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Hi, my name's Matt. I'm 26. I play guitar (obviously lol) I'm in a rock/metal band, for which I write a lot of the material.
My interests.
Well, my band is currently my number 1 until I find that special person who can make my life complete. I listen to rock and metal music mainly but I can appreciate some pop, classical and country from time to time. I enjoy going for long walks and bike rides in the country, and I find it much more fun if I don't know where I am lol. I kinda live on my PS3 at the moment.
My experiences.
I've had a fair amount of relationships, all of them failures through no fault of my own except for me believing I bore them. But even though they failed, I gained a lot of knowledge from them.
Final thoughts.
I may not have experienced much from life but I can easily put myself in anyone's shoes and be able to give advice. |
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Kisses and being called sexy
Q. I have a quick question.if a guy gives you a kiss on the lips and calls you sexy,does he like you ?...
A. 5 October 2011: In my opinion it means he wants sex...
If he kissed you and called you beautiful or gorgeous or pretty etc then that would be more of a genuine like rather than trying his luck.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to still be a virgin at 22?
Q. Um ... I am writing this because I am not sure if it's normal. I am a young female (22 years old), kind of tall, OK-looking .. and I've never been asked out. Like .. ever. I was recently having a casual conversation w/ some of my peers...
A. 5 October 2011: First of all, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 22 (so was I), a lot of people out there are even older and are still virgins so don't think it's not normal.
Meeting the right guy will happen on it's own, you just have to be patient and ... (read in full...)
I'm confused by his actions. Is he really my boyfriend or does he have reservations?
Q. Hey everyone. I'm really confused on what to do with my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 7 months. We were casually seeing each other at first, but then he asked my to be his girlfriend and I agreed. When we're alone he's amazing. He tells me ...
A. 15 February 2011: Honest opinion? Sounds like he's using you while trying to keep his options open. If I were you I'd dump him in front of his mates, make him feel like an idiot, cause he's not worth it believe me, you will just be hurt by him eventually. There are ... (read in full...)
I want to break up but her birthday is next week!!!! Help!
Q. Hi there I am wanting to break up with my girlfriend but there is a catch her birthday is a week tomorrow. Part of me feels i should wait till afterwards but another part asks how long after. A week? Two? I just don't know what to do. Any help ...
A. 18 May 2010: Definately leave it til after her birthday otherwise she'll be spending the day moping around being miserable and I'm sure you don't want that. As the previous poster said, do it when the time feels right. It might not seems like it now but when ... (read in full...)
Attraction killers for men?
Q. Someone asked a similar question about what men typically do that would kill the attraction a woman may have felt for him. So I felt curious to ask, What kind of things can a woman do that would make a man lose desire for her? I look forward ...
A. 18 May 2010: Well it's hard to say what puts me off cause there aren't that many things...But when in a relationship, one thing that bugs me is not knowing how she feels about me (being a closed book) I'm not saying it puts me off, it just makes it difficult to ... (read in full...)
He's moving 9 hours from me... will this relationship still work?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two years. because of our families and backgrounds we have had to move to different countries for university. neither of us are ready to let go and we are hoping to see each other during holidays but ...
A. 19 January 2010: Well firstly, there's a saying 'love holds no bounds' If you care for him then there's no reason you two can't work through this. True, you won't see each other as much but that will make the time you DO spend together much more sweeter. There's not ... (read in full...)
Not attracted to anyone?
Q. I am a 13, nearly 14 year old girl. All my friends constantly talk about boys, and I find that I'm not attracted to them (or anyone). I'm worried, as I feel I should have started getting crushes by now. I've started puberty. Am I asexual, or is ...
A. 13 January 2010: There's nothing wrong with you at all. Just because your friends are talking about crushes doesn't mean you have to be as well. Everyone is different and for you it will come in time. Try not to think too much into it. And in the mean time if any of ... (read in full...)
Cant stop looking at ex's facebook!
Q. I cant stop looking at my ex girlfriends facebook profile and its doing my head in. I'm seeing stuff on there i dont want to see and yet i cant stop myself. I cant bring myself to delete it, i just cant and anyway i want us to be friends evetuall...
A. 13 January 2010: Well it's obvious you haven't gotten over her yet, but you will it just takes time. I'm exactly the same when a girl breaks up with me, I find myself checking to see if she's seeing someone new or if there's a small chance she's written something ... (read in full...)
Phone dropped in toilet...
Q. This isn't really a relationship question but I gotta ask. My boyfriend was texting me one day, supposedly while he was using the restroom and he dropped his phone in the toilet(I know, nasty.) well, he got it to work, he used a hair dryer to dry it ...
A. 13 January 2010: Get him a new phone. Even if it's a cheap one, at least he's got a working phone whether it's temporary or not.... (read in full...)
Husband doesn't want to make any lifestyle changes and its really bothering me
Q. My husband does not want to make any lifestyle changes. Works all day,on his computer,and never does anything else.He is totally inactive,and now impotent due his stress,and luck of exercise . He is not drinking,or smoking,but does nothing to keep ...
A. 13 January 2010: I assume you've tried talking to him about this? And if you did but he's still unwilling to change, then all I can say is you have to find a way to make him listen. Tell him that it's affecting you, that you love him and it's hurting you a lot ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love someone at 15?
Q. Do you think it is possible to love someone at 15 i honestly think i do..its something i can't explain and then its like there is nothing i could do to change it?... what do you think it would be very helpful...
A. 12 January 2010: You can be any age to fall in love, there's no rule stating how old you need to be. Just be careful as most of the time, we love and lose, it's just the way of the world. You are still young so don't put all your eggs into one basket as they say. ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins but he loses his erection whenever we try to change that!
Q. me and my boyfreind have been together for almost a year now. we really love each other but theres just one problem- we still haven't slept together. We both really want to but whenever we try it just doesn't happen. He looses his erection and can't ...
A. 3 January 2010: I agree with the previous answers. And stick to foreplay for now. Get used to being naked with each other, give hand jobs etc eventually, it will just happen naturally.... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?
Q. I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...
A. 29 October 2009: Believe me, there are NONE.... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?
Q. I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...
A. 28 October 2009: i dont eat meat of any kind, i still class fish as a meat, it technically is. its njust eggs that i wont touch, i will have milk, cheese, honey etc so i'm not a vegan. and i'm from the city.... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?
Q. I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...
A. 27 October 2009: Right, well, I've been looking around for something new, I've come home with nothing. Everything has meat in and EVERYTHING that doesn't have meat in has egg in. I can't win.... (read in full...)
How do I build a sexual connection with an experienced woman with concern to the issue that I lack experience?
Q. Hello everyone. I have a problem. I've been dating this woman and its gotten up to the third date. She is two years older than me, much more experienced, and voiced that she does not want bad sex. I've only had sex with one girl in my life and e...
A. 10 October 2009: "Nor do I, and since you have more experience than I, I bet you'll be a fantastic lover."
Pure class! ... (read in full...)
How do I build a sexual connection with an experienced woman with concern to the issue that I lack experience?
Q. Hello everyone. I have a problem. I've been dating this woman and its gotten up to the third date. She is two years older than me, much more experienced, and voiced that she does not want bad sex. I've only had sex with one girl in my life and e...
A. 3 September 2009: I agree with the previous answer. I think she's a complete bitch to be honest, I know the sort and believe me, you will only get hurt if you stay with her.... (read in full...)
To the men out there - do you get excited by the idea of seeing your wife having sex with another man?
Q. I would like to see my wife having sex with another man, the thought excites me. Does any other male have this feeling....
A. 13 August 2009: I think it would make me sick personally but everyone has their own fantasies etc...... (read in full...)
The more I see them together the more I hate them both!
Q. okay well im 17 now, when i was 15 i met this guy aged 17 who i really liked, he asked me out and we were together for 6 months, i was madly in love with him! we were 'friends' to everyone, i dunno why we wouldnt admit our relationship. but then one ...
A. 15 June 2009: thats really cruel and inconsiderat how they could both do that to you. i feel for you greatly, i know how hard it can be seeing an ex with someone else. unfortunately i cant tell you how to get over him but i think giving yourself some space is a ... (read in full...)
I keep getting dumped!
Q. Please help, I am going out tonight, but I know that the guy I've been seeing is going to end things with me tonight, as he's been withdrawn lately. What really gets me is that it always happens to me, around about a few months into things, every ...
A. 12 June 2009: It's odd because i'm the same. Girls always seem to leave me and i never know why so I know exactly how you feel. i'm sorry i cant really help much but if you ever want to talk then i'll definitely listen. Hope all goes well. x... (read in full...)
I can't help thinking there's something she's not telling me...
Q. OK, I'll start from the beginning. Me and my girlfriend were happy together, we loved each other etc, she even told me that she wanted to have a family with me in the future and that she'd never leave me and I felt the same way for her. Anyway, s...
A. 17 May 2009: thank you for your messages. i'm going to move on and enjoy my life and listen to what all my friends have said. there's someone out there for me. just gotta keep my chin up. thank you again.... (read in full...)
I can't help thinking there's something she's not telling me...
Q. OK, I'll start from the beginning. Me and my girlfriend were happy together, we loved each other etc, she even told me that she wanted to have a family with me in the future and that she'd never leave me and I felt the same way for her. Anyway, s...
A. 17 May 2009: Found out she was seeing someone else. destroyed.... (read in full...)
How do I get him to open the door and let me in?
Q. HI. i met someone online hes about my age really cute and a lovely guy all around. we talked almost everyday about this or that and it seemed we got on well, he then sent me a naked pic of himself and told me that he only did that for me and he as...
A. 15 May 2009: if he wanted one in return he wouldn't have said that you dont have to send one back. girls always read these things wrong thats why they break up with guys more than the other war round. (I'm have a rant at the replies by the way). ANYWAY, maybe he ... (read in full...)
If he wants anal then go gay!
Q. What is up with guys wanting to try Anal!! I am tired of every single guy i have dated wanting to try it. I am a girl I have a vag... If he wants anal go gay!!... Please explain how a guy sticking his dick in a butt hole with poop coming out of be ...
A. 15 May 2009: I never understood it either. i'm a guy, i've never done it and i never want to. always found it repulsive. so not all guys want to do it babe.... (read in full...)
After 2 years why do I still feel heartbroken?
Q. Hi everyone. A lot of you will know about me and my first relationship. It was long distance and it lasted for 2 years (read more about it on my profile). I've recently signed into MSN messenger for the first time since I last spoke to my ex b...
A. 14 May 2009: I'm gonna jump in the dark here, but what always helps me move on from a 'failed' relationship is persue a new one. then you're focusing on the girls rather than the old who by now must have had new relationships with other guys i'm sorry to say. my ... (read in full...)
A bad kisser, do I see if he can improve or not?
Q. So i kissed this guy i like...and he wasnt very good. He thrusted his tongue in my mouth several times which i didnt like. overall i didnt like his kissing techniques. i wont want to kiss him again unless he doesnt kiss like that. should i not like ...
A. 8 May 2009: The answer is simple.
TELL HIM!!!!... (read in full...)
Tempted to cheat on my boyfriend as the sex has dried up.
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and everything was going good until we stopped having sex its become like once a week but even then its not amazing. So i went out to a club and met a fella i gave him my number and we have been texting and ...
A. 2 May 2009: If you're going to end it with your boyfriend, please tell him the truth. theres nothing worse than being lied to.... (read in full...)
Guys with girlfriends, do you guys ever look/think about other girls besides the one your with?
Q. This isn't a serious serious question but it's something I'm curious about. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he never looks at girls, or anything like that but we watch tv shows, movies, etc. with girls in it but he says ...
A. 29 April 2009: A lot of guys do I'm afraid but personaly, I don't.... (read in full...)
Was I too nice?
Q. I met a wonderful girl on the internet, and after only sending eachother a couple of e-mails, she gave me her mobile number. We started texting eachother frequently and we got on great, then when we spoke on the phone and things got even better. We ...
A. 28 April 2009: Women with kids are odd mate, they change their minds more times than you'll have hot dinners. (in fact, all girls/women are like that), they can never accept the truth either and always belive they're right.
You didn't do a thing wrong so don't ... (read in full...)
How do you prevent a woman from losing interest in you?
Q. How do you keep a woman interested and not get bored of you? Seems like every relationship i've ever had they've lost interest in me. i'm a nice guy, i give them space when they need it so why does this happen? I just need some advice on the ma...
A. 11 April 2009: That's good advice, but everyone i've dated has been completely different from each other. but like you suggested, i will have a good think about it. thanks.... (read in full...)
How do you prevent a woman from losing interest in you?
Q. How do you keep a woman interested and not get bored of you? Seems like every relationship i've ever had they've lost interest in me. i'm a nice guy, i give them space when they need it so why does this happen? I just need some advice on the ma...
A. 11 April 2009: actually satin, yes. since we spoke last time, i managed to move past that phobia yet still i get hurt. i always try to make them happy i just seem to fail everytime.... (read in full...)
How do you prevent a woman from losing interest in you?
Q. How do you keep a woman interested and not get bored of you? Seems like every relationship i've ever had they've lost interest in me. i'm a nice guy, i give them space when they need it so why does this happen? I just need some advice on the ma...
A. 11 April 2009: well its always been me whos the one getting dumped and ALWAYS for stupid reasons.
and i wouldn't say i gave them too much space or whatever. i always show interest in them, and i always let them know that i care for them.
i'm confused because... (read in full...)
I can't help thinking there's something she's not telling me...
Q. OK, I'll start from the beginning. Me and my girlfriend were happy together, we loved each other etc, she even told me that she wanted to have a family with me in the future and that she'd never leave me and I felt the same way for her. Anyway, s...
A. 10 April 2009: i told her that i'd see the horses with her but she said it wouldn't be fair on me because she wouldn't be able to give me her full attentio.
she had the horses from the beginning but she gained all the extra days and hours of work since we got ... (read in full...)
I hate my life right now and all I want to do is cry...
Q. I currently hate my life. First my boyfriend of four years breaks up with me and I have to move back home, where my parents who are retired now and are always around. Then the transmission on my car breaks. I can't afford to fix it because my ...
A. 10 April 2009: Move to England and i'll look after you.
failing that,
what was his reason for breaking up with you?
have you tried looking for a better job?
try and do something to take your mind off things in the mean time, like a hobby. bike riding?
sorry i ... (read in full...)
He said "I'm preparing myself mentally for the day you leave me"
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years.. we met when i was 18 and he was 25.. everything moved very quickly.. we had sex on our second date and moved in together 1 1/2 months into the relationship.. at the moment i am going on 21...
A. 9 April 2009: sorry for the late reply. all i can say to that is follow your heart. just because he was searching for his ex doesnt mean hes going to leave you for her. yes he might still love her. what people forget is that when people love someone and break up, ... (read in full...)
I have a hard time being intimate and asking girls out
Q. I have a pretty big problem with intimacy. I'm 24 and have been in 2 relationships - one lasting almost a year and the other 2 whole years. The problem was that during all of that time I felt uncomfortable behaving affectionately towards my ...
A. 9 April 2009: well you can always try a dating site. shouldn't feel embarrassed about asking them out then. only problem with that is you wont learn to face you fears so to speak. but it helped me. i'm a much more confident person now.
about being ... (read in full...)
Ex GF not getting the message - Help
Q. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost a bit of weight. I just dumped her again recently and she's angry with me because of the way I did it. I couldnt be ...
A. 9 April 2009: I dont see anything wrong with meeting her so you can part on good terms. think she deserves that at least after you practically told her she's fat! how inconsiderate of you.... (read in full...)
The picture I sent wasn't of me, and now he wants to meet in person!
Q. ok i have a big problem now and i don't know what to do so i'm confused i have been dating someone for two weeks now and he is so serious with me but the problem is that i lied to him about my picture, i sent to him another persons picture without ...
A. 8 April 2009: you'll have to tell him. yeah he'll most likely be annoyed with you but if he's serious about you then he'll forgive you. just tell him, i think he deserves the truth before he comes all the way to see you.... (read in full...)
Lost my faith in guys - have I been used?
Q. I've been dating a nice guy for about 7 weeks. Was very romantic, kind and seemed to be very in to me. I went on another date with him again at the weekend - the date went well and I invited him back to mine. We ended up sleeping together. He is the ...
A. 7 April 2009: Dont say that. I believe i'm a nice guy, i always try my best to make people happy but girls ALWAYS seem to hurt me. think you just need to find the right one.
I know it wasn't too soon to sleep with him but next time, make the guy wait longer, ... (read in full...)
How can improve my chances for getting a job?
Q. I've never felt so low. i cant get a thing right with my girlfriend, i cant get a job, The only place I can see my life going is living on the streets. I just want to be happy but I can't see it happening. I Just want to know how to make things ...
A. 5 April 2009: yeah but didn't really find much. looking into college courses as well cause apparently because i'm unemployed, i may be able to get them free.
also i'm single again.... (read in full...)
How can improve my chances for getting a job?
Q. I've never felt so low. i cant get a thing right with my girlfriend, i cant get a job, The only place I can see my life going is living on the streets. I just want to be happy but I can't see it happening. I Just want to know how to make things ...
A. 4 April 2009: Thanks but that site is rubbish, it just tells you what you get out of them that's all.... (read in full...)
How can improve my chances for getting a job?
Q. I've never felt so low. i cant get a thing right with my girlfriend, i cant get a job, The only place I can see my life going is living on the streets. I just want to be happy but I can't see it happening. I Just want to know how to make things ...
A. 4 April 2009: How do I go about doing an apprenticeship? got no idea where to look.... (read in full...)
He said "I'm preparing myself mentally for the day you leave me"
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years.. we met when i was 18 and he was 25.. everything moved very quickly.. we had sex on our second date and moved in together 1 1/2 months into the relationship.. at the moment i am going on 21...
A. 2 April 2009: Well its not you ok.
i'm just going by my own experience here. but i'm really insecure and an ex of mine tried really hard to ease my mind. she did eventually get through before leaving me. truth is its hard to get over these things and all you can ... (read in full...)
He said "I'm preparing myself mentally for the day you leave me"
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years.. we met when i was 18 and he was 25.. everything moved very quickly.. we had sex on our second date and moved in together 1 1/2 months into the relationship.. at the moment i am going on 21...
A. 2 April 2009: erm...i'm not entirely sure what your question is...
not too sure whats goin on with you two either. it does sound like he's insecure as well, and like me, girls have broken his heart on more than 1 occasion and always through unforeseen ... (read in full...)
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