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... Send *Raa a private message | | | *Raa's profile:i have blonde hair, blue eyes, i was born in Nottingham but exchanged to Sunderland at the age of 1. I am now in highschool - just moved up to year 8. I am 12 years old, 13 years old next year in April on the 14th. my birthday happened on the same day as Titanic Happened, april 14th 1912, apart from iwas born april 14th 1997, I hate animal cruelty - I have a bestfriend called Chloe, she's 12. I would describe myself as caring because i hate murderers and kidnappers. |
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Has a friend messed it up for me?
Q. I'm so confused! I told a boy in year 9 (Im in year 8) that I had a crush on him and he replied back as 'I fancy you a bit too' We were talking and he seemed really sweet, so I put him as a shoutout on my MSN name with a love heart, messages ...
A. 4 September 2011: He didn't like me. Someone was on his account. :/... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend calling other girls perfect?
Q. I really don't know what to do :'( my boyfriend barely ever talks to me, in school he barely ever comes up to me, hes always with other girls. He comments on other girls facebook pictures saying 'every aspect of this photo is beautiful and pe...
A. 18 June 2011: wow, thank you for everything!
He actually broke up with me because of a rumour, so now I know he wasnt as good and as perfect as I thought he was.
Thanks for all of your answers, they really helped me:-)... (read in full...)
Why did they call me "bi "in front of everyone?
Q. sorry to all bisexuals... i am a teenager at highschool and have been having some problems and it has been upsetting me. it all started in a normal pe lesson and this girl *Chloe* came up to me and asked me if i was bisexual, i was just about t...
A. 20 February 2010: Its happened again? what do I do!?... (read in full...)
By accepting my wifes affair am I just prolonging the inevitable?
Q. Hi , i have been married for 12 years but this year i found out that my wife was having an affair . We are trying to work things out but she still wants to keep seeing the other man . I am not happy about this and at the moment it has been left that ...
A. 20 February 2010: this is seriously unbelieveble! i understand you love her with all your heart but if she is going to do you wrong your gonna have to let her go. If you love her wont you let her be with the one she loves ? I agree with Angzw... (read in full...)
By accepting my wifes affair am I just prolonging the inevitable?
Q. Hi , i have been married for 12 years but this year i found out that my wife was having an affair . We are trying to work things out but she still wants to keep seeing the other man . I am not happy about this and at the moment it has been left that ...
A. 20 February 2010: this is seriously unbelieveble!
i understand you love her with all your heart but if she is going to do you wrong your gonna have to let her go. If you love her wont you let her be with the one she loves? ... (read in full...)
Does it matter if a guy is shorter than a girl?
Q. Just a quick question for the ladies especially. Would you be put off a guy if he was smaller than you, height-wise? There is a girl in my class at school, who i get on with really well, talk a lot, and sometimes have a bit of a flirt, but inam ...
A. 20 February 2010: defenitly not! my boyfriend is smaller than me and everyone thinks its cute - if you like a girl taller than you go for it, because a lot of girls have a 'thing' for short guys, they're adorable:) love, gracie xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
A girl crushing on another girl..lesbian?
Q. I have been crushing on a girl for a while now. When I see her I get butterflies. When I see other attractive girls at school my mouth drops open but this does not happen to guys. Im wondering if this could mean I am a lesbian?...
A. 10 October 2009: Im younger than you but I know about this. It is a good chance it is just your hormones starting up, not a lesbian. This will become cleary as you when you grow older.... (read in full...)
She looked at my lips! Does this mean anything?
Q. I am a 14 year old female who is bi, and I like a 13 year old female who is straight. She knows I'm bi, she knows I like her. We've known each other for almost 3 years. I've liked her for about 8 months. Anyway, you don't really need all this ...
A. 10 October 2009: it could be that she might have been fantisysing about what it would be like to have a relationship with the same sex. ... (read in full...)
Is it their fault I have changed my life?
Q. i feel like im loosing my bestfriend because she keeps slying off with my "friend" *sophie* it breaks me everytime i see them together because there always talking and messing around and never let me join in on the fun - i have currently changed ...
A. 25 September 2009: Thisis gRaa's best friend..... SORRY!!!! YOU SHOULD OF TOLD ME!!!! But at least now - after two years - we are still holding strong and we tell each other everything - I think - oh and I'm going to check on Monday if Kane's* eyes ligt up on Monday ... (read in full...)
Is something going on, or have I done something wrong?
Q. lately, i feel like everybody at school *including friends* have been ignoring me. Today, at school - me and my friend, Jade* were standing talking outside in the schoolyard. When my best friend Georgia* and my boyfriend Kieran* and some other ...
A. 25 September 2009: HE DUMPED ME! :(... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me for liking older men?
Q. I am 16 years old and always find older men (maybe old enough to be my grandpa) very attractive. Is there somthing wrong with me, or is this just my personal taste for men?...
A. 1 August 2009: i guess it's just how you feel, there cant be something wrong with you because you like someone! have u ever had a relationship or feelings for older men? ... (read in full...)
Am I bi? I am very close to this girl. My boyfriend knows and says I can't dump him!
Q. I met this girl in one of my classes PE to be spacific and were realy good friends. Except i think she like me and im not all inocent either. I like her to. Shes so nice and she cares about me. She hugs me all the time and kisses my cheek and ...
A. 1 August 2009: say she can kiss you but not infront of your bf if your so worried about him kicking off. if you think your boyfriend is a bit "too" protective slow things down a bit until you think you can trust him again to be nicer. but if you do slow down and... (read in full...)
I'm scared I might be bi!
Q. Im scared i might be bi. I mean ive always questioned it but im scared to admit it to myself. I mean i have a boyfriend and i love him but i still have feelings towards girls not really sexual just like i like them. i mean i think i have a crush o...
A. 1 August 2009: ask the girl if she would ever get into a relationship with you and MAYBE kiss her again to remind her what it's like. it may help you too.... (read in full...)
Do I have lesbian tendencies due to the way I was raised?
Q. I am struggling to come to terms with how i feel about other women. I have known how i have felt since the age of 11 and my family have often joked about me being a lesbian, when i was 16 and at college i developed a huge crush on a female lecturer ...
A. 1 August 2009: if you want to be a lesbian, be one. it's not up to other people what you feel like and what you want to be, by saying you shouldnt be one, is descrimonation *sorry, i cant spell* it's your choice not there's. Know what im saying?... (read in full...)
She's stealing everything away from me...
Q. my friend is getting on my nerves at school because whenever we are around everyone else she is nasty, selfish and hurts everyone's feelings. She acts like she's the queen of the world and steals everyone else's attention when they need it the most. ...
A. 20 July 2009: i dont want to act like thr Queen Bee incase what happens to her, happens to me, everyone talking about her behind her back and hurting her feelings!
it worries me that people dont like me and im defenitly confident - i know that. )=... (read in full...)
I slept with his sister - should I tell him?
Q. I've had a crush on my boyfriends sister and didn't find out that she was bisexual until I got into a relationship with her brother. She recently slept over at my house while my boyfriend was at work and we ended up getting a little too close. Do ...
A. 19 July 2009: tell him, the more yu wait the more he will get annoyed when you tell him... (read in full...)
His family really doesn't make an effort to talk to me and I'm shy!
Q. Im scared my bf is going to break up with me. Ive met his family twice and I am pretty shy around them. I dont really say much, I'll say hi how are you and smile etc, and Ill talk to them if they ask me a question etc. However I am not good at ...
A. 19 July 2009: his family should back off! its got nothing to do with then who there relitives wanna be with, they should deal with the fact that you love each other... (read in full...)
Why did they call me "bi "in front of everyone?
Q. sorry to all bisexuals... i am a teenager at highschool and have been having some problems and it has been upsetting me. it all started in a normal pe lesson and this girl *Chloe* came up to me and asked me if i was bisexual, i was just about t...
A. 19 July 2009: thanks, youve all helped me (: i am very sensitive... (read in full...)
My indiscretion caused my gay partner pain, he said he forgave me, but randomly gets angry, what should I do?
Q. we're a gay male couple (18 and 19) and we've been dating nearly 8 months, recently i had a sexual thing with another guy who i'd been friends with for a while, we didn't have sex, we didn't even kiss, we were sleeping in the same bed, i was abso...
A. 18 July 2009: you need to understand that he is obviously upset about the affair as anyone else should be, he is young and his heart probably doesnt want to believe that he might loose someone as close to him s you do - maybe he refuses to openmouth kiss you ... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship, I've liked a guy for 4 years, but he's not single either... help!
Q. Hi, if anyone writes back thank you, i would be grateful for your help. I have known this guy "Ian" for four years, we used to work together and have been best mmates all this time, I really cherish him as a friend and I love spending time with him ...
A. 7 June 2009: Just let your heart decide who you want to be with. If you like this "Rupert" you should be with him, and if he really likes you back, he would leave this "other woman" for you. If you think "Rupert" is in this for fun, then dont bother with him,... (read in full...)
How to give my boyfriend a good hand job??
Q. hey im 14 and my boyfriend asked me for a handjob. i said i would think about it and i hav i want to give him one but i dont know how and i dont want to ask him how i should do it im just 2 shy to ask. so how do i give him a really really good ...
A. 7 June 2009: sorry but im younger than youu by 2 years and I would *N E V E R* do anything like that.
Yeah sure, kissing, hugging, holding hands, things i would do maybe, but doing something that is way to old for me, i just completely avoid!... (read in full...)
I just want fun, but he's getting emotionally attached...
Q. I have recently started an affair with a married guy at work. He is a lot more senior than me, older than me and married. It started off with him inviting me to a working lunch and I genuinely thought that's all it was. We then went out again and I ...
A. 6 June 2009: He obviously really likes you and chooses his actions carefully, if he did not choose them carefully, he myt have done something passionate on the first time you went out with him , or maybe sleeping together on the first time, that would be ... (read in full...)
I feel like I"m never good enough
Q. i have never been the center of attention. im always feeling like im never pretty enough, smart enough, nice enough etc. i hate this feeling and im always envious of my friends. im especially jealous of an ex friend of mine, who despite her ...
A. 6 June 2009: dont worry.
I know how you feel, i am in high school and have never thought or felt pretty. If I had a twin sister, I would be the ugly geeky one with glasses (even though i wear contacts) and my twin would be the beautiful one that gets all of the ... (read in full...)
I feel like I"m never good enough
Q. i have never been the center of attention. im always feeling like im never pretty enough, smart enough, nice enough etc. i hate this feeling and im always envious of my friends. im especially jealous of an ex friend of mine, who despite her ...
A. 6 June 2009: dont worry.
I know how you feel, i am in high school and have never thought or felt pretty. If I had a twin sister, I would be the ugly geeky one with glasses (even though i wear contacts) and my twin would be the beautiful one that gets all of the ... (read in full...)
Why does this girl stare at me, does she really like me or is she just looking at something else?
Q. Why does this girl stare at me, does she really like me or is she just looking at something else? Ok, well i never knew this girl or never talked to her but, by the start of Semester 2, i noticed that she would always stare at me whenever i c...
A. 6 June 2009: Normally if a girl is staring at you, it's either she fancies you, she hates you, or she doesnt know how she feels about you and is desperately trying to make up her mind how she feels about you. ... (read in full...)
In a 3 year relationship, with a man who is disrespectful, controlling and cruel in ways, why do I still want to be with him?
Q. I need some advice on my relationship itr my first proper one so i havent really got anything to compare it too. I see my boyfriend 2-3 times a wk. After 3 yrs! We dont live in the same town but only 30 mins away! Its his attitude towards me and ...
A. 6 June 2009: No man should treat a woman so badly!
Have you ever thought by living in a different neighbourhood - anything could happen without you realizing? And you see him so little you can never realize what is really going on? Three years is a long tim... (read in full...)
Need help with a break-up, do you think we can fix this?
Q. Hey guys can you please help me my ex boyfriend and i we were trying to fix things and i asked him if he loved me from the start why he left.he got angry and left i tried to call and sms him but his ignoring me.i am so hurt because i dont even know ...
A. 6 June 2009: Heyy.
If your boyfriend and you felt angry before he left, this could be possible that he still has feelings for you and was just stressed out at the time and needed some space to think and you could have took this the wrong way. But if your ex boyf... (read in full...)
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