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He tried to rape me, but I want to give him another chance. Is this wrong?

Q.   umm, i have a question 4 you. i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago because he tried 2 rape me. i was in a state. but now i am starting 2 ave feelings 4 him again. I want 2 give him another chance. is this wrong?...

A.   10 October 2007: NO NO NO NO NO, please stay well away. Do all you have to do to keep him away or you might live to regret what you're considering doing. I have been raped and this is no joke. It will leave you a different person than the one you were. It is ... (read in full...)

Do you think my abusive ex knows everything is his fault and just can't handle his guilt?

Q.   hi there, anyone got any advice about this? i have left my abusive partner of 20 years. yes we have split up time and time again before but this time i have spoke out and told him exactly what i think of him and told him all the nasty things he ...

A.   10 October 2007: What does it matter if he feels it's his fault or not? You're out of the relationship, so please don't return as that's what I think I'm hearing. All that matters is how you think and feel. His proglems with abuse then and now are his. YOu're l... (read in full...)

He abuses me and loves me? I love him, is he ever going to change?

Q.   ok. so here is the deal. i've been with this kidd for one year nd he's always lieing to me, he is so jealous, he hit me before, mentally abuse me, hurt me verbelly and physically but i know that he's crazy about me. he's in love with me and he would ...

A.   10 October 2007: This man is not going to change, that's for sure. You're letting him carry on like this. Sorry if this sounds hard. It's not your fault, he is an abuser. But you haven't said you have tried to stop this in any way and talking to him is not going ... (read in full...)

I'm scared of my abusive boyfriend

Q.   Please help I just got beaten very badly and need advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He and I have had a completely trustful, honest, supportive relationship. Yet every now and then it can be a verbally abusive ...

A.   10 October 2007: Stay away,believe me your strenght will come back ,it will trust me.sit down on your own in a space wher you do not feel frightened and ask your self,do i really love him or is it the fear i feel that makes me feel like this.as i hav said before to ... (read in full...)

I'm 15, my boyfriend is abusive, I'm afraid and don't know what to do.

Q.   well to put a long story short. i have been with my boyfriend since my 14th birthday and i was 15 in may, 17 months i have been in the relationship and for about 9 of it it has been terrible. i have wanted to end it but i cant cos he says if i do i ...

A.   10 October 2007: dear dear friend please don't feel that you don't have any one to support you or believe you.you have just found that person.you need to contact the police they will assist you to the best of YOUR requirements.also child line,ring them.there are ... (read in full...)

He abuses me, ...so why do I still love him?

Q.   i am a 20 year old and my boyfriend is 31. we have been dating for a whole year and 6 months, well everything was perfect what any girl dreams for. its been like 6 whole months that our relationship just turned upside down. he calls me names ...

A.   10 October 2007: He does not love you that is a fact, he does not love you, this is not love and you have to ask your self do you really love him or is it the fear that makes you feel like this, believe it or not fear can make you feel a lot of things that are not ... (read in full...)

I've been attacked by my partner. Please help me.

Q.   I'm not sure that I can cope any more. I was attacked 3 weeks ago by my partner and substained some serious injuries. I had six stitches to my eye and lost my front tooth which I've had to have replaced by a false one. I thought that it was goin...

A.   10 October 2007: oh my dear dear friend as you speak i am crying so much for you,i have been in a very extremely violent relationship that lasted 7 years,all of which i was trying to run from place to place to escape,near the end he put a pint glass in my face and ... (read in full...)

How much contact is "obsessive"?

Q.   What is too obsessive? my boyfriend tells me that i am too obsessive. I live an hour away from him and call him during my breaks and he calls me during his. Then i ask what he is doing. All of the sudden he ask if I am obssed with him. How do you ...

A.   3 October 2007: i don't think that you have an obsession, we all show our commitment to each other in different ways,obviously if he does have a problem then may b just back off slightly with the phone calls etc,then see how he feels,he should never v compare you ... (read in full...)

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