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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: Best of Luck to you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
When I was young, I touched my little sister...
Q. I've done something really bad. When I was young I touched my little sister. She was sleeping. I know I did something real wrong. Is there anything I could do about this? I've made a lot of mistakes and I wish I would have never done...
A. 18 July 2008: This guilt needs to no longer follow you. You were at the age between hanging out with the boys and really noticing the differences and why boys like girls. It was the experimental phase. I had that phase as well. I didn't have a sister, but mom ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 July 2008: Hasn't your solicitor heard of a continuance. You have the right to be hard in all matters of law.
After these decisions are made, do you have a higher court to appeal the ruling of a lower court? I don't believe your solicitor did a job the best... (read in full...)
Am I reading more into this FWB relationship? I'm seeing some signs...
Q. I am in involved with a FWB, but when we are having sex he makes constant eye contact with me or starring at me and cuddles (I’m generally not the cuddle type), also whn we have spent the night together, sleeps holding on to me like I was going to ...
A. 11 July 2008: It's okay to experience some friendly attachment for a friends with benefits. He sounds like a bit of a romantic. Some people are the cuddle type and some are not.
Is he that bad of a guy to no seek more with at some point? Asside from just the... (read in full...)
My 12 yr old sister told me she likes a senior guy in school, but don't know what to say to her. Please help.
Q. hey everyone..well my 12 year old sister told me that she likes this senior guy in school who is grade 10..my sister is in grade 7..being an elder sister she looks up to me..i dont know how to handle the situation. i told her its just a crush and ...
A. 11 July 2008: Your the elder sister. Speak to her from the side of experience. When you were 12 didn't you have thoughts or do anything, that being older now you could have given yourself some pretty good advice?
From a guys point of view. I believe I reme... (read in full...)
I want to be with my ex who has changed for the better, but I'm married. Kids are involved so it is difficult to decide.
Q. I have a serious problem. I dated S in highschool, and ended up having a baby with him. At the time, we broke up because he was being a jerk. Right after I had the baby, I met J, and proceeded to marry him after a while. We have 2 other kids. ...
A. 11 July 2008: What sort of commitment did you make when you got married? You know the life you have now. How can you tell this person has changed for the better? I see too often where the wool is pulled over someones eyes regarding true change. The other gets ... (read in full...)
How do I make my friend see she is not to blame for the loss of her baby and comfort her?
Q. how do i help my bestest friend? my besest friend in the whole wide world told me something today that i did not know i was very shocked! She had this boyfriend who was not english, he was a really cool guy and they got on really well! however...
A. 11 July 2008: You'll have to let her go through these changes in the grief process. This must be fairly fresh because self blame is one of the beginning symptoms. Keep reminding her she can't be blamed for a decision someone else makes. Weather or not she lost ... (read in full...)
I don't even want to go out in public anymore thanks to this jerk at the grocery store!
Q. Today I went to the grocery store to shop for food. My mom and sister came along. While I was standing behind my mom while she was paying the cashier. There was this stranger that took a look at me and told his friend quietly that he was standing ...
A. 10 July 2008: Don't get discouraged over what someone else says. These guys are just jerks. It was wrong for them to say. Some people see it as a game to make others feel bad. Don't take it in as being truth. What other people say really doesn't matter. What does ... (read in full...)
He thought I was going to leave my boyfriend for him! Now we aren't talking.
Q. im very stressed and i need so advice, because this has never happened to me before. skipping alot of details, my bf(grant) of 2 month's best friend(mac) and i kinda had this thing going that was just alot of flirting through texts that start...
A. 9 July 2008: First of all realize you have to take responsability for your actions in kissing this other boy. Because of Mac's behavior. It's impariative you tell your boyfriend as well and fill him in on the details of what happened.
At your age, your prob... (read in full...)
I need to tell my boyfriend that things need to change. How do I go about it?
Q. How do I tell my live in boyfriend that things need to change or it's not going to work between us? I'm 33 weeks pregnant. I got pregnant the 1st date. Things were good at first but I told him we rushed into things. His parents just kind of packed ...
A. 9 July 2008: You are both facing a big change. First date and end up pregnant. That's how my beautiful 8 year old daughter joined my life. All though it didn't happen as planned, I wouldn't change it for the world.
The best thing to do is to be honest with him.... (read in full...)
How can I survive my father's failing marriage?
Q. I am sixteen and have been living with my father the past two years. To say the least, things aren't working out. We fight all the time, and I feel like it's because he blames me for his marriage falling apart. Let me tell you that I have lived ...
A. 9 July 2008: I want you to tell your dad how you feel. You don't have to do so as a personal conversation. Write down what you wrote here and put it somewhere he can find it. Let your dad know you're scared. I bet you'll find your dad is also because he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Do you think there is a possibility that we might get back together?
Q. What should I do?My 7 year relationship ended 3 weeks ago. I am 24 years old and he's 27 years old. We argued because I said he only wants to be with his friends and told him he didn't care about me. He says he loves me and cares about me but he ...
A. 9 July 2008: You've made the right choice. Not because of ending a friendship, but because it's hard to move on if the past keeps you trapped from doing so. It's like he wants what he wants, but also wants you to stick around to suppliment what he doesn't ... (read in full...)
He says he can't accept my son and the predictability, when days before we were making plans to move together!
Q. I need some support. Although I have a pretty good support system of friends...I just need to hear it from other people, I guess. I was with a guy for over 2 years, on and off. We were friends for almost 10 years before that. Didn't have much ...
A. 9 July 2008: Some days are better than others. I believe he's only making excuses. It's also okay to be a single parent, without a partner. I do so, by choice. If you do find someone, make sure you look carefully for signs if they would be or would not be the ... (read in full...)
He says he can't accept my son and the predictability, when days before we were making plans to move together!
Q. I need some support. Although I have a pretty good support system of friends...I just need to hear it from other people, I guess. I was with a guy for over 2 years, on and off. We were friends for almost 10 years before that. Didn't have much ...
A. 9 July 2008: You said you hurt because he may be happy with someone else. I say I'd rather you and your son be happy no matter who you might be with. I know breakups are difficult. When someone changes their mind, and it's not the direction you want.
He is fair... (read in full...)
Should I tell my BF I slept with his brother or just break up with him without explanation? I feel so guilty!!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend's brother. I know it was the worst way to cheat and I'm so scared of anyone finding out. I live with my bf but he's away a lot for his work (on a boat out at sea). His brother does the same kind of work (on a diff...
A. 8 July 2008: As long as you pretend nothing happened, the guilt will continue to increase. It's a hard situation to face, but I believe you need to come clean to him. I don't think you should persue anything with the brother. I know it's going to be difficult, ... (read in full...)
Could the anti-depressants be making things worse?!
Q. oh my god, im just so depressed , and i dont know why .i tried anti depressants a few years ago, they did nothing, i cant talk to anyone as i really dont know why im depressed, i can be fine in work one day,then get home and just feel like crying, ...
A. 8 July 2008: I agree with the other posters. Depression can be caused by so many different things. Your neurotransmitters increase or decrease because of the nutrition you consume. Some become off balance. Exercise is a good way to manage it. Test show taking a ... (read in full...)
My Parents Are Getting Abusive About Our Relationship
Q. we are james and alvina. we were so happy together. but unfortunately, my(james)parents hated alvina so much. they smashed my phone, called alvina's college, put me on home detention, and even worst, bang me on the wall and threatened me to delete ...
A. 8 July 2008: The way this was written, I have to ask this. Are james and lvina the same person, or two separate individuals?
I agree with the other poster. Either way, the parents behavior is stepping over the boundaries of being legal. I'd tell them to stop,... (read in full...)
My husband caught me cheating for the third time. I can't help it. Would I be better "swinging" or with an open relationship?
Q. my husband has caught me cheating for the third time. i really love my husband but i cheat regularly. often an attractive man hits on me and i just can't resist and i am in bed with him. i explained this to my husband and i told him that i ...
A. 8 July 2008: Depends on your husbands preference. Swinging involves him, open does not.
Reading this, I can imagine the knots in your husbands stomach. Pure pain twisting and tightening up. You say "we might like better". It's you might, your husband may go a... (read in full...)
When I tell my husband I don't want to come 2nd in his life he tells me to "do what I want"! Am I overreacting?
Q. I married a man 1 month ago. Dated him for 2 years. He was separated from ex 5 years ago. They were married 22 years. He and ex won't talk unless it is a text or through their children. My question: Last week we went to Sam's Club. He offered ...
A. 8 July 2008: I agree with the other poster.
But I'd go with the $10 additional card. Reason being, Sams Club is not worth arguing over. As far as the other issues. They are problems. You have great difficulty communicating together, without it turning ... (read in full...)
My Ex is Ruining Things Between Us
Q. dear cupid, my story starts in 2002 i met what i thought would be my future wife, within six months we had moved in together and was happy when we planned a pregnancy and she gave birth to my little boy!! i was so happy but soon after sh...
A. 8 July 2008: I agree with the other poster. Don't let her dictate with your child. Your being with her or not is separate from you building a relationship with your child.
For the other poster. The solicitor should have been turned into the court there. T... (read in full...)
He never admits when he is wrong and I think he's just wanting to have a reason to break up, should I leave him?
Q. ok, we talked about this, this morning.. well more like argued about it this morning, and i told him i don't want to be pulled along in a relationship when I'm the only one wanting it to work, and not thinking about all the negative outcomes... when ...
A. 8 July 2008: It seems as if he's not willing to take responsability for his actions. Lets say you do move in together, and get married, do you want to be with someone who's still not able to take responsability. He said he can't see you two together longterm. If ... (read in full...)
Could the anti-depressants be making things worse?!
Q. oh my god, im just so depressed , and i dont know why .i tried anti depressants a few years ago, they did nothing, i cant talk to anyone as i really dont know why im depressed, i can be fine in work one day,then get home and just feel like crying, ...
A. 8 July 2008: I'd go back to the doctor and ask if you may be manic depressive. It's also known as bipolar. Anger is not always the low state with this disorder. It sounds as if it could even be unipolar disorder. That's where you have regular level being then ... (read in full...)
My friend's married boyfriend has turned into a real monster! What can I do?
Q. i have a friend that i have known for around 10 years or so.6 years ago,she entered into a relationship with a childhood friend of hers,who is married.well at first everything was ok i guess.he said he would leave his wife and they would be together ...
A. 8 July 2008: Asside from your friend. Why is his wife allowing this to happen as well? Does the wife know about this relationship? Have they, at anytime, had sexual relations between the three of them? I ask this to see a picture of the involvement his actual ... (read in full...)
When I was young, I touched my little sister...
Q. I've done something really bad. When I was young I touched my little sister. She was sleeping. I know I did something real wrong. Is there anything I could do about this? I've made a lot of mistakes and I wish I would have never done...
A. 8 July 2008: how's your relationship with your sister now?
I know this was wrong, and you're regreting some things you've done in the past. How old were you when this incident happened? Is this something she has been or is aware of happening? How long has... (read in full...)
I am afraid he was just using me for sex, and he might have HIV
Q. I really like this guy alot. There was rumours going around about him having HIV. The other night a bunch of us got real drunk. We were about to have sex, when I was like, "No, I need to talk to you about something first" So I straight up asked him ...
A. 8 July 2008: From the way you wrote before, I could tell you weren't that old. Is there a family planning in your town? It's a government run business which is confidential and may be able to help you.
I believe you should tell your mom. She may be a bit more... (read in full...)
I am afraid he was just using me for sex, and he might have HIV
Q. I really like this guy alot. There was rumours going around about him having HIV. The other night a bunch of us got real drunk. We were about to have sex, when I was like, "No, I need to talk to you about something first" So I straight up asked him ...
A. 7 July 2008: I know you don't want to hear this, but I feel you need to get tested. Not a good idea to have unprotected sex and take those risks. Especially with this rumor going around. Can you believe it or not? Who knows until you get tested.
I'd go that ... (read in full...)
After a nightmare I wet the bed with my boyfriend in it!
Q. OK, this is pretty embarassing. In bed with the boyfriend last night, fast asleep. I have a weird dream that involves me taking a pregnancy test. Next thing I know, I wake up, and it's all wet... Yeah, turned out that dream was a little more real...
A. 7 July 2008: You had a dream that induced a response. It's perfectly okay. I think sometimes our brains get confused. Taking deams and acting them out as if they were reality. It's normal. ... (read in full...)
Family fights all the time, I am miserable, I must leave, is there someplace to live for free temporarily?
Q. Hi, Im writing becasue I can't seem to find peace at home and I don't know what to do. My parents have been married for about 23 years, but my mom's had to deal with infidelities, indecision physical and physiological abuse (IN THE PAST). I ...
A. 7 July 2008: I'd look for a friend of the family you can go and gather your thoughts. Your family definately needs some healing. Talk about a high level of being off balance. I can see why you are discouraged. These situations are never easy. It's hard for the ... (read in full...)
Two, too many bad relationships, what goes, am I to blame?
Q. This past year, I was in an abusive relationship you could say. I liked him for some reason, and so my friend set us up. Well, nobody at my school approved and I couldn't understand why. Until...well, apparently he'd had a reputation for sexually ...
A. 7 July 2008: Is it your fault? Nope. I don't think you're stupid either. I call this experience. You don't know if the water is hot or cold, until you step into it. You don't have much dating experience. With your ex's you will start developing a sense of who ... (read in full...)
Still love my husband, family interfered, he allowed it, we separated, how can I get him back?
Q. Dear All, I dont know if my situation is so different or complex that it can not be helped but I am in need for the right advice and right direction that can help me and my ex to get back together. I am a 26 yr old woman and my husband is 29 ys...
A. 7 July 2008: You love him so much, but you won't open your mouth to tell him. You are both in love with eachother, but trying so hard to make the other person happy. By doing so, if he says he wants the divorce, you'll agree, not because you want it, but because ... (read in full...)
I feel like I can't get out of this abusive relationship! Help!
Q. I'm in a situation that I feel like I can not get out of. I'm living with my boyfriend of five years and we have two young babies together. I don't want to be with him anymore because he drinks, and when he drinks he becomes very voilent. He beat ...
A. 7 July 2008: You say you can't affor too. I say you can't afford not too. What price do you really put on your life or the lives of your children? Even if he doesn't touch them physically, every time he lays a hand on you in their presense, they're picking that ... (read in full...)
I'm not very fond of my aunt and I don't know if it's wrong to feel this way!
Q. Have any of you ever felt like so far away from a family member,like emotionally? Well,a couple of days ago,my grandma told my mom that her aunt(my great aunt),had asked about her. My mom's not exactly fond of her. My mom told me in the car yest...
A. 7 July 2008: It's not wrong to feel that way. People have emotions, even as adults. It's okay, even healthy for an adult to cry every now and again too. ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to trust him when he goes out all night but thinks I will cheat?
Q. Ok, I wrote this last night http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-trust-him-again-and-stop.html I have to say that yes I may have been somethering him but only because he wants the same from me. He doesn't trust me, and he thinks that I'll ...
A. 4 July 2008: First, don't put yourself down. Beauty is much deeper than the outside appearance. Our bodies are only a case which houses who we really are.
You stopped many of your friendships because of this. Never do that for anyone. A relationship is what... (read in full...)
The married man I'm seeing may break up with me! How do I deal with the heartache?
Q. I am in love with a married man - I just got thru a divorce that had nothing to do with him. I have been seeing this man for almost a year (four month break - his wife suspected, he got scared, we all tried to do right thing). Then the email...
A. 4 July 2008: The first problem comes with being with a married man. Can you ever expect someone who's already committed to be able to share the same level of commitment with a second person? His marriage may not be the greatest that exists, but it's still a ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to my husband's younger brother and had sex with him. Why is this so wrong?
Q. I'm a married woman in my 20s, I really love my husband. He's in his 20s also. We have a great sex life. Even so, I've been attracted to his younger brother (also in his 20s) since before we got married. Recently, his brother and I got a little ...
A. 3 July 2008: so if marriage is a vow to you, why do you choose not to honor it? The question is not if it's okay to do what you did. Did your husband allow for this to take place? What you may see as being okay, he may see as a major marriage violation and ... (read in full...)
He seperated from her 2 years ago, ive been dating him, now she wants to try again!
Q. I have been seeing a great guy for about 4 months. He was separated with children who live at home with him. His wife left him two years ago for someone else but she returned to the house whenever she babysat the children so my guy could go out. ...
A. 2 July 2008: I'd walk away, because he doesn't know what he wants too do. If I wanted to be with someone, it wouldn't matter who knocked on my door. That wouldn't change my position.
From his end, I have a song, still in the production phase, it's called, ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to my husband's younger brother and had sex with him. Why is this so wrong?
Q. I'm a married woman in my 20s, I really love my husband. He's in his 20s also. We have a great sex life. Even so, I've been attracted to his younger brother (also in his 20s) since before we got married. Recently, his brother and I got a little ...
A. 2 July 2008: When you get married, you're to stay with your husband and not allow temptations of others overcome you.
If you believe it's okay. It should be find for you to let your husband know what happened. It would also be okay for you to tell your chi... (read in full...)
Can my mom have him arrested for statutory rape?
Q. Okay I seriously need to know the answer to this question. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we've been dating for about 3 months. My mom is accusing us of having sex and is threatening to get him for statutory rape. He told me that she it's ...
A. 2 July 2008: I'd say their is a bigger chance to yes, than there is to no. Most states allow an age difference. But some states have an additional provision. The additional provision states: No one 18 or older may have sexual contact with anyone under the age of ... (read in full...)
My husband won't french kiss me, why?
Q. My husband will not french kiss me at all. He did when we were dating we have been married 5 years I can count on one hand the times he has kiss me. It is usually just a peck on the lips or cheek. Even during sex he doesnt kiss me at all. He has ...
A. 2 July 2008: Believe it or not, there are some guys who are turned off, not just because of the sex act, but because sometimes it's down and dirty.
Sex can be the greatest level of intimacy reached in a marriage. When saying "I do", doesn't give a pass to quit... (read in full...)
How do I get over an "emotional abuser"?
Q. How do I get over an emotional abuser? I love him deeply, but he always found flaws in me... He was very loving and respectful most of the time. But when he''d get mad and make me cry, he'd get even angrier. It's true I made mistakes, but st...
A. 2 July 2008: You need to work on improving yourself. The pain will continue being endless as long as you continue attempting to justify his behavior.
I have a strong character. I live within the personal and professional demands of high integrity. Yet, I don'... (read in full...)
How does the divorce system work?
Q. what makes a divorce expensive?? what do you have to do to get a divorce? and what is an annulment, when can it be done, and how?...
A. 2 July 2008: Are you personally in a situation that's not working out?
Divorce is expensive because of two areas:
(1) Cost of attorney's. Most run $120-200 per hour.
(2) Contesting the settlement. That prolongs the divorce and really raises the cost. It'... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Sounds like you're doing better, as a manner of speaking. Your right it doesn't look good to the judge to drag out court.
Just a bit of warning. Seeing someone prior to the end of the divorce can be used in court as well. Legal marriage, is lega... (read in full...)
My dad would touch me while I was sleeping as a child, I only started remembering this last year. Please help me.
Q. Hi. I am 30 years old with 3 beautiful children. I have had horrible relationships in the past, abusive, and now I am a single mother. My dad is an alcoholic, and as a child he was very touchy feely with me all the time. I hated it but didn't ...
A. 1 July 2008: Your welcome. In a way we're in the same position. Build yourself up before sharing life with another. My goal is to remain single until death do I part. At times it can get lonely. With my raising kids as well, my priorities are not in line with ... (read in full...)
My dad would touch me while I was sleeping as a child, I only started remembering this last year. Please help me.
Q. Hi. I am 30 years old with 3 beautiful children. I have had horrible relationships in the past, abusive, and now I am a single mother. My dad is an alcoholic, and as a child he was very touchy feely with me all the time. I hated it but didn't ...
A. 30 June 2008: Let me ask you this. Are your children girls or boys? It sounds like the flashbacks are regressed episodes. Even having a child who reminds you of you when you were young will trigger memories your child self tried so hard to hide.
I'm going to a... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 June 2008: That's what you need to concentrate on. As far as his taking the solicitor out to lunch and such. Violation of ethics. People here get their licenses taken away or suspended for those behaviors.
Keep a calendar of all issues. Everytime he cance... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 May 2008: If you can establish proof of his dating his solicitor, that should establish a conflict of interest, which would pull her off the case, and may cause issues with her ability to continue law.
I woulnd't accept less than what you feel you dese... (read in full...)
Do you think there is a possibility that we might get back together?
Q. What should I do?My 7 year relationship ended 3 weeks ago. I am 24 years old and he's 27 years old. We argued because I said he only wants to be with his friends and told him he didn't care about me. He says he loves me and cares about me but he ...
A. 18 May 2008: I believe temptation is influencing. It seems as if he wants to take other women out for a test drive. That's the only thing I can think of with his explanations.
(1) He loves and cares for you.
(2) Giving permission for you to move on with som... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 May 2008: If he seeks an injunction, a hearing should be set to answer to it. If his calls were done by home phone, have your phone company pull a copy of those records which show his phone calls to you. If they are done by cell phone, your bill should ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2008: I know this is hard for you to deal with. Working with people who have been through divorce and seeing the after affects, it's heart breaking. I can't figure out your question either of how someone can act or live as if they love and care for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 19 April 2008: The first piece of advice anyone one law gives is to not speak to the other person. Speak through your legal professionals. Reason being, "anything you say can be used against you in court." Couples who split up can get into some heated arguments. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm glad everything is working out for you. I can see where your solicitor is coming from. I'm in law as well and hoping to begin in family law. My two big pet peeves in family law are adultry and any lack of responsability on the best interest of ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2008: First of all, make sure you file your response within the time the court has allowed, it's generall (at least here) 30 days from the date you receive the paperwork. Remember too, the response, if you do it prior to meeting with the solicitor, i... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2008: Great, have your son contact me on here, I'll let him know you give your permission to toss your phone in the river.
Let me ask you this. If you didn't have your phone, would that stop you, or would you find another way?
Do you believe life... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Your doing what's right. I hope your strength keeps building. I know it's hard sometimes around the holidays to be alone. Before I got custody of my children. I would eat Christmas dinner alone at a diner. But other than that, being alone was OK. I ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: I am soooo glad to hear you are moving on with your life. It's better for you and your son. You don't want him growing up imitating his dad's behavior. You are a wonderful person and someone who really loves their child and plans to put him first. I ... (read in full...)
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