Should I let go and move on or fight for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is ...
A. 26 September 2012: @Sage
I don't understand by what you meant by if I stuck to the subject.... (read in full...)
Should I let go and move on or fight for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is ...
A. 26 September 2012: @Denis32
That is wrong. I said his parents, his dad almost hitting him, saying I was dragging him from the family church... (read in full...)
Should I let go and move on or fight for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is ...
A. 25 September 2012: @Denise32,
You did not understand the post well. I never dragged him, I was just following him. I said his parents in their anger and when they were shouting at him said I was trying to drag him away from family tradition which is not true.... (read in full...)
Should I let go and move on or fight for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is ...
A. 25 September 2012: Thanks guys for your replies and both of your opinions/answers were what I also thought about. I will cool it with him until when and if there is a change.... (read in full...)
I don't know the cause of his shut down.
Q. I recently met this guy late last year like November who according to me, we were friends then perhaps began dating but he wanted a full relationship with me being his girlfriend which I accepted this January. We had a small misunderstanding with me ...
A. 20 January 2012: Thanks all, I asked him though and even asked him if we should break up because the mind games are getting too far. He didn;t say anything to that and just sent a hug emoticon.... (read in full...)
I told my close friend that I liked him and now I'm wondering if I was wrong?
Q. I have been very close with this guy I met and we have been friends. He emphasized on the being friends until he recently told me he liked me and was attracted to me. Then a few days later, I told him I did like him too but that's about it. Don't ...
A. 4 January 2011: We have kissed before etc.. He has told me, I have told him but it looks like he might still not be ready to make a next move. We haven't even talked about it... (read in full...)
What should I say when I meet up with my ex?
Q. I have been broken up with my ex for a month and a half and in between those months, he has been calling me just cheking upon me, telling me what has been going on with him, basically work and staying home, his family etc. He has even said more than ...
A. 23 October 2010: I still want to meet up because this is the best opportunity for me to get closure and ask him everything I need so no matter what I would still want to meet up.... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and feel I'm getting old. When do people usually find "the one"?
Q. hi guys, I'm worried that i wont find the right guy. I'm nearly 22 and i feel like my dating life is nearly over. I would probably like to be settled down by 25 and marrying/kids about 30. Ive got a guy in my life, but he tends to invalidate an...
A. 23 October 2010: OMG, you r just like me. I am 21 and already feel so old. Worrying when I'll get married or meet the one.... (read in full...)
Why is my ex boyfriend delaying meeting up with me?
Q. My ex boyfriend and i have been broken up for about a month and during this period, he has called me a couple of times, sent me his vacation pictures, even called me the names he gave me when we were going out, "peach" and "beautiful". After about ...
A. 29 September 2010: I was the one that r=brought it up to him to hang out and talk and he agreed without me forcing him saying that he would let me know. That's why I don't want to bring it up again. If he was really into it, he should be able to remember right?... (read in full...)
I need his financial help but we just broke up!
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with me. Before this, he promised to help me with part of my rent while i add the rest because of situation. Now we are broken up, I don't know if it's wise to still collect part of the money from him or don't. Would that ...
A. 1 September 2010: Thanks for your advice. I would take it. I'm so hurt.... (read in full...)
I need his financial help but we just broke up!
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with me. Before this, he promised to help me with part of my rent while i add the rest because of situation. Now we are broken up, I don't know if it's wise to still collect part of the money from him or don't. Would that ...
A. 1 September 2010: Yes he offered to help me himself but I don't really know because I need the money, if i should still take it or not after the break up.... (read in full...)
What is the best way to revenge on an ex that has treated you so badly?
Q. What is the best revenge I could give my ex. For 3 years, he has treated me badly, dumped me, cheated and come back, I forgive him, still treat him so nice and he turns around, humilate me and treat me bad. What could be the best revenge I could do ...
A. 29 January 2010: Thanks for your reply. Sometimes I think of just making myself better and live my life, sometimes I think of revenge.... (read in full...)
It seems to me the good people lose out in love but the wicked continue to prosper
Q. I seem to notice these around me, the faithful, good, God fearing like myself for example still get heartbroken and suffer in love while the ones that play around, deceitful still seem to easily find love. Why?...
A. 18 January 2010: To the last poster. So because You think God doesn't exist, that's why what? Good people have bad relationships or what? And talking of looking sexy, I dress sexy and decent and being God fearing doesn't mean I'm perfect, I am not a virgin but was ... (read in full...)
Can guys fall in love with girls who have scars on their bodies?
Q. Can you guys fall in love with a girl with scars on her body? burns, insect bites, injuries and other types of scars. Can you guys stay, love and be with a girl with those? Does it matter?...
A. 16 January 2010: Thanks guys. You all made me feel better.... (read in full...)
Should I check in on my sick ex?
Q. I just found out my ex that treated me bad and we broke up, he broke up with me though he had called, apologising, preaching love and wants me back is sick. He has kidney stones. Is it okay for me to call him a lot to know how he's doing or wh...
A. 11 November 2009: I know I'm not getting back with him. I have made up my mind to that but what I don't know if it's necessary or ok for me to call often to ask about the pain or I should just ignore?... (read in full...)
Should I check in on my sick ex?
Q. I just found out my ex that treated me bad and we broke up, he broke up with me though he had called, apologising, preaching love and wants me back is sick. He has kidney stones. Is it okay for me to call him a lot to know how he's doing or wh...
A. 11 November 2009: Not necessarily treating me bad, you know ups and downs in relationships, then he broke up with me after an argument. He then called months later apologising and trying to get back with me to make things up. He called me and told me he had kidney... (read in full...)
How would you act and behave to your ex that dumped you?
Q. If it were you, how would treat an ex that yea was good and bad to you, not necessarily the best, you made your own mistakes but was very cold to you which eventually led to breaking up with you after trying so hard to mend things. You finally ...
A. 30 October 2009: What do u mean by detached?
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How would you act and behave to your ex that dumped you?
Q. If it were you, how would treat an ex that yea was good and bad to you, not necessarily the best, you made your own mistakes but was very cold to you which eventually led to breaking up with you after trying so hard to mend things. You finally ...
A. 30 October 2009: Thanks for the info.... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by calling my ex back?
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-convince-my-boyfriend-im-not.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/men-are-you-able-to-forgive-your-lady.html http://www.dearcupid.org/quest...
A. 27 October 2009: Now I feel worse. I already know no getting back with him... (read in full...)
Why did my ex call, then not pick up when I rang him back?
Q. My ex and I have been broken up since April/May. He broke up with me after we had a misunderstanding and fought verbally. I did the usual, called him, sent emails, love songss and all, till June 25th, then stopped and decided to move on. I was ...
A. 10 August 2009: You are welcome and I appreciate you taking your time out to help here. I would post the links to the other posts before this incident.
And yes I felt the same way too, if he really wanted to talk to me and no mistake, he would have tried calling ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex call, then not pick up when I rang him back?
Q. My ex and I have been broken up since April/May. He broke up with me after we had a misunderstanding and fought verbally. I did the usual, called him, sent emails, love songss and all, till June 25th, then stopped and decided to move on. I was ...
A. 9 August 2009: Thanks guys truly appreciate. Some people said it could have been a mistake but I doubt that at least 80%. Well i'm not up for games any more though I've been thinking about it for long, why he must have called, but I guess I may never really really ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my boyfriend I'm not violent or rude now we have broken up?
Q. My boyfriend has cheated and frustrated me so much but I tolerated a lot of things and I loved him so much until one day he missed four appointments we had, I blew up and started texting insults to him like using the f word, cursing him out, saying ...
A. 7 June 2009: How do I gradually show him when he's not even communicating with me and I haven't seen him since the 23rd of May?... (read in full...)
Men, are you able to forgive your lady for insulting you?
Q. I know we women are emotional creatures and could forgive easily. Men, how easily is it especially if you are the cause of her frustration and have done some things to hurt you. She said some hurtful words like calling you an "idiot", stupid, using ...
A. 5 June 2009: @Emilysanswers All you just said is exactly how I'm feeling and you are right. I feel a little different with the responses given making me not so hard on myself. Thanks for your advice. Thank you everyone too for your advices and more are we... (read in full...)
He was a multiple cheater, we broke up, I insulted him, but feel I could forgive him, why?
Q. Why am I still finding it hard to forgive myself and still blaming myself for the failed relationship since 2months with my boyfriend? A summary of what led it, was he had cheated before, but we settled it and lack of time and the way he treated m...
A. 5 June 2009: @rcn This last advice you gave is making me think twice and I'm actually looking at the whole thing that led to this. You made sense here and for the fact I've apologised and begged him so so much for calling him names, looking at the other side, ... (read in full...)
Men, are you able to forgive your lady for insulting you?
Q. I know we women are emotional creatures and could forgive easily. Men, how easily is it especially if you are the cause of her frustration and have done some things to hurt you. She said some hurtful words like calling you an "idiot", stupid, using ...
A. 4 June 2009: I agree with you all but most people are referring to the cheating part here, while I'm including the insulting part and what le to the insult. What he really did that provoked me to that extent.... (read in full...)
Men, are you able to forgive your lady for insulting you?
Q. I know we women are emotional creatures and could forgive easily. Men, how easily is it especially if you are the cause of her frustration and have done some things to hurt you. She said some hurtful words like calling you an "idiot", stupid, using ...
A. 4 June 2009: @Emilysanswers
Yeah he was wrong also because he failed four appointments we had but I was also wrong for insulting him with wrods I used because I never meant them and should not have no matter what. That is not me.... (read in full...)
Men, are you able to forgive your lady for insulting you?
Q. I know we women are emotional creatures and could forgive easily. Men, how easily is it especially if you are the cause of her frustration and have done some things to hurt you. She said some hurtful words like calling you an "idiot", stupid, using ...
A. 4 June 2009: @Grimmreality
Well he has cheated before that i found out but that isnt and wasn the reason @ all for insulting him cos i dodnt mean them @ all. He has put me down in such way and lack of care or attention.
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He was a multiple cheater, we broke up, I insulted him, but feel I could forgive him, why?
Q. Why am I still finding it hard to forgive myself and still blaming myself for the failed relationship since 2months with my boyfriend? A summary of what led it, was he had cheated before, but we settled it and lack of time and the way he treated m...
A. 4 June 2009: I agree. I'm not proud I did and I'm not saying because I forgave him, he should to but surrounding the circumstances, I would have thought he might not take it too far though it has only been 2 months.
He cheated before but I forgave him beca... (read in full...)
He was a multiple cheater, we broke up, I insulted him, but feel I could forgive him, why?
Q. Why am I still finding it hard to forgive myself and still blaming myself for the failed relationship since 2months with my boyfriend? A summary of what led it, was he had cheated before, but we settled it and lack of time and the way he treated m...
A. 4 June 2009: He cheated on me before not like he is a multiple cheater. We broke up 2months ago after I insulted him. I pleaded for long but sometimes still feel guilty. Just to clarify the question. I dont know why they put the question this way.... (read in full...)
I don't want my ex to be happy with another girl!...
Q. I hate the situation im in. Me and my ex broke up 4 the 3rd time 5 months ago. It was on/off lots. He wasnt that nice to me.run me down. Made me have real low self esteem. He could b so charming and sweet and hurtful the next. I loved him so much ...
A. 27 May 2009: I feel what you are saying cos I am in the same situation. My ex broke up with me over a month and I still love him and want the best for him but of cause I ont want him to be happy with the other person or whoever he may meet as he didn't treat me ... (read in full...)
Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?
Q. I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...
A. 26 May 2009: @Talkhelps
Thanks, I agree, I don't know why I kept feeling that way but I feel much better with the replies and advices given.... (read in full...)
Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?
Q. I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...
A. 26 May 2009: @ prophet7
Yeah thanks, it does help. I would give him his space, but I dont know why I was feeling low even about the pictures maybe not looking so so great and that may drive him away further more.... (read in full...)
Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?
Q. I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...
A. 26 May 2009: I know i was really sounding silly about the pictures maybe not looking so great compared to how I look in person, but that was how i felt, that it may drive him away further more and maybe he would think Im not doing so great after the break up ... (read in full...)
Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?
Q. I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...
A. 26 May 2009: Yeah thanks it does help. I'm just like regretting why I did it though it's already done, I'm now feeling a little down maybe the pictures were not so good looking to move him and might prolong him even considering me.... (read in full...)
Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?
Q. I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...
A. 26 May 2009: i feel like the pics weren't good enough and might push him away more.... (read in full...)
Need suggestions on getting over a first love...
Q. How long did it take to get over your first love? I was with mine for 25 Months and 15 Months on from the Split i still think of him everyday is this normal?? We split up due to him wanting space, there is no one else with him and never has been, ...
A. 24 May 2009: I am a female. Mine, He was my first love but he has had other relationships before me. We split up about a month or less. I'm still dealing with it, and still hoping we get back. I don't believe I would even fall in love again.... (read in full...)
Had the breakup not hit him yet?
Q. is it true when your boyfriend breaks up with you; and your relationship was a little serious that hes not really thinking about it because hes so excited he doesnt have to talk to you; hangout with you; and be around you; to where he wouldnt reali...
A. 15 December 2008: When you say later.......like how long?? Months or what?... (read in full...)
He's 19 years older! I know I've "my whole life ahead of me" and someone else could come along but I love this man! What to do???
Q. Im in love with an older man,we have recently decided to split as we want different things at the moment but one evening a few weeks ago he said i was the one for him,he wants a future with me,wanted to make me his wife and is "waiting for the kids ...
A. 19 August 2008: I am also in the same situation, mine is a 17 yr age gap but we love each other so deeply, i just want to get done with college next year and see what future holds for us.... (read in full...)
He is 39 and I am 19... the problem is that I don't know how to tell my family and friends about us.
Q. It's a long story really, and its really getting me down because i dont know what route to take or how to approach the problem and just kind of want other peoples point of views. So basically I'm a guy and I met a really nice guy.. one night ...
A. 16 August 2008: Dear im in the same situation, im 19, my man is 36, infact we plan on getting married. ive been with guys my age and a lil older but like u said love is love and it's him i love.... (read in full...)
Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful
Q. I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...
A. 27 June 2008: I dont know why my other questions aren't coming up.... (read in full...)
Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful
Q. I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...
A. 27 June 2008: You are right but I have tried and still left haging so do I call him now or wait much longer like 2 weeks or a month or just forget and wait for him to call. The only thing holding me too is I still have some of my things at his place which I told ... (read in full...)
Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful
Q. I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...
A. 27 June 2008: You are right, Thanks. So should I call him now or wait much longer? and what do I say?... (read in full...)
Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful
Q. I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...
A. 27 June 2008: So do I text him that I would like to come pick up my remaining things or wait longer before I do it? I'm hurt at the same time, this is the only time he is going through a lot and as much as I want to be there for him, he isn't letting me.... (read in full...)
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