How can I keep him happy?
Q. how can i save my relationship he seems to get distant then all swwet and cuddly and stuff you know what i mean how do i " freeze " him in the happy side or just simply keep him happy ...
A. 11 October 2007: ok thanks well i think he might have our 1 year anniversary on his mind cause he told me i need a sitter for my son and that is all i need to know then he said he knows i will be happy and not know what to think so i have no clue what we are doin in ... (read in full...)
Should I answer the phone and tell her why I don't want to have anything to do with her?
Q. I recently ended my relationship with my now ex of 2 years due to the ridiculous amount of problems that we faced. She was extremely demanding and always threatened to end our relationship if she didn't get her way. She would endlessly compla...
A. 10 October 2007: tell her then change your number she sounds obssesed ... (read in full...)
His ex is trying to split us up. How do I keep my cool?
Q. what do i do when all his ex is tryin to do is seperate us ? how do i keep my cool and keep it together ?? ...
A. 9 October 2007: well he hasnt talked to her since i told him it was either her or me the prob is that she still visits his parents who live with his grandmother and we frequently visit there and what she has done in the past called him alot called me a bitch in one ... (read in full...)
Why did he flaunt me like that. Was he trying to make her jealous?
Q. my ex just broke up with a girl he always runs to from his past (he calls her his rebound) the other day we were out on a date, and he saw her cousins and some of his friends, he asked me to stay around them and flaunted me in front of his rebound's ...
A. 4 October 2007: well he may be tryin to show her he is taken now so she needs to let him alone so to speak alota guys do this ... (read in full...)
He's been planning this "suprise" for two months. He's rubbish at suprises! Will this come between us?
Q. can my man hating his job and keeping a surpise from me for 2 more months be affecting our relationship ? he is really bad at giving surprises and he has known about it for months already !!...
A. 3 October 2007: no i mean like i dont know whats up and he said he has a surprise for me and what he is bad at is keepin it to himself till then ... (read in full...)
He's been planning this "suprise" for two months. He's rubbish at suprises! Will this come between us?
Q. can my man hating his job and keeping a surpise from me for 2 more months be affecting our relationship ? he is really bad at giving surprises and he has known about it for months already !!...
A. 2 October 2007: well it will be around the 1st of december whatever it is he said i was gonna be surprised ... (read in full...)
Why shouldn't I have a baby?
Q. i crave for a baby. i am 17 and quite mature for my age. i know 10 girls one of which is my best friend, all my age who have had babys last year after leaving school. i went to college. my boyfriend and i have been together 4 3years in november ...
A. 2 October 2007: it is hard to be a young mom i was 20 when my son was born and he is 1 now he is into every thing and just think of the freedom u have well when you have kids u have to get a sitter or take the kid with you ... (read in full...)
I am 17 and pregnant
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, My name is Fiona and I am seventeen years old and I recently found out that I am pregnant. I am very confused and I really don’t know what to do and I still haven’t told anyone. Please help! I thoug...
A. 2 October 2007: i gree with the other aunt and also i feel that you are good with kids so keeping it maybe the best option talk to your boyfriend and your family too that would be the best thing to do listen to what everone else has to say ... (read in full...)
My partner of 5 yrs has left me. I am 8 weeks pregnant!
Q. My partner of 5 years has left me, I am 8 weeks pregnant. I have a daughter who believes he is her father and he has left. He has backed out of getting married to me and buying a house with me. We have been engaged for 4 years....
A. 2 October 2007: take him for support after you have the baby .. does he even know about the baby how old is your daughter ? MY HEART REALLY GOES OUT TO YOU
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How can I stop throwing myself at boys??
Q. I know all you readers are just going to think im a total slut and a whore and everything else you can think of but i dont know what to do about the situation im in. My parents both died in a car accident just 12 months ago and i have been living h...
A. 2 October 2007: jess i really hope you keep your baby like you said it isnt the baby's fault and he/she deserves a chance . i hope you realize there is help out there and i mean everyone needs help sometimes , i had a friend when we were your age she got pregnant ... (read in full...)
It was a week after her period, could she still get pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex last night. Is it possible that she could get pregnant even though it was almost a week after her period?...
A. 2 October 2007: yes 14 days after a period is the tim most people get pregnant .. i thought the same thing till sex ed but that was a while ago !! i hope you are not upset with your out come ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gotten abusive
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and we recently had a baby during my pregnancy he started getting a little aggressive just doing little things like pulling my hair and pinching me, since the birth of our son its got worse in the ...
A. 2 October 2007: glad to see you got away safely ... (read in full...)
He keeps asking about threesomes. I've had them and they're not a good idea at all! Should I be worried?
Q. Okay i have been with my boyfriend for four years. And yes our relationship is somewhat good. But a few days ago all my bf did was ask about a threesome. I have had them in the past and they are not the greatest idea at all. he kept on begging me ...
A. 2 October 2007: tell him it caused problems before and that you really love him and want it to work with him not be mad cause you guys slept with someone else and see what he says to that
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I may be pregnant with my boyfriend of 1 year's baby...
Q. I'm 21 years old and might me pregnant with my boyfriend of 1 year's baby. I told him there is a chance. I am going to the doctors today to find out. He said that he hopes it is not that. He hopes that it is something completely different but non ...
A. 28 September 2007: when i found out i was pregnant it was scary too ! my son is 1 now and honestly the labor pain wasnt that bad but i did have a epidural the scariest part was hearin the nurses say his heart rate is dropping !!! i ended up havein a c- section and if ... (read in full...)
Could she be starting her period aged 7?
Q. my daughter is 7 years old and saying she has belly pains. can she be having the pain to start her period....
A. 28 September 2007: i agree with leanne you should find out by a dr they will know more !!... (read in full...)
Should we introduce potty training?
Q. my 12 month old son is too smart he has just turned one on 09-17-07 and he has mastered taking down the baby gate walking and he talks more than most kids that are atleast 3 months older than him he took off his diaper the other day and told me wet ...
A. 28 September 2007: i just put his potty together wensday and yesterday i sat him on it and to my surprise he sat there its a start right !!!... (read in full...)
He gets violent if I ask him not to be in contact with his ex.
Q. my boyfriend of 9 months and the man who i live with accepts the fact i have a son from a previous relationship and doesnt get mad when my sons imprisoned father sends letters but it infuriates me when his ex that lives 10minutes away calls him and ...
A. 27 September 2007: we talked it out he dont talk to the ex anymore.. and i am proud to say he hasnt hit me since !!! ... (read in full...)
What do I do, this man has other women and a child in his life?
Q. what should i do with a man that i am in love wit who have a woman and a child and another woman in his life and cliams that he want to married me ...
A. 27 September 2007: you really can find someone better matched for you ... who is willing to make you the center of all his attention!!... (read in full...)
My friend could use advice about her problem 15 month old son
Q. A friend of mine is having trouble with her 15 month old son, who when he is told no, or dosnt get his way starts to screem to the top of his lungs, slaps his mom in the face or wherever he can reach, bites and pinch's. And not only does this with ...
A. 26 September 2007: tell your friend to get a book on toddlers ... if that fails to go to the dr and see what there suggestions are !! ... (read in full...)
How will I know if I am in love or just lust?
Q. how do you know love is real ?? i have been with my present bf almost 10months and i am starting to question myself and my answers are all the same i do love him but i wanna know how you know its real love opposed to just a lust thing ...
A. 26 September 2007: thank you for your advice ont this question yes i consider him with out even realizeing it .. and i enjoy time with him immensely /... ... (read in full...)
How do I get her out of this relationship?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 and a half months now and we are really really happy together. The problem is that his ex won't leave him alone. They had a very short relationship last December where she only met him three times, ignored ...
A. 26 September 2007: tell him if he talks to her its over.. explain it will make you an evil bitter bitch i know my man and i are just getting over this . it took like 5 months out of our 10 month relationship. finally he just started ignoring her . that must mean i am ... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to move slower in our sex life, but wants it every night! Does this make sense??
Q. He told me he wanted to slow down on sex! He said he wanted it to mean more and I have not been pressureing him. But now it seems every night he wants to make love to me. Does this make sense?? ...
A. 26 September 2007: thanks for your input .... we have been together almost 10 months !! i think he thought i was tryin to pressure him when really i was tryin to please him ... BUT WHEN I DONT EVEN do anything and am being innocent he gets really aroused that was what ... (read in full...)
I'm constantly put down by her - then she leaves w/ our baby for days at a time! This time, it's been 2 weeks!
Q. Hi all, i a have been with my partner for two years and we have a 9 month old baby, for about the last 18 months our relationship has changed somewhat, where no matter what i do its not the right thing and i'm constantly put down or criticised fo...
A. 26 September 2007: well post baby blues is common . i went thru it with the man i got with when my son was 2 months and yes it take a toll on the relationship. give her a lil time ! did she have a c-section ? i did and it made me feel like i was a failure at ... (read in full...)
He's already come out and practically said "I love you" to me and it's only been a week.
Q. He's already come out and practically said "I love you" to me and it's only been a week. We've only been on one date and talked between classes a couple times. I'm a little freaked out by the whole situation, but it's rare that anyone takes notice ...
A. 23 September 2007: you can be in love in a week my bf and i met we talked 1 week then the first time we made love i told him i loved him. he said do you know how many times i wanted to tell you that ! the thing is we have been together goin on 10 mths and i live with ... (read in full...)
Tips on staying on top? I'm embarassed when me and my bf have sex, as I'm still not experienced despite of my relations with men.
Q. im really embarassed about this question! ive been with my boyfriend for a year and ive been with over 15 men but im still not experienced with sex! i feel really emabarassed when me and my bf have sex! ive never been on top and wouldnt have a clue ...
A. 23 September 2007: reverse cowgirl hold on to his feet tho ... (read in full...)
To be in love with two people at once, is it possible?
Q. is it possible to be in love with two people at once? i know u can love two people at once, but can someone be in love with two peops at once? any opinions? my friends girlfriend recons she's torn b'cus she is inlove with two men. is it possible?...
A. 23 September 2007: she may be in love with you but i think it may be lust on both accounts (the other person ) . because i am in a relationship currently and i could never think about another man ! ... (read in full...)
Can someone who is in love cheat on you?
Q. my byf cheated on my but says it was a mistake and he really loves me. I wont take him back. Is it possible that someone who is in love with you could cheat on u? i reckon he's lieing about his feelings cus the other girl didnt want him in the end. ...
A. 23 September 2007: all i can say is trust is hard to regain ! personally i would not take him back!simply because its happened to me to many times. but in the end if they do it once they usually do it again . i guess some people like the thrill ! you know seein what ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him for getting with someone else when we broke up!?
Q. Hey guys, So i just broke up with my ex 5 days ago and last night he made ou with some exchange student hes always telling me that he loves me and i love him soo much too!! Should i forget it happen and forgive him or give him hell for it for...
A. 20 September 2007: forgive him but dont forget!if he does it again tell him to hit the road !!!... (read in full...)
I want to tell him about past secrets but I'm scared he will go off on one! Any advice please?
Q. i posted this a while back as a follow-up to the question "Can he love me that much and still be that relentlessly cruel?". there was only one reply (thank you, basschick), but it's still bothering me, so i'm re-asking. "we've been doing well ...
A. 20 September 2007: let him know we all have a past he needs to get over it. but at the same time how can he get over what he doesnt know. tell him you dont want him to dislike you because you love him so much but keeping things from him is killing you !! ... (read in full...)
I havnt been able to orgasm with my boyfriend through penetration and its become a problem in our relationship. What can I do to make our sex life better?
Q. I'm a 24 years old. Me and my boyfriend are having sex for 5 months once a week at least. I never had vaginal orgasm before, I can have clitoral orgasm on my own or with partner. When my boyfriend learned I can not reach orgasm by only penetration ...
A. 20 September 2007: close your eyes for a moment think about this man and yourself and how much love you have for him then open them and keep concentrating and it should eventually happen ... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling guilty for leaving a violent alcoholic husband?
Q. I have made the decision to separate from my husband after repeted attempts of leaving him and returning again within a week or two with the hopes that he was ready to get help as he's promised. He is an alcoholic and for the past two years he's ...
A. 20 September 2007: tell yourself it was a no win situation and you are better off without him ... (read in full...)
I caught my fiance and daughter getting it on in our house!
Q. I moved a long way to live with my fiance. I love him so much. My two kids came with me: son, 14 and daughter, now 20. I have caught my daughter and fiance at it in living room! I went to bed early and came back down and caught them. This has broke...
A. 20 September 2007: cut him out of your life . if he done this with your daughter how much respect or love does this man actually have for you and whose to say he wont cheat on you with people hes never met before if you cant trust him i wouldnt be with him ... (read in full...)
This girl I like is pregnant with someone else's baby. I don't know if she wants me around just for the baby's sake!
Q. I met this gal at work. she asked 4 my number n i gave her it.. I gotta admit she is real nice n prob auta my my leauge.. but we met up a few times n it went real good......I moved away n now ive moved back n i bumped into her in town n she said she ...
A. 20 September 2007: if i were you i would talk to her in depth i have a son and i had a situation like this last year. my ex (his dad ) was a sperm donor i had no clue what a jerk he was he has only seen my son 4 times total and he turned one monday! i wanted some one ... (read in full...)
I really like my ex's friend and she likes me, too. But I think she has reservations about getting together!
Q. Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a couple weeks; I've had the biggest crush on her since I've seen her. Her friend is my ex girlfriend. I really, really, really, really like this girl and she says she likes me, too, although I have a ...
A. 19 September 2007: tell the girl how you really feel. if your ex still has feelings for you she will have to get over it. try to introduce her to some single guys. ... (read in full...)
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