Fallen for my friend and afraid to tell her
Q. Ok, i will try to make this short. I have a friend who i talk to everyday, she shares her feelings with me. She has this big crush on another person and tells me all bout it. How happy she is and stuff like that. The other person is messing with her ...
A. 28 January 2008: Tell her the worse that can happen is an awkwardness of about 2 weeks. I told one of my friends I loved him and he said "ah that's sweat" but I still felt better that the truth was known and that he wasn't going to love me. Life is nothing without ... (read in full...)
I can't look at him the same way.
Q. well im fourteen and lost my virginity already iv not had any regrets,but ever since da day it happend i cant look at da boy da same way, and it is not in a good way, i dont like him anymore, i need major help...
A. 28 January 2008: Sucks, I felt the same way, I followed Phoebe Cates advice in "Fast times at Ridgemont High" and I did it with some random guy to get it over with. I almost never even think about it now, not until this post. I am now sleeping with someone I love ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is calling himself "Big Daddy" at work..what would YOU do?
Q. Ladies: I have a quick question for you. If you found some receipts that your boyfriend had signed at work signed "Big Daddy" how would you react? I found a couple of them so far and I'm wondering if I should even say anything about them. Please ...
A. 27 January 2008: My experience has been that any man you calls himself Daddy is an asshole, with the 1 exception being a father saying to his young child "bring that to daddy". Go butting around in his stuff phone, phone records, computer what have you, if you can't ... (read in full...)
Is she causing trouble?
Q. I met a new attractive guy. My one friend who currently has a boyfriend said she was making it her mission to find me a guy. After a night of hanging out with the new cute guy, she asks me if I like him, and if I would ever date him. I tell her ...
A. 27 January 2008: She's toxic... (read in full...)
Your points on the happiness spectrum
Q. What were the most happy moments in your life so far? And what were the most unhappy ones? ...
A. 27 January 2008: Well of course I completely agree with the above, but I really enjoy thinking about the purist of happy thoughts, I like to play them in my mind when I'm depressed, kind of like a music video. First love the conversations I had with him, not that ... (read in full...)
Life's Great Mysteries
Q. If we are so Smart and Great why there is Pain Hunger and wars on Earth ?AND WHERE IS THE GREAT LOVE THAT WE ALLWAS TALK ABOUT ?THANK YOU...
A. 27 January 2008: Love is all around us, but hate and negativity blind us to it.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me anymore. What can I do?
Q. Hi I'm 21 with a boyfriend who just doesn't seem to care about me anymore. Of course he says he loves me I do believe he does. However, I am always the one who has to plan to go out for dates. I have a toddler with him and the babysitting ...
A. 27 January 2008: He kind of sounds depressed, maybe you should suggest that he talk to someone. Has he experiences a loss, does he feel he's not going anywhere with his job, maybe too much overtime, he could just be tierd. If it's none of the obove give him a good ... (read in full...)
I've got three guys chasing me , how do I know who is the right one?
Q. Alright, I'm sorry but this is going to be really long. So I have a sort of love quadrangle happening. There is a guy I like. I have liked him for about a year, lets call him 1. Then there is a guy who I think likes me and who I have been friends ...
A. 26 October 2007: Number 2,best friend types make the best relationships, as long as there is some chemistry,but chemistry isn't all it's made out to be after you've been with someone for a while it wears off,so you want someone who cares about you,makes you ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend who cheated on me, Is it bad for me to have feelings for his best friend?
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years!!! uhh i know, I am now 25. I come to find that he continously chaeted on me throughout the entire relationship. I moved to fla with him so he could go to school and all. I had absolutly no idea. He ...
A. 26 October 2007: Not to be perfectly rude but who cares how your ex feels? He cheated on you repeatedly and took 5 years of your life.Even if his friend will only cause you minimal happiness and him alot of distress,then that is what he gets.I dated a sort of friend ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if your husband doesn't love you anymore?
Q. How can you tell if your husband doesn't love you anymore?...
A. 26 October 2007: Without knowing more,hard to say.I would say lack of intrest,hostility,no physical affection,but marriages go through such ups and downs and cooling off periods.Also sometimes people go through depression and anxiety for weeks and keep it to ... (read in full...)
I think I'm being played.
Q. ok i think im being played so much... ive been seeing this guy for about a month, we were getting really close, and it was obvious we both likes eactother, we'd been out etcetc however last week, to cut a long story short, i found out he wa...
A. 25 October 2007: Like Monopoly. They say breaking up is hard to do not breaking up takes four days. He needs to figure out where his head and heart are and real fricking fast.It's wrong for him to leave you hanging like this.... (read in full...)
Is he gay or straight?
Q. hey everybody i need some advice, i'm only 16, I like this guy, but i dont know for sure if he's gay or straight, i get some mixed feeling that he is gay on the way he acts, i'm so sad over it, since i came out about 6 months ago i just started to ...
A. 25 October 2007: No straight men I know pillow fight,or snuggle up with their buddies. He's at least a little into guys,and I would say he does like you.... (read in full...)
The number of guys she had been with bothers be.
Q. I am 24 years old married with a one year old son. My wife is 22 and she is the love of my life. I knew before we were married that she had 15 sexual partners before me. I was a virgin when I met her. Ever since she told me that number has ...
A. 25 October 2007: She's probably wishing now that she had lied to you. If it's any consalation,she loves and trust you enough to be honest,and her sex act don't neccesarely sound like that of a slut but as someone very confused who thought she would find love.She ... (read in full...)
Break up or go on with this doubt.
Q. Dear Cupid my bf broke up with his gf before he met me. at least thats what he said. they broke up because the girl dont trust him as he is coming to the university which we both are studying in right now. the x gf is back at his home town. he...
A. 24 October 2007: Not to undermine any of this but you are young and in college.I say study hard,party hard,save all the drama for the art crowd.... (read in full...)
My brother would do stuff to me while I would sleep.
Q. So I'm 16 and a few years ago my brother would do....stuff to me at night when he thought I was sleep, and it kept going on because I didn't know what to do. He would make me give him handjobs and blowjobs and he would finger me and stuff. during ...
A. 24 October 2007: It is really wrong. It made my stomache turn, I'm surprised yours didn't, knock it off. Perhaps you should speak to a doctor,you seem really confused.... (read in full...)
I keep having discharge, what does it mean?
Q. i keep having discharge all the time does this mean anything?and when i had sex for the first time the discharge was quite bad what does this mean im so confused can you help me please ...
A. 22 October 2007: Since the vagina is self cleaning there will be discharge.However,if it's foul smelling or an odd color(not clear or milky)it's probably an infection.Heavy discharge can also be caused from using femine creams,usually goes away when you off them,or ... (read in full...)
Size does matter.
Q. I have an average size penis, 5.5 inches, and my girlfriend says she like ones that aren't small but aren't too big. Can anyone help me with size, positions or really just any advice. It would be great to hear from a fellow average sized person who ...
A. 21 October 2007: Women on top with pillows and possibly her feet under you butt make sex with any size but porn variety great.... (read in full...)
Miscarriage? And what are these other problems?
Q. I had found out that i was Pregnant on the 4th of October. I took a few home pregnancy tests. My last missed period at this time was on Aug. 22nd. On Sept 22, I had one day of bleeding. Since around the 22nd, I started getting bad cramping which is ...
A. 21 October 2007: You need a full exam,and probably a D&C.It sounds like you haven't fully expelled all the "tissue".Please make an app.with your OBGYN.... (read in full...)
What exactly does "taking a break mean"?
Q. What exactly does "taking a break mean"? She still calls me and talks to me and wants to see me and says she loves me. Very confused. Please help....
A. 20 October 2007: I think it means she's young and needs to sort out her feelings.She cares about you on some level,just maybe trying to figure out if you are "the one"... (read in full...)
It's one rule for him and another for me. Are his double standards acceptable?
Q. My b/f and I have been together for a little over 3 years, we were best friends before that. When we first got together my b/f had lost his job of 8yrs and was in a real slump (emotionally at first, then financially). Me being the person I am ...
A. 20 October 2007: From your post he's a selfish porn addicted loser with no goals,ambition,or love for you.The only real mistake you ever made was supporting him and/or ever getting with him in the first place.Kick him out,call his Mom and ask her is she has a room ... (read in full...)
Cheated on my husband and now I'm pregnant.
Q. I am in love with a man and he is really good to me. However, I cheated on him and he was always working and not making any time for fun with me. I am pregnant and wondering if I should tell my husband?...
A. 18 October 2007: You have to tell him,if nothing else thats one of those really bad kinds of secrets that eats at your stomache and totally consumes you.... (read in full...)
We're in love but both of us are married.
Q. Here's my story,I am inlove with this guy and he's inlove with me also, but both of us are married.Both of us are really attracted to each other and we have a whole lot in common. We get along pretty okay. At the beginning we used to talk on ...
A. 18 October 2007: I don't think this guys sounds like he's your soulmate I think he sounds like a bored husband,who either has no time for anything real because of his job,found out he misses his wife,or found someone else other than you or his wife,that maybe is ... (read in full...)
I lied to her and she won't forgive me...
Q. i don't know how to say this without sounding like a shallow a-hole... but my girlfriend and i got in a fight because i lied to her, today i bought her flowers and a card but she still hasn't forgiven me(can't say i blame her) but her frien...
A. 18 October 2007: Maybe you could go to a Halloween party and find another sexy nurse it's a preety popular costume choice.Doesn't sound like the 2 of you are gonna be messin about by Halloween.I think she's gonna ride out a big long guilt trip and Halloween will ... (read in full...)
I have a crush, what should I do with these feelings?
Q. Im really starting to crush on this one guy that i go to college with. Ive know him for a year now but i dont really know him that well. I do know that Im attracted to him and he is one of the nicest guys i ever met. Iam interested in getting to ...
A. 18 October 2007: You've gotta decide for yourself what is a deal breaker and what's not. I wouldn't go into a relationship alredy knowing there were things about a person I already couldn't stand.Some women have successfully redressed their men,but I wouldn't plan ... (read in full...)
We're awkward alone together
Q. Hi! Ive been dating this guy for a while now. and every things fine when where hanging with some friends.. but when where alone there is just this awkward silence. My mind goes black and i cant figure out something to say. And sometimes just sca...
A. 17 October 2007: If I can't think of anything to say I talk about movies,everybody has seen at least of couple of them. He's probably seen Transformers,Brave Heart,and Final Destination ask him.... (read in full...)
Could these be signs of pregnancy?
Q. Hey i need help please!! Okay you get asked this everyday im sure. But please be a little patient with me im 16 years old and scared to death. Ok me and my boyfriend have had sex WITHOUT protection, VERY stupid thing i know but it happened and...
A. 17 October 2007: Heartburn is also a frequent problem with early pregnancy,people don't usually connect it though,thinking they ate too many onions or something. Um,sometimes the very smell of peoples skin can make you sick or angry. I knew I was preg.just because I ... (read in full...)
Is she about to start an affair with her tattooist?
Q. my wife and i have been married for over a year now, we have a 1 year old, and are a pretty happy couple. today she left to work and left her myspace page up, and i saw she had a new message. it was from a frind shes been talking to about ...
A. 17 October 2007: She's probably gonna deny anything is going on even with hard evidence. However,she owns you an explanation,don't let her turn it around on you,screaming,ranting,saying you invaded her privacy,remind her that changes nothing.She was at least ... (read in full...)
I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!
Q. I Have a problem....I've been seeing my boyfriend for two years now and last night I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!!! I really really love my bf and my brother and I know that I should dump him but I really love hi and he says it was ...
A. 14 October 2007: During this so called experiment were there science papers or beakers strewn about?No,probably not so much of an "experiment"huh.He cheated on you plain and simple,would you be going through all this questioning if he had screwed your sister or best ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about contraception.
Q. How do I start..my girl friend is on birth control! ok..she tells me to come in her all the time but the thing is that I don't want no kids + I'm a lil bit scared of what is gonna happen with my sperm that goes inside of her...is the sperm gonna be ...
A. 14 October 2007: Oh,I got pregnant on the pill,so did my mom.... (read in full...)
I'm worried about contraception.
Q. How do I start..my girl friend is on birth control! ok..she tells me to come in her all the time but the thing is that I don't want no kids + I'm a lil bit scared of what is gonna happen with my sperm that goes inside of her...is the sperm gonna be ...
A. 14 October 2007: Wear a condom everytime, my spidey since is going off. Both of you guys are very young and to deal with a child,get outta here. Sperm can live inside her about three days,not forever,but it's a long time anyway. P.S. girls don't usually say "CUM IN ... (read in full...)
Prince Charming or Mr Reliability?
Q. Confused! I have been in a loving relationship with a man aged 40 for approximately 6 months, he adores both me and my disabled son. However he just doesnt make my stomach turn over when he walks in the room. He also has a problem with cannabis us...
A. 14 October 2007: Depends do you wanna a vibrator or a pair of Nike's? You and only you can decide what you want,what feels good or what is comfortable. By the way you called Mr. Reliable stupid I'm not a psychologist or anything but bad sign.... (read in full...)
How to get to know him?
Q. Lets see. I'm in love with this guy who prolly doesnt even know i exist. thats depressing. sooo, he's in my personal fitness class and soo soo goodlooking! but yeah, i tryed introducing myself face to face. but he hangs around with his friends...
A. 14 October 2007: Good one,you are Molly Ringwald in "Sixteen Candles". Jake Ryan doesn't even know you exist.... (read in full...)
Post-partem. How do I get sexy again?
Q. He wants me to spice things up sexually. How? when we have a baby that shares the room and I feel overweight still? ...
A. 14 October 2007: It's a tough one,maybe get a sitter and find something you can be sexy in while containing your wobbly parts. Or get the baby to sleep in the bedroom and do it in another room within earshot of the baby of course cause s/he could wake up anytime. ... (read in full...)
How can we make it last?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few weeks now and I just want some tips on how to make our relationship last. We both have a lot in common and we're both really weird and quiet. I am really happy when I'm with her and I don't want it ...
A. 14 October 2007: Just don't go too fast too soon. Don't screw each other over,watch movies,play darts,hang out and have good times,weird and quiet people have the best times.... (read in full...)
How do I play this game?
Q. i am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend wants us to talk about our sexual fantasies online... i don't mind at all and actually he's very good at it but the problem is that frankly i don't know how to express my thoughts and my feelings ...
A. 14 October 2007: Tell him what you think is hot and use dirty words,that should do. Tell him you want to F@$% him on a pool table with a crowd full of strangers,in an airplane bathroom,in Six Flags on Batman night. Men like anything that starts with,what makes me ... (read in full...)
Could he be a pedophile?
Q. okay, so my teacher is a nice guy. He's friendly and extremely nice. He doesn't really flirt with students, but if they want him to hug them or if they touch him a lot, he has no problem with that at all. I'm really worried about my friend, like ...
A. 14 October 2007: Sounds like a teacher I had in high school flirting with young girls progressed to touching,toughing led to I don't wanna think about. He's no longer a teacher he works at the gas station now. Tell your friend it's icky to touch teachers and barf to ... (read in full...)
I am falling for my boss....
Q. Iam majorly falling for my boss. I think he harmlessly flirts with me but im not sure. In 21 and he is only a few years older than me and he is really good looking.He never calls me by my first name, he either calls me by my nickname or he ...
A. 14 October 2007: Is your job your career? If the answer is yes,get over your crush. If the answer is no,date him on the d.l. and be prepared to look for other work should anyone find out. You just gotta figure out how much you like him and he likes you and what you ... (read in full...)
Help! My conscience driving me insane!
Q. Alrigh. I was here awhile ago. long while ago. Here I am. The fictional name I will use here is Alex.(Yes, that name is not really mine). I'm a 12 year old loser, but that's not the problem. that was a post long ago. I'm paranoid and it's dri...
A. 14 October 2007: Are you serious or is this your oh so clever way of making fun of everyone here? Teenagers also feel the dorks,if this is a constant thing go see a shrink,noone can fix you here.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to always look at him?
Q. I see a guy nearly everyday. I always stare at him when I see him because I have a big crush on him and sometimes he looks at me too. I don't think he has feelings for me though. He has a girlfriend though and I was wondering if it wrong to always ...
A. 13 October 2007: It's not wrong to stare,but you should probably talk to him,see if he has a g/f or ask him what he into get to know him.... (read in full...)
I feel weird trying to spice it up...
Q. Hiya everyone! So I wanted to surprise my lad somehow with a little something extra added to our sex life. He's going away for a business trip and will be gone for Christmas :( But when he gets back, we're having our own private Xmas, jus...
A. 13 October 2007: Have 2 drinks before he gets there you will be more calm,just don't get sloppy drunk. If you feel stupid being sexy play it cute he'll think it's hot even if you say nothing at all. Tell him you have a present for him upstairs...... (read in full...)
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