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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: Best of Luck to you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 July 2008: Hasn't your solicitor heard of a continuance. You have the right to be hard in all matters of law.
After these decisions are made, do you have a higher court to appeal the ruling of a lower court? I don't believe your solicitor did a job the best... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Sounds like you're doing better, as a manner of speaking. Your right it doesn't look good to the judge to drag out court.
Just a bit of warning. Seeing someone prior to the end of the divorce can be used in court as well. Legal marriage, is lega... (read in full...)
Should I be patient with him?
Q. QUESTION: Should I be patient with him? I'm a 'single' 30 year old female (with 2 sons ages 8 and 9 - different fathers) and have dated men older than myself (e.g.45yrs) in the past. Been out of a relationship for 2 yrs...was not 'looking' for an...
A. 12 June 2008: Your welcome. I'm glad I could help. Remember too, as far as building yourself up. Your kids needs you. These insecurities take away from your children as well. I helped as lady with PTSD. She's raising children, but her behavior is still affected ... (read in full...)
Do you get in the middle? Boyfriend's parents are cruel to him...
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 years- we get along very well and each of us has gotten "family approval," haha. One thing has been bugging me though- they treat him so poorly. He's the middle child- has a brother 5 years ...
A. 10 June 2008: If anyone were to say anything. It would have to be your boyfriend. I'd reassure him that all though their behavior is poor, he's still his own person and can become who he chooses to be. No one makes that decision, but him.
If you were to conf... (read in full...)
Should I be patient with him?
Q. QUESTION: Should I be patient with him? I'm a 'single' 30 year old female (with 2 sons ages 8 and 9 - different fathers) and have dated men older than myself (e.g.45yrs) in the past. Been out of a relationship for 2 yrs...was not 'looking' for an...
A. 10 June 2008: You're a weeee bit dependant. You said you NEED. Why do you feel you need a commitment after 4 months? Why are you insecure? You feel as if he's with another woman. What's happened to you in the past to cause you to have these insecurities? You have ... (read in full...)
How do I walk out with my dignity intact? I am not a slut!!!
Q. I broke up with my bf last night. He kept bothering me about my past. In my past I made out with two strangers (older than me) when I was drunk. I also had a friend with benefits. I remained a virgin though. So I got fed up and broke up with him ...
A. 10 June 2008: I would expect these questions to say "I slept with my brother, by husbands dad, his mom, the mayor, and govenor, oh and the whole police department." That might have a different result.
You made out with a couple of guys. Had a "virgin" friends ... (read in full...)
I want to call her and get her back really bad, but I can not bring myself to doing so!!
Q. Me and my ex broke up about 7 months ago, We were frinds at the begining. And we said that we would get back together. (I was the one who iniciated the break up) After about 3 months she found someone else. I was very upset and after an emotion...
A. 10 June 2008: It's her decision. You need to remember that two people are involved, you and her. You may want her back, but it depends on if she wants to come back. I'm sure she knows how much you've changed. Her friends, I bet haven't kept that a secret. She may ... (read in full...)
How can I ask my husband for sex?
Q. Hi I feel too shy though I need sex. How can I ask my husband for sex? ...
A. 10 June 2008: You have to ask your husband for sex? Why is that? I thought shy is with those who you don't know, and not with someone you do.
Plan a romantic evening, and let the evening take its course. That way you get what you want without seeming needy for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 June 2008: That's what you need to concentrate on. As far as his taking the solicitor out to lunch and such. Violation of ethics. People here get their licenses taken away or suspended for those behaviors.
Keep a calendar of all issues. Everytime he cance... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 9 June 2008: I think you hit the nail on the head. Remember, in relationships honesty is very important. If you hid that, what else in the marriage are you willing to hide?
If you caused betrayal, are you someone who would betray over and over again with... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 9 June 2008: Congrats. Never said transitions are easy. What's sometimes difficult in the short term, has the greatest long term benefit.
Always remember in the difficult times. You are your own person. You choose who to associate with. You owe yourself more... (read in full...)
Husband's stress and burnout caused our marriage to shatter, we are living apart whilst he recharges his batteries. Is there any hope for us?
Q. Not Sure If You Can Help But Here Goes........... I have been with my husband for 19 years, we have been through quite a lot of things in this time, 5 miscarriages,a serious accident,to name just a few. Since Oct 07 he started to gain extra ...
A. 8 June 2008: NOW!!! Simple, isn't it. The problem here is, you were not the cause of his being misdirected. His family is not the cause of his emotional or physical draining. So what happens. He leaves the strength and support of family to recharge, but the ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I like him?
Q. I've known this boy for a real long time and as a tomboy, I was able to stay really good friends with him. Now that we're in middle school, I think I have a crush on him. I was just wondering how I could drop hints for him to know that I like him. ...
A. 8 June 2008: Try teasing him back a bit. you know boys that age tease as an indrect way to show they like you. But just as girls, he's shaking in his boots when it comes to telling you. Your question reminds me of middle school. A whole bunch of girls go up to ... (read in full...)
How can I get over the co-worker I had an affair with?
Q. I am married and had an affair with a co-worker who is single. Commitment was out of the question for both of us. It was suppose to be fun and easy, however he abruptly ended it. I see him just about every day so it's difficult not to think about ...
A. 8 June 2008: First of all, time to tell your husband. He deserves to know. Having an affair is an adult decision. We know as adults, we are fully responable for our own actions. Therefore, tell your husband or file for divorse to set him free. He too deserves to ... (read in full...)
Girls (and guys) have you ever been used?
Q. has anyone ever used you to get sex when you really liked them and you thought they liked you too but all they wanted was to get in your pants? and if so how did you get over it? ...
A. 8 June 2008: Who hasn't. Mine was when I turned 21. Instant popularity. They could get down my pants and be with someone old enough to buy beer. I don't think it was because of my charm, long hair, or fire engine red sports car.
The key is to resist them gett... (read in full...)
How can I make her see that we'd be perfect together as we share the same interests?
Q. I fell in love with the most beautiful, talented, amazing girl in the world and well she dosn't fell the same. I love her more than anything in the world. There was a time when I thought that perhaps she loved me and it was the best moment of my ...
A. 8 June 2008: If it's meant to be, she'll come around in her own time. Some times people have to experience the jerk, before they realize that's not what they are looking for.
Keep playing guitar, and with your inspirations, that's how you identify yourself. I pl... (read in full...)
How do I sort things out with the lad who's heart I broke?
Q. i screwed up big time with a lad i like. i was goin out with this lad called ste and i decided i liked his mates brother. he had little experiance with gurls and i didnt mind as i liked him alot. after a while i thought things were goin very sl...
A. 8 June 2008: your going to have to let him sort out his feelings. what hurts is taking part in activities which you know before hand can cause someone you like pain. it's not the act, it's the disregard for feelings by doing the act.
He must feel as he isn'... (read in full...)
He thinks my sisters picture is me - Help!
Q. Hello, I'm a 24 year old female who has had a rough life I've been using my sisters pictures as passing them off that that's me for about a year now. She knows about it and thought it was funny. Now I've met a great guy who I'm totally in love ...
A. 8 June 2008: Honesty. That's it. You love him, then you should be willing to be honest with him. Now is the time, before meeting. ... (read in full...)
Fiancee is abroad and spending time with another guy!
Q. Hello, This is my first post. I am emailing about my relationship with my fiancee. We have been together 5.5 years, and engaged for about 9 months now. She has been living abroad on a scholarship (grad school) for the past 4 months,...
A. 8 June 2008: I'd express my concern with her. Not meaning to make your day worse, but we have abilities to pick up on subtle signes of behavior changes in people we're close too. Even if we don't consciously think about it, that feeling of something being off ... (read in full...)
Please help me with my body-image issues!!
Q. Him I'm 19 y/o. I have a stupid problem, and feel so down about it :( The problem is that I'm very sensitive to the images in the media. So I feel very down about my body. I'm average I guess. I'm not really thin, but I'm not overweight. It...
A. 8 June 2008: Physical perfection. People have this view of perfection, they do this to sell. Playboy models said in an interview. If they only looked the way the finished product does.
These girls you talk about are fake. I heard a comic say, when it came to s... (read in full...)
Her BF doesn't make her happy but she says he doesn't deserve her leaving... and said goodbye to me!
Q. Ok so me and my friend have gotten really close. So close that we're expressing our feelings for each other even though she has a bf. I always thought they had a perfect relationship but turns out they didn't she recently started telling me all his ...
A. 7 June 2008: You can't. It's her decision. You were wrong by stating how you could be better than him. Reason being, your comparing yourself to someone else. It's not what you can do better, it's what you can do period.
You then made her feel as if it's her ... (read in full...)
Men, what would you do if your partner came home with a sex toy?
Q. So I want to take a poll even if I only get a few answers its ok. The question. The senario. Just home from the local porn store. Just bought a new toy. One that is pleasurable for both individuals. This question is basically for men. Women you c...
A. 7 June 2008: I don't know. Simpsons or sex? That's a no brainer, but I'm not him. It sounds like sex is not the only area this relationship is falling into the rut? It's time to get out of it.
Relationships are about people. They are not about tv, bills, work... (read in full...)
His depression is ruining everything. I don't know what to do.
Q. Please help!!! Guy let me down last night saying he was too ill to go out but i believe he was out when he called me later..i asked what was wrong said felt depressed but not sure why..i said im here to help if you want me too..he agreed he did bu...
A. 7 June 2008: He needs to see a doctor. Depression is one thing, anxiety is another, but depression with anxiety can be fairly dangerous. He needs to seek treatment.
Let me fill you in on something. I have major depressive disorder. About 8 years ago, I was a mo... (read in full...)
A teacher's helper is scaring me. What should I do?
Q. for the last few months i have been in a new set for science the teacher is ordinary but theres a helper hes about 61 in that age range hes nice to people but sometimes he acts wierd around me hell sit there staring at me and ill look away scared ...
A. 7 June 2008: Tell someone he makes you feel uncomfortable. That's what I would do. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I plan to move in together. Advice, please.
Q. My boyfriend and I are planning on moving in together for the upcoming school year (we're both attending the same College). Now, my mum says that I'd want an actual apartment, in a apartment building, as opposed to a "basement apartment" speci...
A. 7 June 2008: I wouldn't rule out basement appartments. Some are real nice. Some are like a home underneath a home, where the space is just yours. You might even have a separate enterance into the home.
Being antisocial, an appartment building, make sure the wall... (read in full...)
My bofriend goes into moods. I need some good advice.
Q. hiya i have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years now we got a house together a year ago and have been ok on and off the thing is my boyfriend goes into moods were he wont speak to me for days maybe even weeks and they could be because of no ...
A. 7 June 2008: First words of advise. Never cheat, and kissing is cheating, so is having inappropriate conversations outside your relationship. You have to come clean about the way you've chosen to deal with the problems in your relationship. If not, you're living ... (read in full...)
Why am I so angry all the time? It's destroying our relationship.
Q. I love my boyfriend so much, but I find myself angry ALL the time. He's betrayed me a few times in the past and broken many promises, but now we have started our relationship a new and appart from my anger it's wonderful. I feel happy when I'm w...
A. 7 June 2008: Let me apologize up front for the term. In psychology it's called "mental masterbation." It is a form of being paranoid. You keep trying to justify or receive answers to justify his past behavior.
Have you forgiven him for his past behavior? Have... (read in full...)
Men, what would you do if your partner came home with a sex toy?
Q. So I want to take a poll even if I only get a few answers its ok. The question. The senario. Just home from the local porn store. Just bought a new toy. One that is pleasurable for both individuals. This question is basically for men. Women you c...
A. 7 June 2008: It may be his nervs. If this is something you don't do often, he may be watching tv and playing over again in his head how to go about doing this with you.
Don't be mad, that will ruin all the fun.... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 7 June 2008: Check with a solicitor yourself. Marriage is a contract, just like any other. There are certain provisions of that contract. (by the way, I have seen many divorces where the husband or wife can't keep their pants on with others, they generally don't ... (read in full...)
I lied to my boyfriend and said I was pregnant? what now?
Q. Okay so i my boyfriend moved to another state and we decided to stay togetehr . he promised to call and he did ....FOR THEE FIRST WEEK . and then i started getting less calls . and recently he told me he was cheating on me but he was coming back to ...
A. 7 June 2008: You'll have to tell him the truth. It will be hard, but it has to be done. If he doesn't come home, it's not meant to be. If he does come home, it needs to be for you and not the misrepresentation of being pregnant. You know saying your pregnant, ... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 6 June 2008: Okay, let me ask this, where is this first husband? What was your reason for leaving him? What was your reason for not seeking a divorce?
My daughters mom was still married when we got together. She didn't tell me, but at the time he was unav... (read in full...)
My lie came to light and now my husband wants nothing to do with me.
Q. My husband left me last year because of a lie I told about my past. I have apologied for this over and over but he will have nothing more to do with me and is filing for divorce. I have tried calling, writing letters and everything but he will not ...
A. 6 June 2008: Was your lie prior to dating or marriage to this person? What does the word lie say to you when in a marriage? To me it says "to deceive". How was your marriage asside from this incident. You said he lied many times. What were the content of his ... (read in full...)
I have troubles coming to terms with that my boyfriend will always love his child more than me. I don't understand the concept of he loves his child in a very different way - to all parents out there - how different does it feel?
Q. I'm really struggling with something at the moment which i am reluctant to admit to anyone. My boyfriend has a child and i am struggling to come to terms with "The child must come first". Obviously i understand that a man/woman should love their ...
A. 6 June 2008: I am a single father. Had a romantic relationship, she wasn't a nice person, now I choose no romance and just parenting.
Children are a part of the parent. It's not just a desire, but a duty to protect, care for, and raise them. It's a love with... (read in full...)
He says the warts come from him suffering from diabetes, now I'm having them too! Is he being honest with me, or what is going on?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and everything was going really well. Just after Christmas he noticed warts on the end of his penis, which he said were most probably linked to his diabetes. (this had been making the skin quite tight and ...
A. 6 June 2008: Go to the doctor. They may come from the woman. Not a form of sexually transmitted disease. I had one once. The doctor had me tell my girlfriend to get an exam. They meant she may be more prone to getting cervical cancer at a later age. The warts in ... (read in full...)
Mum pays more attention to sisters boyfriend than she does to me!
Q. I'm so angry and hurt!! My sister is sick, she got some stomach virus from her bf. We share our bedroom. The thing is, she was very sick, and so was her bf. They've been dating for a month tops. And he's much older, she's 21 and he's like 31 or ...
A. 5 June 2008: Lets erase the cause of. The attentions she spends with him, and taking care of a nonfamily member. What I want you to understand, your issue has nothing to do with him or your sister. It has to do with you. The lack of attention she is showing ... (read in full...)
Should I stick with my boyfriend of 2 years?
Q. my boyfriend of two years has been withdrawn from the university. i'm presently serving at an oil company. my parents are trying to reject him for his problem. we want to get married but i'm scared he can't take care of me or i'll become a liability ...
A. 5 June 2008: What other issues are you experiencing? What I see is two young people who are at the start of their adult life. I'm 36 years old. Had my first child at 19, I now have 4 children. Most of my adult life thus far, I had no idea what I really wanted to ... (read in full...)
I am so confused. He thinks we should take it slower. What's going on?
Q. I have meet a very geniune guy,we have been communicating via the internet, sms and phone calls, we got on very well, as we live far apart,5 months later we arranged to meet, the entire weekend was like fire works, two days later, he travelled all ...
A. 5 June 2008: Trust feelings. Remember the saying "believe 50% of what you read and none of what you hear?" Your feelings are much more accurate. Feelings can work as a positive and can also work to warn you. They don't lie. In your life, you've seen so much with ... (read in full...)
He says I cheated, but I never did!
Q. He is convinced I've cheated on him. But let me be totally honest here: I HAVEN'T! I can understand why he doesn't trust me. I lied, I admit that. I lied about my past because it didn't make me proud and because I knew he'd react awfully to it. J...
A. 4 June 2008: How does his past look? Yours does not look bad at all. You were a virgin when you met him, and the little bit of fooling around is not at all his business. It's nothing to be ashamed of and does not at all take away from your sense of self.
W... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 7 months lied to me about his age . . .
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months now. We have been completely in love. It is passionate and intimate and we have talked about long term and how we are what the other hoped to find. He has been divorced for 3 years, was married for ...
A. 2 June 2008: It depends. Do you love him enough to allow an additional 4 years difference? They say, "true love" conquers all. I guess this will be yout test of whether it does for you or not.
I'd definately make sure he doesn't have anything else hiding to f... (read in full...)
I broke a store's window out of anger, I'm feeling terrible. How can I deal with this?
Q. Hi, I posted earlier about my anger issues. Well, the thing is I was infuriated with my boyfriend, at 5 am in the street, and anger controlled me and foolishly I broke a store's window. I punched the glass just because I was out of control. I fe...
A. 2 June 2008: The first step in healing is to take full responsability for your actions. Let them know, in person or by letter what happened to cause their window to break.
Second, with your anger, you're ready to change. What really makes you this angry? Do f... (read in full...)
Will having sex with him make him mine again?
Q. i met my ex at aparty 2weeks ago and he came over to where i was and we hugged,he sat next to me and chatted for a while and later danced,i was confused cos this is the guy who dumped before and now giving me his attention,i was getting mixed ...
A. 31 May 2008: He's just wanting the sex. He told you he didn't want a commitment, so having sex will not change his mind. He's using you to satisfy his sexual needs. Tell him where you stand and aren't looking at getting played. Be truthful and firm, and don't ... (read in full...)
My partner is so unsociable and forbids me to go places... because "he's a man." If only he would spend the evening with me alternatively, but he won't!
Q. I have 2 children with my partner and i'm finding it really dificult not being able to go out. At the moment i have 2 weeks off work and my bf just had a week off. I would love to go to a fancy dress party my friend's having, i haven't seen any of m...
A. 31 May 2008: Because he's a man? Maybe a boy, but not a man. A real man, who loves you would not assume control over you. He has no right whatsoever to tell you what you can and cannot do.
Relationships are not about control, they are not about making deci... (read in full...)
I feel very ashamed and dirty after masturbation! Please help!
Q. i'm a female and thirteen years old. ive posted a problem like this before but didnt get much help tbh. the thing is after i masturbate and after i have an orgasm i feel really really ashamed and dirty and i end up hating myself i reakky dont und...
A. 31 May 2008: It makes you feel good in a gratified sense. Your issue lies in how you look at the act. I'm not someone who has one night stands. If I we're to, lets say because I was drunk and it seemed as a good idea at the time, when I came to realize my ... (read in full...)
Does a rape victim want friends/parents to freak out in their defense, or be quietly understanding? How can we help these people?
Q. I am finding out that almost everyone I know has been raped, guys and girls. My daughter just told me she was raped over 3 years ago, in high school. My husband was raped as a teen, but we established early in our relationship that he was OK, and ...
A. 31 May 2008: Parent's do freak out when their child gets raped. But their anger is more directed toward themselves, all though they might visiably direct toward someone else. Her dad just got a huge reality check. Parents can't be there all the time to protect ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 May 2008: If you can establish proof of his dating his solicitor, that should establish a conflict of interest, which would pull her off the case, and may cause issues with her ability to continue law.
I woulnd't accept less than what you feel you dese... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 May 2008: If he seeks an injunction, a hearing should be set to answer to it. If his calls were done by home phone, have your phone company pull a copy of those records which show his phone calls to you. If they are done by cell phone, your bill should ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2008: I know this is hard for you to deal with. Working with people who have been through divorce and seeing the after affects, it's heart breaking. I can't figure out your question either of how someone can act or live as if they love and care for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 19 April 2008: The first piece of advice anyone one law gives is to not speak to the other person. Speak through your legal professionals. Reason being, "anything you say can be used against you in court." Couples who split up can get into some heated arguments. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm glad everything is working out for you. I can see where your solicitor is coming from. I'm in law as well and hoping to begin in family law. My two big pet peeves in family law are adultry and any lack of responsability on the best interest of ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2008: First of all, make sure you file your response within the time the court has allowed, it's generall (at least here) 30 days from the date you receive the paperwork. Remember too, the response, if you do it prior to meeting with the solicitor, i... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 19 February 2008: I attempted to locate your laws on common law. Some areas have a mandated marriage after living together as a couple for a certain period of time. This may mean he'd be obligated to provide a certain level of support.
I just hate it when things like... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 18 February 2008: If you don't mind answering. Where exactely are you from? I couldn't tell the flag there. I'd like to know that so I can be as accurate as possible with your answer. Thank you... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2008: Great, have your son contact me on here, I'll let him know you give your permission to toss your phone in the river.
Let me ask you this. If you didn't have your phone, would that stop you, or would you find another way?
Do you believe life... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Your doing what's right. I hope your strength keeps building. I know it's hard sometimes around the holidays to be alone. Before I got custody of my children. I would eat Christmas dinner alone at a diner. But other than that, being alone was OK. I ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: I am soooo glad to hear you are moving on with your life. It's better for you and your son. You don't want him growing up imitating his dad's behavior. You are a wonderful person and someone who really loves their child and plans to put him first. I ... (read in full...)
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