I love him but find it hard to accept this.
Q. My boyfriend has got money and not willing to take the money out and help me when I really need it. I just feel that is not love. My elderly mum is in hospital in Hong Kong and I don't have enough money to get a ticket to visit her. This upset me ...
A. 9 November 2007: So you love him, but feel bad if he don't help you with his money. I understand your mom is sick, but that don't give you any right to think is his job to rescue or help you in your situation. I'm sure you have more options for money (i.e. a ... (read in full...)
My partner is a cheater, but I have become friends with one of these girls, is this a bad idea?
Q. Hi i would love to hear peoples opinions on this situation. I found out 2 months ago my partner of 7 years who i have been with since i was 17yrs old and i have a daughter with has been cheating on me with multiple people. One of the girls he has ...
A. 9 November 2007: I feel the same way you feel with this girl my husband had an affair with. I feel I would like to meet her or talk to her on a friendly way, as I see both of us as victims of him. Ok, lets rephrase that, I'm not the victim anymore. But anyways I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's family won't acknowledge me and my boyfriend won't stand up for me. What can I do?
Q. the man that i have been dating for the last three years is an enabler to his family and also a people pleaser. his family does not acknowledge me. they did acknowledge me until we broke up for a short time back in the summer. they really do not ...
A. 8 November 2007: This is simple, talk to him and ask him why he wont stand for you? then, wether he tells you or not the reason, be nice to his family. Cause if you are nasty to them they will be nasty to you and you know what? almost all of us don't like when ... (read in full...)
I've got the hots for my teacher, how can I get him interested, I'm 17 he's in his 30's
Q. Hey, Okay here's the deal. I am a junior in highschool. I really really like my history teacher. I'm 17 (legal in the state of Missouri) He is in his early thirties. I'm not just attracted to his looks, he is definately no Brad Pitt, he is just an ...
A. 8 November 2007: Please love yourself, it is so beatiful and classy to do that. As a woman is important to keep that in mind. I think the reason you want to get his attention is because you don't feel loved at home and you are looking for it outthere. Think ... (read in full...)
Every day there's a insult from my gf of 3 yrs or her kids. Should I break up?
Q. my girlfriend of 3 yrs will only give about 30%, wont come to my house i have to go there. always tells me how wrong iam and that her and her kids are right, ALWAYS, every single thing is done when she says, its not what WE can do to make this work, ...
A. 2 November 2007:
Yes, my girlfriend of 12 years (I'm 30) has never done things like that to me, on the oposite she has told me when I'm wrong on a loving way, I feel she is like my sister. The rest of the time, she send me cards for special ocasions, gifts for ... (read in full...)
My happiness just isn't returning, after 7 months. What am I going to do?
Q. My happiness just isn't returning... It's been 7 months since my girlfriend of 3 years put an end to our relationship. She has since moved on, but I am left a much less happier man than I once was. I don't think anything made me happier than be...
A. 1 November 2007: Ok, learn this my friend, in life things are the way they just because. your lesson here is, you need yourself happy and not expect from others to make you happy, you must love yourself in order to love others. its really simple. So go out there ... (read in full...)
Should I move on, or what?
Q. hi i was wondering if you could help me my boyfriend and me just broke up cuz he said he just needed time i got my friend to go up and ask him does this mean you'll go out with her later should i keep looking for a new man or do i wait?.........im ...
A. 30 October 2007: If he needs time, he doesn't knows what he wants, if he doesn't know what he wants he doesn't like what he got. Sorry, take care...... (read in full...)
My best friend was going out with a guy for a while. She left him, and me and him had a "thing", but now she wants him back because she's in love with him! What should I do?
Q. my best friend was going out with this guy for a while, but then she broke up with him and now she wants 2 get back with him and she is proper in love with him but me and him have got a little "thing" goin on and she is proper into him and i duno ...
A. 30 October 2007: I tink you should think what is more imoprtant to you.
Then if its the guy, think twice cause the relationship with him may not work out and then you may loose a friend forever.... (read in full...)
I feel he should be more committed and that he treats me poorly but my shouting and crying don't seem to be working. How do I spend more time with him without feeling I'm forcing him to?
Q. Hi. I've been seeing a guy on and off for the last nine years ... a long old time. We got together when we were still at school, I'm 25 now. After an 8 month break we got back together in June 07. In the past we have both hurt each other - we ...
A. 28 October 2007: Oh baby girl, I got it. You wanna get his attention. Here is: Stop doing everything for him, stop chasing him. Men respond to pain and voids wich means when he misses you he will make up his mind. Start having your own life,become unpredictable = ... (read in full...)
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