conversation with me anymore?
Q. My boyfriend of nearly 3 months and I are both 18. We used to talk just about everyday. Then my phone was stolen which pretty much coincided with exam week, during which we barely talked. He said it was because of exam week, which was ...
A. 29 September 2012: It may also be possible that he has just gotten used to you initiating contact? Hope things work out for you. :)... (read in full...)
Does the love for a previous partner fade away in time, or is there always something there?
Q. This question is directed mainly at the guys, but ladies please feel free to answer too :) My current boyfriend is my first for everything, and hopefully he'll be my last! We're a long distance couple, have been together for two years now and I ...
A. 29 September 2012: I remained close to one of my ex's for quite some time, and you know what that did? It was a constant reminder of WHY he was my ex, why he drives me nuts, and how he treated me. Really, it just made me love my current partner even more. I can't ... (read in full...)
Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!
Q. Today I came home from school and found my little brother with a brand-new iPad. I am so freakin jealous of him! My parents said its only "because he needs a certain app for social skills." (he has aspergers so he needs help) I still don't ...
A. 26 September 2012: Honey, I think you just need to grow up a little bit. Realize that if you were in your brother's shoes, you would just be so happy that your brother is receiving help to make his life easier. I don't believe you are neccessarily spoiled or a bad ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend is destroying my relationship with my friends, please help!
Q. Hello all, I am writing to you because I have encountered a problem with my, well, I guess he's my ex boyfriend, but I don't really consider him to be that really. I never really loved him, and he treated me so horribly that I don't believe he...
A. 11 September 2012: Hello!
I am so very sorry for the late response, but I wanted to provide an update when the time was right.
This time is, infact, now. When I finally grew a pair.
Cerberus, I would like to thank you especially. Your response was very stirri... (read in full...)
Toe Nails uncut! How can I bring it up in a sensitive but firm manner that this is a major turn off for me?
Q. Hello everyone, I have one minor issue with my boyfriend... he is otherwise perfect and I am extremely attracted to him. He is a 10 to me inside and out, all except for the fact that he will not cut his toenails. His hygiene is excellent o...
A. 5 August 2012: Thank you for your answers! I would imagine the pedicure idea is worth a shot. I don't believe his toenails are an OCD related security issue, as I have OCD myself and he gives me a lot of support in the problems I face. We are very open about that ... (read in full...)
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