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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 4 March 2009: So, what's going on. Seems like you have a lot of anger built up. You're a nice lady, and I enjoy chatting with you, and I believe during that time you've been warned time and time again to stay clear of this person.
The thing about people chan... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 9 May 2008: Thank you for your wished. We're still doing well. I have my guitars. I can play them anytime, and they don't say no or talk back. lol
Did you see how the United Nations were forced to stop aid to the Asian country who the cyclone hit? They atte... (read in full...)
He has a son to someone else and I don't know if I can handle it...
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and at the beginning we didn't really take the relationship seriously, I cheated on him and so did he on me. Now we want to be committed and really do love one another.. but there is only one problem, he ...
A. 9 May 2008: If he really wants to be with you. I wouldn't worry about him visiting his child. I'm glad to hear your working with this. It can be hard, but if he's the right one for you, you'll have more good times than difficult ones. ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 9 May 2008: your welcome. I get lonely from time to time as well. Then remembering the actions and hurt people do to others snaps me right out of that thought of being with someone. ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 7 May 2008: So you called him, and now know the truth about it not working out. What do you feel you need to do now? I suggest focusing on you. The problem I've seen is you're dependent. It seems as is you need someone there to "make" you happy. To help you ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 27 April 2008: No, I don't recall that song, but when I was a teen, I'd watch the "Flying Circus." It was late night, had to sneak down to the tv to watch it, or mom and dad would get up (busted).
I know some times I ramble. I get on a thought pattern and just... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 26 April 2008: Rape is an action that should not exist. One of the most damaging actions that can take place, weather in family or not. Ten years is crap. I guess that depends. I saw a show last night on prison, where many sexual criminals are killed before being ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 10 April 2008: Reading that letter I thought about two areas of concern. First, it's designed to cause guilt. Second, it's written without taking personal responsability for his actions. Every part of his apology was directed toward placing blame on people, or on ... (read in full...)
How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 8 April 2008: Oh do we now? We just find it so easy. I'm sure you've ready some other posts on here, so I won't go into detail. I was with someone for a year. She was borderline personality. That's the love/hate disorder, that they used as the plot around the ... (read in full...)
How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 7 April 2008: Do you understand we often fear the unknown? Relationships are the unknown. They are understuddies, yet over acted upon. True relationships begin with a relationship of yourself first. As long as you lack in one or more areas of your self, we tend ... (read in full...)
How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 6 April 2008: I'd say, have a wonderful birthday. I'd send him a text back, just saying "thank you". That's all that needs to be said after calling you that. Just because he's acting low, you should still act above and better mannered than he.... (read in full...)
I want to go... How do I leave?
Q. I have been with my BF for 6 years. I have known for a very long time that I need to leave. He knows I am going to leave and he does his very best to keep me down. Every time I start a new job he does something to make me really messed up in ...
A. 2 April 2008: Here's that information I got for you. Hope this helps you out. Just remember, take it one step at a time. Take care of yourself.
I apologize for getting back to you late - I was out of the office
unexpectedly. Here is information about the do... (read in full...)
I've been through so much s*** in my life, I'm affraid to go to sleep!!
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. This is nothing to do with relationships, but i really need some advice on what to do. Life is a lot better than it used to be, but i still dont think i can cope with it and i dont know whats bothering me anymore!! ...
A. 2 April 2008: Life is not always easy. You're story is inspiring with your past to future. You have been through a lot, but your still allowing yourself to be haunted from past choices. Do you feel that much guilt that you can't forgive yourself? You deserve this ... (read in full...)
Please help! I deperately love my Husband, but I have a secret, what can I do?
Q. Wow... All I can say is that I never needed advice more in my life than at this point. I am 24 years old. I met my fiance exactly a year ago and we were friends at first. I was just getting over a relationship where the man broke up with me after me ...
A. 1 April 2008: I think you all ready know the answer to this, but you keep on trying to talk yourself out of it. You're going to have to tell him. One thing that comes with learning and dealing is taking responsability. All though you have changed, you're still ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a work-a-holic, and I'm missing his attention!
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost three years. The first year and a half was great. The last year and a half has been some what of a struggle. My boyfriend is a work-a-holic. I miss him tremendously and miss the way that we used to be. I am...
A. 1 April 2008: It's okay to keep your friend in the picture, as long as you recognize your boundaries and don't cross them violating your relationship. ... (read in full...)
How can I assure him I won't leave?
Q. I've met this man 18 years older than me while I was divorcing my husband. He treats me very nice and supportive. My life is back on track now. He says he can be my dad and worry I will leave him for a younger man. I love him and feel good being ...
A. 1 April 2008: You can't. It's a self esteem issue. The only thing you can do is keep up with positive actions which validate what you've told him.... (read in full...)
We have been trying to conceive for two years, any advice?
Q. Hey me and my fiance have been together for about three and a half years now...we have been trying to conceive for half that time maybe two years or so I don't know what the problem is I am really afraid of going to the doctore just in spite of what ...
A. 1 April 2008: The doctor would know best there. As I said, it's not the getting pregnant causing the difficulties, it's the complications while pregnant. Your doctor would know what's best for you, and doing so in the safest manner. Diseases attack people ... (read in full...)
I hate his ex and myself.
Q. Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and ...
A. 1 April 2008: That's all information is, a tool to find out about ourselves. I urge you, when seeking counseling to take your time in finding the right person. Over the years, I've seen too many where if you want to fix a relationship, they'll tell you how, if ... (read in full...)
We have been trying to conceive for two years, any advice?
Q. Hey me and my fiance have been together for about three and a half years now...we have been trying to conceive for half that time maybe two years or so I don't know what the problem is I am really afraid of going to the doctore just in spite of what ...
A. 1 April 2008: Looking at some information on HPV. Has your fiance been checked for it? I read it's a sexually transmitted viral disease.
Anyway, I didn't see anything that would prevent a pregnancy from happening. That doesn't rule out the information that coul... (read in full...)
Love or adultery?
Q. i m a married woman .but i have relationship with another man.i respect my husband and do all responsibeleties.but i coudnt share intimacy with my husband .what i enjoy with my lover.rumi....
A. 1 April 2008: Is there a question here, or just making a statement.... (read in full...)
Pain 'down there' after sex... why?
Q. After sex with my bf (long term, we've only been with each other - sexually anyways, so it cant be an STD) i always seem to be getting a 'burning' sensation down there. So much that he can't go back in again. So its more like we have sex, he ...
A. 1 April 2008: My first reaction is STD. I think this is your answer, just found it on the net. How do I know if I have a yeast infection?
Yeast infections can be very uncomfortable, but are usually not serious. Symptoms include the following:
Itching and burn... (read in full...)
I have feelings for a guy from same strict religious circle which would forbid our love, what can I do?
Q. Hi i am an 18 year old gal. So theres this guy (28 Years). ive known him for about 5 years and we've been really good friends ever since. Recently, I've developed feelings for him and i think he has for me too. But we both come from the same strict ...
A. 1 April 2008: Protect your friendship and watch the signs. (1) When he talks to you does he touch, like a shoulder or pats you on the back? (2) When sitting by him talking his knees will tilt toward you, or he'll lean in the direction you're sitting. (3) When you ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for a guy from same strict religious circle which would forbid our love, what can I do?
Q. Hi i am an 18 year old gal. So theres this guy (28 Years). ive known him for about 5 years and we've been really good friends ever since. Recently, I've developed feelings for him and i think he has for me too. But we both come from the same strict ...
A. 1 April 2008: I'm not going to get into a religious battle here. Everyone has certain beliefs, and they vary. But let me ask you this. Why should love be restricted? No matter what religion you're in, isn't love the main foundation? ... (read in full...)
I hate his ex and myself.
Q. Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and ...
A. 1 April 2008: So if you were that much in love, why the divorce?
It is quite possiable he has some red flags or mental blocks. You're right in how he's not exercising proper judgement in the way he referres to his ex wife.
I asked about the love because ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 1 April 2008: We didn't get hired for filming. I think we applied too late. That's okay, still had a great time with the kids.
If he does show up, kick him in the ________, and tell him you think you just saw a ghost run by and nailed him in his twins. ... (read in full...)
I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.
Q. I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because ...
A. 1 April 2008: Anybody can stop saying things they shouldn't. You choose your own reactions. Jealousy stems from fear. A fear of loosing what you have with her. I have a real simple phylosophy regarding relationships. Neither person can dictate the behaviors of ... (read in full...)
I hate his ex and myself.
Q. Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and ...
A. 1 April 2008: I just love contradictory answers. I'd have to disagree with the other poster in the way that there is nothing wrong with you. (1) Comparing yourself to others (2) The lower self esteem now (3) The lower sense of self you entered into the ... (read in full...)
My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. What should I do?
Q. My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. Questioning her why she left him for another guy? We have been engaged for about a month now and I am expecting his baby in May. Should I stay with him or leave before he hurts me more?...
A. 1 April 2008: Now, how often has he been texting her. Some times, it's okay for someone to seek an unanswered question, that way they can heal. People who continue to wonder seem to have a more difficult time. He needs to come to realization here. She's not ... (read in full...)
I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.
Q. I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because ...
A. 1 April 2008: I'd let her go to see him. I think that's what you're planning on doing. You asked on here to try to talk yourself out of what you know is the right thing to do.
All though these are not the best of circumstances. I look forward to running ... (read in full...)
How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 1 April 2008: Keep doing what you've been doing, and do a self evaluation. Let me ask you this. How much do you actually know about how relationships work? How much do you know about yourself, your personalities and behaviors, which provide benefit to being in a ... (read in full...)
I love being with him but not with the kids anymore? How can I make him see how his really bad parenting is affecting everyone?
Q. My bf and I have been together 3 years - he has two daughters who are 10 and 12 - I have kids that are a bit older - His girls are just totally obnoxious! He has asked me to help all along with them and they love me and I have tried to teach them ...
A. 1 April 2008: He needs to understand, children learn from their environment. It could be the bad parenting, or it could be lack of knowledge of how to appropriately deal with his children. I bet he's trying to be the friend more than being the parent. Of course, ... (read in full...)
My ex is taking my children on holiday at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number.
Q. My children are about to go on hoildays with their father and his new wife. They live on the other side of the country and at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number. There is no formal custody orders ...
A. 1 April 2008: I would be weary about sending my children anywhere with that little information. I'd require proper information before they went anywhere. I'd also file in the court for an emergency custody hearing. I wouldn't even send them unless both rights ... (read in full...)
I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?
Q. Ok here goes, I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?...
A. 1 April 2008: I think this is a duplicate questions, and possiably not a true question. All I have to say is, for those who don't know you CAN NOT get pregnant from anal sex, need to study up a bit before having any kind of sex.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a work-a-holic, and I'm missing his attention!
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost three years. The first year and a half was great. The last year and a half has been some what of a struggle. My boyfriend is a work-a-holic. I miss him tremendously and miss the way that we used to be. I am...
A. 31 March 2008: it depends on what your intentions are with the friend. it's not fair to his wife, or his two kids either. how would you expect your own behavior if you had two children who we're learning from and someday have the ability to judge how they we're ... (read in full...)
He has a son to someone else and I don't know if I can handle it...
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and at the beginning we didn't really take the relationship seriously, I cheated on him and so did he on me. Now we want to be committed and really do love one another.. but there is only one problem, he ...
A. 31 March 2008: One more questions for you. What if you we're the one carrying the baby from the guy you cheated with. Would you want him to try to cope with the situation, or move on. ... (read in full...)
He has a son to someone else and I don't know if I can handle it...
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and at the beginning we didn't really take the relationship seriously, I cheated on him and so did he on me. Now we want to be committed and really do love one another.. but there is only one problem, he ...
A. 31 March 2008: Two options. (1) LEAVE (2) CHANGE YOUR VIEWS. That's it. Remember this, true love overcomes all obsticals. You said you can't be with someone who has a child with another. That's your answer. Let him go, so he may find someone who is willing to ... (read in full...)
Mommy's 'Baby Girl'...how do I handle this?
Q. My 5 year old blew me away recently. She said her private area was tickling her. I let her know it is important that she can talk to me about things. I did express my concern that this should be private to her. I've noticed stuff that I don't want ...
A. 31 March 2008: You're a protective mother. That's a good thing. ... (read in full...)
I want to go... How do I leave?
Q. I have been with my BF for 6 years. I have known for a very long time that I need to leave. He knows I am going to leave and he does his very best to keep me down. Every time I start a new job he does something to make me really messed up in ...
A. 30 March 2008: I sent a message to the Counsel Bluffs domestic violence group. They'll send me a list of resources which work under your situation without children.
My first initial though was to notify the sherrif and have him arrested for domestic violence. That... (read in full...)
He swears he didn't rape her, do I believe him...?
Q. a friend of mine has recently been summoned to court because a girl is pressing rape charges against him. supposedly he raped her at a party a few weeks ago, I was at the party and I don't remember seeing anything but he swears to god that he didn't ...
A. 29 March 2008: I agree with the other posters. Drinking, can't remember much, sex takes place, girl can't remember or wouldn't do something like that is sober and has to place blame somewhere to justify her actions.
Now under the influence it's difficult to assu... (read in full...)
Love my BF but I'm attracted to his friend, what should I do?
Q. Before I got together with my boyfriend, I was with one of his close friends, just casually but it never "ended" if that makes sense. I love my boyfriend, but I'm still attracted to his friend. What should I do?...
A. 29 March 2008: Choose and don't play games. ... (read in full...)
How to know if it is the truth or his anger speaking?
Q. Hi, i've been married 8 years and my husband wasn't inlove with me when we married but i was so infatuated with him that it didn't matter. now he says he loves me but actions speak showing i'm his friend and not his love, we have a son together and ...
A. 29 March 2008: It sounds as if there could be some truth to his statement. You have a few separate issues here. First is your health. Second is his behavior. Third is the environment your son is growing up in.
Your health does not need this stress. Your son is l... (read in full...)
We love each other, but I don't know if it's a good idea to be with someone who has these different views towards life.
Q. Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and in October I moved in with him. At first things were good. We were both spiritual and wanted to find a church together. Since moving here, I found a church and he has decided to give up ...
A. 29 March 2008: Be firm in your standing. Let him know that you're thinking about your future, and the future together. He needs to know that you, being an important person, won't jeprodize your future with his inaction. You still deserve a good future, with or ... (read in full...)
Can mother-in-law legally force my husband and I to allow her access to our kids?
Q. Okay,My husband and I do not allow for his mother(childrens grandmother) to see our children,for many reasons She has talked very Bad about my 2 kids a 4yr old and 18 month old(thats only 1 of many reasons)just to make it clear NO type of abuse is ...
A. 29 March 2008: No, she has no legal grounds for court. Let me expand. You need to check with the state you live in. I know with her behavior she won't have grounds, but some state still recognize grandparents rights. ... (read in full...)
Can mother-in-law legally force my husband and I to allow her access to our kids?
Q. Okay,My husband and I do not allow for his mother(childrens grandmother) to see our children,for many reasons She has talked very Bad about my 2 kids a 4yr old and 18 month old(thats only 1 of many reasons)just to make it clear NO type of abuse is ...
A. 29 March 2008: No, she has no legal grounds for court. ... (read in full...)
Mommy's 'Baby Girl'...how do I handle this?
Q. My 5 year old blew me away recently. She said her private area was tickling her. I let her know it is important that she can talk to me about things. I did express my concern that this should be private to her. I've noticed stuff that I don't want ...
A. 28 March 2008: I'd take her in to get looked at. With the information you gave it could be numerious possabilities, including an infection. I know girls who sit in the bath are more prone to getting one. Especially using bubble bath. She could even be sensitive ... (read in full...)
I am not over him and think about him 24/7...
Q. Last year I got really hooked on this radio station, it was a right wee hobby of mine! I became famous in its own wee world with the djs and the listenors who all called in and it was alot of fun. At the time I got very close to one of the djs. At ...
A. 28 March 2008: Your right, trying to ruin his marriage is not the best idea. You're in a tough spot, but coming to realization regarding all this may help. You realize he's a married man and plans on staying that way. Sometimes when you love someone you just have ... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're going to be with someone forever????
Q. How do you know when your going to be with someone forever????...
A. 27 March 2008: you don't know. you're choice and the choice of the other may be the same or may not be the same. Looking at the divorce rate. It's the way it is because of lack of commitment and lack of knowledge. You can't expect someone to stay in a marriage, ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 27 March 2008: Its hard when feeling alone. Then we ponder on could of would of should of. I use meditation as a form of relaxation and for stress relief.
What needs to happen in learning to really let go. Healing can't begin as long as you have this tight grip... (read in full...)
The age difference bothers him and now he doesn't want us to be together, help!
Q. My boyfriend and I are 8 years apart and things have never been easy. The age thing doesn't bother me one bit, however it bothers him big time. He says he wouldn't care if all my friends and everyone didn't know who he was (He was the construction ...
A. 26 March 2008: definately agree with the other poster. after six months. if it was because of your age, he would of backed off before now. ... (read in full...)
I get on great with this guy at school but mum says I've to back off because he is older. Any advice?
Q. i really like this older guy, he's four years older than me, and he likes me back. we talk every day on msn and sometimes hang out at school. he's super smart and i trust him with everything. we're both into the same things and when we're talking ...
A. 26 March 2008: All I can say to add to the other poster is (1) I'd say the same thing with my daughters to protect them. (2) He must be 18 or 19 years old. Growing up as a boy, once upon a time, myself, at that age I wouldn't be able to say what my girlfriends and ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my boyfriend and should I tell about my feelings to his best friend?
Q. I have a problem and I don`t know what to do. I`m in a relationship and we have been living together for 3 years, some time ago we also got engaged. He is a really great man and I love him a lot, but not a way I should. I have been feeling this way ...
A. 26 March 2008: I think this is a question you need to answer. These questions if you make a mistake in which way you go needs to be your mistake and the accountability of that mistake.
I will offer this. There's a big difference between lust, attracti... (read in full...)
How do I handle my girlfriends rough past?
Q. Hi there im new to this but i really need some advice from several caring people. my situation is my girlfriend comes from a long hard past and im the best thing that has happened to her. We are both nineteen but when she was 6 years old she lived ...
A. 26 March 2008: Sounds like she's been through hell and back. It's eating you up because out of the love you have for her now, you weren't there to protect her from being hurt. The best thing you can do for her is be supportive of her. Yes, that is rape. I hope she ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 11 March 2008: You're right, he's not a good person. Sending his a card, all though a polite gesture, is still holding on. I wish my ex's happy birthday, but we're also on good speaking terms without any intention past a birthday wish on either side.
Wish us luck... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 9 March 2008: You know you are going to be okay. Reason being, your persistant in doing so. The problem in domestic violence is when does all this begin. Lets look at my story in where I was living in an abusive relationship for a year, I was not the abuser.
M... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 3 March 2008: She said she'll make you a big cookie. She's a good kid 13, and my little drama queen. She cooks when she visits because I tend to start fires, burn things. I burnt off my eye brows bbq'ing. She said I'm grounded from cooking.
Look at what he's done... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 2 March 2008: You did good. You let him know you're not a toy he can just toss asside when he wants a variety. I'm proud of you for standing up to him and not caving in. (my daughter said you deserve a cookie.)
Standing up for yourself is a huge step in taki... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 2 March 2008: As I've said before, this broken feeling that doesn't seem to disappear is not because of the guy who wasn't nice. Quite often we use the affections of someone to fulfill a void feeling within ourselves because another area of our sense of self ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 1 March 2008: I know it's not easy, and it's not going to be quickly fixed. Your feelings are out of need or desire. What I'm trying to get you to realize is to build your personal happiness. These feelings you have are wanting someone to "make" you happy. No one ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 25 February 2008: It fairly humerous when someone gets together with someone who's cheating is starts out as the other woman, then when it happens to them, they just can't figure out why he wouldn't treat them different than they did the last one. Can people change? ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 19 February 2008: Dang girl 40 smokes a day. I can't say much, on stressful days when I smoked, I'd do around that. You're right, being in an emotionally abusive relationship it's sometimes difficult for the person in it to see. These guys use subtle changes, then ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 16 February 2008: I know you're in pain and hurting. If I could waive a wand and erase it, I would. I'm not sorry I went through what I had. If I never experienced it, I probably wouldn't be her talking to you. I didn't begin learning about behaviors becuase I ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 16 February 2008: U where wrong, give my watch and hat to the cat???? Now you're not in the wrong, just like the cat can't wear a watch, unless it's got some muscular legs.
Do you understand what manipulation and intimidation is? It's an act. A conscious choice to u... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 15 February 2008: Your mom is correct, but tell her from me that if it's true love and meant to be, then your treated as if you are.
Take care, and if you need anything let me know... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 14 February 2008: Sorry you're having a hard time. Remember this is your life. He wasn't respecting it or who you are. It's not a matter of wanting to date, or be with someone, it's the principle of you being treated well, and not accepting anything less than that. ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 13 February 2008: Your welcome, I hope everything works out for you. Anytime you need to chat, just let me know. Take care.... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 12 February 2008: I have to agree with the other poster. The guy who asked you out, go have dinner or coffee. You need to get out for a little while, it will do you good.
Take a nice walk or just sit outside with something to drink and just enjoy the beauty arou... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 10 February 2008: It's all about keeping personal strength. You have to remind yourself that you are a better person than to accept being mistreated by others. The name of my CD is "Everybody's Somebody's Child" That idea stems from treating others as you would ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 10 February 2008: Thank your for the kind words. Take care of yourself, and feel free to ask anytime you need someone to talk to or advice. ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 9 February 2008: Remember the story of the "boy who cried wolf". He lied to you prior too. You knew he had lied, so where did his credibility go with you believing what he says? I'm in law as a profession. With a judge if one lie is proved, the judge can then ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 7 February 2008: I know it hurts. If it didn't it would be a happy ending. Not everything ends happily, but even those that don't we learn something from them. I wouldn't be who I am today if it wasn't for the good time and the bad times. I have learned so much off ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 7 February 2008: Thank you for the compliment hlskitten.
Now you're right, you don't deserve to be treated that way. He wants to talk about respect, but doesn't carry respect for you. I don't recall anytime when putting his pen in another girls ink was consider... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 February 2008: Sorry to hear about your pain. It's for reasons like this I remain single and plan to do so "till death do I part", unless someone comes a long that I just can't pass up. lol Now when he says he misses you tell him "I bet you say this to all the ... (read in full...)
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