I'm a virgin. Shall I pretend that I'm not?
Q. Hi...im a sophomore in high school and well most of my friends along with myself have went into high school as a virgin but most of my friends have lost it this year i dont feel pressured into losing it but when they talk about how everything ...
A. 17 October 2007: Im also a sophmore. And in my own opinion. Lying will eventually bite you in the ass. Trust me ive done it more than once. ... (read in full...)
Help me-i love my female teacher!
Q. hi i'm 15. a new teacher came to my school. i fell absoloutley madly in love with her, i can never stop thinking about her. it's killing me. i love her more than i've loved anybody. i don't know whether to keep it to myself, or tell her. if i tel...
A. 15 October 2007: well legally and morally speaking. it would be best to try and let it go. as stupid as that may sound. you just realistically speaking cannot have a realtionship with your teacher, especially when she is like 30. you could be bi sexual.... (read in full...)
How can we save the relationship?
Q. I am so hurt and confused and crushed. My true love has cheated on me with her first love and now says she is in love with her and she is married. She has kept me hanging on for 4 months now and giving me hope and mixed signals.We have been together ...
A. 14 October 2007: might I suggest going to a reltionship counseling session. that might shed light on some of the problems and the counselor can give you advice and recommendations on correcting it.... (read in full...)
I don't know why all boys find me so unattractive?
Q. I really really really want a boyfriend i have wanted one for ages and its killing me inside, i want someone to talk to, to cuddle and to love but i don't know why all boys find me so unnattractive...
A. 14 October 2007: dang your like only 10. Im 15 and i havent been with a single girl in my life. But I know how you feel. Give it time. You will find someone. And to be honest guys your age will only go for the highschoolers and will not even think about giving ... (read in full...)
My friend is depressed. What can I do?
Q. i have a friend. He is in love with this girl, they've been best of friends and one day, they decided to give it a shot. It went alright for awhile till she pulls out. It breaks his heart and he is sincerely sad. After a couple of weeks, they resume ...
A. 14 October 2007: wow. what a sad sad scenario. maybe you should sit down with him and tell him as a friend that she is not worth his time. she obviously has no complassion for your friend and she has just thrown him out like hes nuthin. It breaks my heart to see ... (read in full...)
Can you know someone you've never seen?
Q. Can you know the person just by talking over the phone?...
A. 14 October 2007: totally agree with tommy. but phones can be deceiving.... (read in full...)
Any ideas where my boyfriend and I can have sex?
Q. well ive been with my boyfriend now 18 months, were both 15 and we are planning on having sex. i am not a virgin although he is, he knows that and is fine with it i have only done it once before although we have been together 18 months we have ...
A. 14 October 2007: I would not recommend sex PERIOD. way too many bad tings can happen.... (read in full...)
My friend told everyone about my video to myself.
Q. Help! My friend saw my phone last week and it had a video of me fingering myself on it. She saw it and now everone in my year nows. But worse than that i was going to send it to a boy that i didnt even now. Everyone is now against me. How can i go ...
A. 14 October 2007: i totally agree with RCN. its was not a very good idead to make it in the first place. And those types of movies can later be used for black mail if someone else would get a hold of a copy. or they could sell it to some perv. kinda like paris ... (read in full...)
I feel abnormal
Q. i am only 11 and i love to um............masterbate...is that normal...i also use my moms sex toys...when i try to use my hand or something i always stop...but with the toy i just keep going...also when i masterbate i always feel a cold feeling in ...
A. 14 October 2007: masturbation is completely normal thing. 2 its not a big deal your maturbating at 11. I started when I was 9. But about the goey stuff and feeling cold "down there" I cant really help because im not a girl. My best guess is that the gooey stuff you ... (read in full...)
No alone time will break us up?
Q. we barely have any alone time together and im afraid we are going to grow apart what should i do?...
A. 14 October 2007: you didnt really give me much to go on. im assuming its extra curricular activities and family events. Why dont you set aside 2 or 3 days out of the entire month and just go out somewhere like a mall or recreation facility. heck an ice rink is a ... (read in full...)
Curiosity licks the dog
Q. What is the best way to mastubate? My dog licked me up once, i didn't mean for him to...it just happened. N it was the best feelin in the world! Is this normal? Dnt want to do it again because it mite giv me a disease or something. Will it give me a ...
A. 14 October 2007: uh tommy. not to be rude but. how in the heck is a 13 year old going to get a vibrator. *lightbulb flashes on in brain* But you can get one of those hand held back massagers like this one ... (read in full...)
How can we make it last?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few weeks now and I just want some tips on how to make our relationship last. We both have a lot in common and we're both really weird and quiet. I am really happy when I'm with her and I don't want it ...
A. 14 October 2007: just keep doing what youre doing. it doesnt sound like youre really having any problems at all. all I have to say is enjoy every moment as if it is your last.... (read in full...)
Post-partem. How do I get sexy again?
Q. He wants me to spice things up sexually. How? when we have a baby that shares the room and I feel overweight still? ...
A. 14 October 2007: well. does your husband have any sexual fantasies that he would like to try? you can also try role play refer to google if you dont know what that is. as for the baby. ummm im not too knowledgable on that but maybe it would be good for him or her to ... (read in full...)
She got violently raped and beaten 8 months ago. Since then I try to make her feel loved and comfortable but it's getting so difficult I am thinking of leaving her. What can I do? She does go counsellig.
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend for 4 years we have lived together for about 2 years as well and we are very in love. Everything was great until she got violently raped and beaten badly about 8 months ago. She ended up in the hospital for about 4 ...
A. 14 October 2007: All I can really say is just be there for her any time she needs you and always be there when she needs someone to talk to. Someday parts of the mental damage will subside and she will come back. But until then keep doing what youre doing. You are ... (read in full...)
He takes longer..
Q. Ok I don't know if this is a common problem, so I need advice. I recently started dating a very nice guy and we also started having sex. Now the problem is that he takes incredibly long to orgasm. I wanted to give him oral sex, at first he didn't ...
A. 14 October 2007: some guys bodies are configured differently. I know that men can actually build up a tolerance or increase the time before they orgasm by either having sex often or masturbating often. Or he could be made like that. Hope this helps... (read in full...)
I still don't have a boyfriend and feel lonely.
Q. ok.. well the thing is that sometimes i feel very lonely i dont know if i am depressed or something, well i dont think so.. i have many friends and a good family, dont misunderstood me the thing is, love has never knock my door, and i dont...
A. 14 October 2007: welcome to my world. I dont think it is much that guys dont want to go out with you. Im sure there are guys like me for example that like you but dont have the courage to ask you. Guys sometimes wont ask a girl out because they believe it will never ... (read in full...)
He showed me his erect penis on MSN and I am freaked out!
Q. A person on msn has been flirting with me...It was fun while it lasted but have been put right off by him! He actually showed me his penis on webcam...it was erected aswel - As i were kinda doing sexy moves for him [regretably] And well i was comp...
A. 14 October 2007: Okay. You will eventually get over this "fear" of sexual intimacy. I think it was a little traumatic experience for someone your age. But eventually your mind will mature so instead of sexual intimacy as being "scary" it will be more of a ... (read in full...)
How do I make my 12 year old gf not dump me for my best friend
Q. i have a 12 year old girlfriend and i need to know how to make her happy so i dont get dumped and, no make her feel special comments....
A. 14 October 2007: Well. You cannot make her not dump you. If this sounds right. But sit down and ask her what would she like you to do.... (read in full...)
Could he be a pedophile?
Q. okay, so my teacher is a nice guy. He's friendly and extremely nice. He doesn't really flirt with students, but if they want him to hug them or if they touch him a lot, he has no problem with that at all. I'm really worried about my friend, like ...
A. 14 October 2007: I agree with richard just watch closely, if needed bring it up with school administration if it continues to get more "physical"... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt her, but ...
Q. Ok this girl REALLY likes me and i like her to but not as much as i thought how do i break up "nicely?"...
A. 14 October 2007: well let me put it down for you. THERE IS NO NICE WAY!!!! there is more polite ways. such as just telling her that you would like to have a trial seperation because you need space or you can just tell her that you dont have the same feelings you ... (read in full...)
Help! My conscience driving me insane!
Q. Alrigh. I was here awhile ago. long while ago. Here I am. The fictional name I will use here is Alex.(Yes, that name is not really mine). I'm a 12 year old loser, but that's not the problem. that was a post long ago. I'm paranoid and it's dri...
A. 14 October 2007: okay for starters. to hell with the popular kids. they are usually a bunch of high maintenence spoiled little brats that suck the life out of every other person that is not popular or is in there group. and there is nothing you can do to change ... (read in full...)
How could I tell her how I feel without sounding like a total wuss??
Q. Me and my girl have been going out for about 1 months or so. A few weeks after our first year anniversary she confessed to me that she had cheated on me with this guy from her school. She also told me that she had only been with him for a few days ...
A. 14 October 2007: well. to answer your paranoid question. you sound like you are a little too clingy to this girl. And you dont really trust her that much. You have to give her credit that she came forward and told you that she cheated on you, that is a very ... (read in full...)
The school vamp is after my guy!
Q. Dear Agony Aunts/Uncles, There's a girl at my school who is a major slut. Her goal in life is probably screw every guy in the premises that she happens to be. Anyway, she happens to flirt with every guy at school practically, and its getting on m...
A. 14 October 2007: okay. you have 3 options 1. to beat the living crap out of her (i would not highly recommend it because it will get you in deep shit) 2. to talk with your guy and make it clear to him that girl is not one to be found with. or 3. Have a little "talk" ... (read in full...)
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