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Does my crush like me? How do I know?

Q.   how do i tell if my crush likes me? I'm naturely blonde so i act dumb sometimes. when i first moved here i didn't notice him at first until this boy that picks on every day.he stars at me and finds thing to anoy me.every day he would say oh thi...

A.   16 December 2007: Oh...to be a teenager! LOL. From the looks of it, his friends doesn't like you very much. Most likely, his friends make fun of you so he's very hesitant on pursuing you. In your age group, it's important to feel cool so if his friends do not think ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend worries about his penis size, what can I do to reassure him?

Q.   My boyfriend's too shy about sex cos he thinks he has a small penis (5 inches) and cums too quickly. I love him a lot but i dont understand why its bothering him so much when i am happy with him. What can i do to make him overcome his shyness? ...

A.   16 December 2007: Men often use the size of penis to gauge "manliness". Try doing activities together to boost his confidence such as working out to build muscle or playing sports. ... (read in full...)

He flirts and says he is interested, but is he really?? What's going on with this guy?

Q.   You work with this guy. You flirt for 3 months and eventually you both confess that you like each other. You're both single and not dating, though you've just divorced. You ask him out to coffee via text message, he doesn't reply. Three days ...

A.   16 December 2007: People are different. Something may have happened to him in the past that caused him to behave that way. You seem confident and from my standpoint, he doesn't strike me as the aggressive type. The ball is on your court. You are adults, so there is ... (read in full...)

Why is my friend flirting with the guy I like?

Q.   My friend flirts with nearly every boy. I wouldn't mind but she openly seems to flirt with the guy who a have a massive crush on. The over day she mentioned something about not liking her ex anymore but wanting him to fancy her anyway because it ...

A.   16 December 2007: Forget the guy! Talk to your friend! She needs you help! If she keeps heading that direction, it could mean serious trouble for her. Have a chat with her. Talk about her good qualities to boost her confidence. Who knows what desperate measures she ... (read in full...)

I fantasise about guys, not girls. Does that make me gay?

Q.   Hi yeah i am only 16 years old I like girls but when i get horny the first thing that comes to my mind is gay sex, but when i am not horny anymore my mind tells me i am not gay,but i start to think and want guys in my life sexually everyday.....i ...

A.   16 December 2007: Hmm...no one could do a better analysis of this situation than you. But from what I've read, I think you're gay. Perhaps you don't "mind" being with a girl when you're not horny because it's acceptable and it's what society expects from you. But let ... (read in full...)

His dad told me he liked me, he said he didn't, but I still really like him, he's my first crush.

Q.   I met a guy at my uncle's party about2a months ago, but we didn't get much time to talk. His dad said to me that he liked me, but i wasnt sure whether it was true or not; but i really liked him. Since then, i managed to get hold of his number an...

A.   16 December 2007: You are doubtful because you feel as though you haven't tried hard enough to give him signs that you like him...but honestly...you have done enough! Boys are aggressive [part of instinct]. If you went as far as to call him out of curiosity, don't ... (read in full...)

How do I talk to women in bars and clubs?

Q.   This one is for anybody that feels they can offer any guidance. I recently was broken up with by me ex of 2 years whom i loved with all my heart, and to my own admittance i am not over her in the slightest. But the breakup has left me with zer...

A.   16 December 2007: It sounds like you're in a rough spot. My advice is do not think about having another relationship right away. Try looking for friends for now. And please do not go after girls from clubs and/or bars...that is the worst place you can go. Your goal ... (read in full...)

Should I ask my friend to message her for me?

Q.   I met this girl at a friend's party. I didn't know anybody there, but when she said hi to my friend i noticed she was staring at me, so i introduced myself and she said "who are you friend's of?" so i told her and she asked me why i hadn't hung out ...

A.   16 December 2007: Well...asking your friend to message her for you may arouse suspicion and your crush may not want that. Why don't you just create a MySpace account? That way you can contact her without anyone else knowing. ... (read in full...)

Does this seem like harmless office flirting - or is it more serious than that?

Q.   I'm attracted to my male boss. He is one of a few people who supervise my work. I had a mild crush on him in the beginning, but now, it has grown stronger by the day. I think it is a purely physical attraction and I'm not sure if I'd want any kind ...

A.   16 December 2007: Hmm...that is tough. I was in a similar situation months ago. My advice is do not pursue it! Nothing good will come out of it in the long run...believe you me. At first you'll get the perks, the special treatments, etc. but when he gets what he ... (read in full...)

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