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Should I ask the girl he texted what happened between them? I feel like I wasn't told the whole story.
Q. hi, i posted a question on 8th march 06, the title was There is agirl calling and txting my boyfriend, he says they are just friends, is this true? i got 2 replies, i know it was a while back but im having the same feelings about the situation, what ...
A. 15 November 2006: I had a very similar experience to the one that you are going through now.
My boyfriend lied to me whenver we first started going out about another girl. For months and months I didn't believe what he had told me, then I found out that he had k... (read in full...)
I wanted to fix things, not get dumped!!!
Q. My g/f has just dumped me. Last week i said she didn't make me happy as she has acted uninterested in me, always out with friends and family and nothing happening in bedroom. She was shocked and said that she was happy and unaware we had problems....
A. 7 November 2006: I think the problem was the way that you approached the subject. As you said yourself, you just handed it to her, without any sort of warning or hints that something was wrong. The reason that she dumped you, in my opinion, is because the way that ... (read in full...)
How many times have you fallen in love?
Q. A question to everyone... How many times have you fallen in love? I mean completely fallen in love - physically, emotionally, and mentally...? My reasons for asking: I have experienced this twice in my lifetime. The first time wasn't until the ...
A. 23 September 2006: I've been in love just once. With the guy I'm with now.. I was with a boy fora bout a year and a half before I met my current beau, and I didn't feel half the emotion for him in that entire time that I feel now..
But don't worry, you will fin... (read in full...)
Find it hard to relate to people but want to change... What can I do?
Q. Hi, I am worried about my personality as i find it hard to relate with people. I am 24 yrs. old male and don't consider some people (esp. those who are ugly) as worth of glance. I just keep by head down and talk with them. Same for people whom ...
A. 17 January 2006: The fact that you realise that this behaviour is destructive to your life, and your attitude, shows that you want to change it, which is good. At least you don't believe that yours is the only opinion, and no one else has a look in. What I think ... (read in full...)
How can I show him I love him? Any creative ideas?
Q. I'm so in love with my bf! Any creative ideas of how to show him it? I want to do something extra special for him as he is always suprising me with his great way in words to explain how much he loves me. All ideas appriciated, thanks :) ...
A. 15 January 2006: If you want to show him how much u care using words, then just writing it down, and letting him know can be good (letters, poetry, etc).
However, if you don't want to do it that way, there are a lot of things that you can do for him to show him how ... (read in full...)
He views porn! It hurts like hell but should I just keep quiet and accept it?
Q. ive had alot of problems with my b/f looking at porn . i have talked to him about it and he said he didnt know it bothered me so much and said he would quit but recently i found websites again that hes visited on the computer that he sliped up and ...
A. 12 January 2006: Your not doing anything wrong. If this is negatively affecting your confidence in your relationship, then he should show some concern about it. If you feel this relationship is worth saving (and you have a child together, so it most likely is), ... (read in full...)
For the sake of my little girl should I try to make a go of it with this ex-drinker, computer game playing, lazy, unemployed, emotionally incompetent and verbally abusive man?
Q. Ok, I am a 22 year old single mother of a beautiful 19 month old girl. I am currently with a man who is 10 years older than me, emotionally incompetent and verbally and emotionally abusive. He used to drink alot and spend 98% of his time playing ...
A. 12 January 2006: For the sake of your daughter, don't go back to this man. You can do it by yourself, there is a lot of support out there for single mothers. If you stay with him, your daughter will be negatively affected by it. My father was everything that you ... (read in full...)
I dont trust him, but I love him. I dont want my relationship to go bad, thinking this way. Help
Q. I have been Hurt in the past and ever since that its hard for me to trust any guy. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we have been friends before dating. I always feel like if i leave him alone or give him his own space, it will ...
A. 12 January 2006: What you have to do is sort this out in your head. These past issues will continue to affect you throughout your entire life and relationships if you don't nip them in the bud NOW. Trusting anyone is hard, especially when you've been hurt before, ... (read in full...)
I'm so insecure because of past relationships. I can't believe my boyfriend only loves me and won't cheat!
Q. I have had a lot of bad relationships in the past where I have been cheated on and lied to constantly. Me and my current boyfriend have been together for 6 months. I love him so much but I feel VERY insecure due to past relationships and it is ...
A. 11 January 2006: Hello, there..
I understand completely what your going through. I had been going through the exact same thing for the past 6 months.. I met the most amazing man, but I felt he was too good to be true, and I still have trouble believing how happ... (read in full...)
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