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I have huge self esteem issues
Q. Well I'm 18 years old... I have HUGE self esteem issues, but I date some of the prettiest girls.. The problem is, keeping them. My self esteem kicks in fast while in a relationship, like I doubt that I'm good ebough for this person, or if I'm p...
A. 20 September 2007: You said it! It is all about how you think about yourself first. Well, it sounds like your problem derives from something deeper. How did your parents treat you when growing up? Did they praise you and show you lots of love, or were you teased, ... (read in full...)
I'm getting mixed signals. Does my ex want me back or not?
Q. HEy all, My ex broke up with me before the summer, we had been together for nearly 3 months, during that time we never had sex. I am still a virgin and am nervous about the issue and find it hard to get over expectations ,especially bein...
A. 20 September 2007: Well she sounds a bit complicated for starters. Honestly I wouldn't give her the honor of your virginity. Although I don't know how you stand on that, some feel it's precious others think it's over rated. But i guess you must feel some value towards ... (read in full...)
I think my ex is "the one," but my family really likes me current guy! What do I do?
Q. Oh my goodness such a dilemna. Im 19 and last year went out with this lad who was 6 yrs older than me, he was gorgeous and spoiled me and was amazing in bed and we had so much fun together. But now I'm with someone else, he treats me ok and wants us...
A. 19 September 2007: Don't pick a guy just because your family likes him, that's just a perk. If you really like the other guy then go for it. You are young as the other person said, be happy and enjoy yourself:)... (read in full...)
Is it weird I don't want a guys night out? My buddies are upset when my wife comes out with me!
Q. Is it weird i don't want a guys night out? I'm 24 and married. I'm a very social guy and prefer group dates and parties and just generally any situation that involves a lot of people. My friends that I have from before meeting my wife will som...
A. 19 September 2007: Do you know how many women would love for their man to be the same as you. Well, it's normal for the guys to act that way since they are single, they may be the same when their not single. You're married now, they'll just have to accept it. I guess ... (read in full...)
Do birth conrol pills make your breasts bigger or make you gain weight?
Q. Hey, i dont know if this is true but i've heard a lot of people say the birth control pill makes your breasts bigger? As i also heard they make you sometimes put on weight. ...
A. 19 September 2007: It all depends on how your body reacts to it. Everyones body is different and not all birth control pills are alike. When I took the pill I didn't have any side affects except for irregular periods, they had to change them on me twice till I found ... (read in full...)
He sent her a picture of his penis!
Q. There's this site that should be left un-named where you can sell items and a whole bunch of other things are on this site including a personals section.... well I was looking through my boyfriends email box earlier since he's always doing it to me ...
A. 19 September 2007: Ever heard of the saying Once a cheater always a cheater, (BTW cheaters hate that saying :) Yea, he's cheating, get your own place lined up, make mental notes of everything and then drop the bomb on him when you're ready to leave. But don't wait too ... (read in full...)
Have I ruined it already?
Q. I am just ending an abusive relationship of almost three years and I've spend some time with a coworker of mine. We ended up having sex after only hanging out a couple times, which is isn't like me but I am wondering what he thinks of me for giving ...
A. 19 September 2007: Well, I guess it just really depends on how into you the person is. Play it cool and see how he acts with you. If he's distant, just casualy, yet privately tell him you don't usualy do things like that and that you hope he doesn't have the wrong ... (read in full...)
Whats the best way to get a second chance?
Q. What's the best way to get a second chance with an ex? My live-in boyfriend broke up with me 3 1/2 mnths ago. He said he couldn't do it that he wasn't ready, but that he still thought we'd end up together one day. At first we stayed in touch, but ...
A. 19 September 2007: Well, you say you grew a bit dependent on him. Maybe you should give yourself some time to get on your feet i.e. your own place and things you would normaly do with him or have him do for you, you would now do for yourself. After you get comfy in ... (read in full...)
Do I get back together with him?
Q. Hi. Can anyone help sort my mind out? I've recently got back with my ex after 6 months apart but some communication etc in the meantime. I feel that since the split in March that I have got on with my life - that doesn't mean looking for someone ...
A. 19 September 2007: It sounds like you've moved on. If you don't have feelings for him anymore, don't feel obligated to work things out just because he still wants to work things out. Be honest with him. He should have asked how things were going today, maybe he was ... (read in full...)
It's been three months, but I can't shake the feeling...Could she be pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and i had been together for 5 months when we started to have sex. Our last time we didnt use a condom but i was only inside of her for like ten seconds and i never came.(it was also during her period) For a long time i was worried ...
A. 19 September 2007: Most likey no. Don't be worried. The first sign of pregnancy is the lost of a period. Then there's morning sickness,and a bunch of other lovely symptoms. Relax. Maybe she should get on the pill if you fear you may have unprotected sex again. Talk to ... (read in full...)
I think my bf's ex faked her suicide to get out of the relationship - how can I verfiy that she's dead?
Q. Could her suicide be a lie? Four years ago my boyfriend received a phone call telling him his on/off girlfriend had killed herself. He didn't go to any funeral, the call was from one of her friends, and I have searched the death records there is...
A. 18 September 2007: He obviously needs some closure regardless if she is dead or alive. Maybe the two of you should together try to find information as to where she was burried, ask friends of hers, relatives, people in the neighborhood she was in. Someone must know ... (read in full...)
My only problem with him is that he is Hindu, while I'm Muslim
Q. i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a ...
A. 18 September 2007: Sorry, I meant to say get OFF the computer once and a while. (Sorry for the confusion) :)... (read in full...)
Some friends say I have changed because I don't smoke pot anymore. They say my boyfriend is controlling me.
Q. I have two specific friends who believe that my boyfriend is "controlling" because he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone who smokes pot. this is fine with me because it is not something that i am attached to so im not doing ...
A. 18 September 2007: You're so-called friends sound like losers. Enjoy your boyfriend and feel sorry for them :)... (read in full...)
My girlfriend overheard me saying I still loved my ex!
Q. my girlfriend over heard me telling someone i still love an ex tho i know this must have hurt her feelings i dont know how to tell her i love her in a sisterly way and im not in love with her. i love my girlfriend more than anything and im ...
A. 18 September 2007: Tell her the same way you told us!! Heck, show her the post! :)... (read in full...)
My only problem with him is that he is Hindu, while I'm Muslim
Q. i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a ...
A. 18 September 2007: You never met, only chatted on MSN. Sounds like to catch a predator. There are many dangerous people in cyber space. I would tell your parents!!!!! There is an age differance. Marriage shouldn't even be in your mind right now. Does he love you? I ... (read in full...)
I want the man I can't have and don't want the man I married!
Q. My husband and I have pretty much had problems since day one. In fact, probably since before we were even married. Right now he's off in Iraq (don't worry, his job isn't anything remotely dangerous), and I feel like I like my life better without him ...
A. 18 September 2007: I think you should tell him you want to seperate. That way even though you're legaly married, you are both in agreement verbaly that the marriage is over, and should something happen between you and this other man, you won't feel guilty. Now does ... (read in full...)
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