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| | *LamentedxAmourx's profile:I have been known to help people about with just about everything. I am 15, and in the 10th grade. My girl just left me because she could not handle it anymore. I feel empty and unwilling to accept that she left, even though I kinda already did. This is the worst I have ever felt, and that is saying something. Maybe people were right about teenage love ... maybe I was just to immature to see that. She still loves me and still wants to talk and see me ( Maybe she was trying to give me peace at mind?). I love her still very dearly, and I am not going with anyone else. I just hope in the future we can get back together. That is the single thread of hope I am hanging on.
I am very blunt, and some people find me to be an asshole. Others think I am "That one awesome kid". Exact quote.
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It is hard to be away from her, but she is growing away
Q. What do I do when being away from her is way too much to take? It almost feels like it is not worth the pain. Most of which relates to me being convinced that she is cheating, or wants someone else. Even as I left her today, she acted different. ...
A. 5 November 2007: Alright, maybe I can get a friend in, as my family agrees with what she is doing. And I was joking about the car thing. I am tying to let her go, it is hard but.. no I can not even say that I can right now. I guess I am tying though. Many thanks ... (read in full...)
I still love her and she still loves me...what should I do??
Q. Well, as I feared, she broke up with me. She "Could not do this anymore.". She insured that it was nothing I did, she was "having emotional problems and was in a bad place" as she put it. She does not know if we can be together in the future, ...
A. 30 October 2007: For the last two days I have dreamed of her, and she is all the seems to be on my mind. I have not stopped waring the hoody she gave back to me, and it smells just like her. When I try to close my eyes, I see her face. When I look into a mirror, I ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend cheated and now I don't trust him?
Q. Hiyah, well this is probably gonna be reali confusin n long and you're all gonna think omg when you read it but its worth a go.. I'm 13 and I got with my bf in feb.. at the beginning everything was fine.. I trusted him round other girls and when ...
A. 29 October 2007: I do not mean to be mean, but I have a problem with girls your age. Well, at least with you, you stayed committed and did not break up with you because you "Could not take it anymore." ANYWAY ... If he is going to cheat on you and shit, why bo... (read in full...)
It is hard to be away from her, but she is growing away
Q. What do I do when being away from her is way too much to take? It almost feels like it is not worth the pain. Most of which relates to me being convinced that she is cheating, or wants someone else. Even as I left her today, she acted different. ...
A. 29 October 2007: Well she broke up with me, so that was apparent. Yes, it is for my mom's wishes, however I also wanted to be home schooled. I was hoping I could get back into her public school, however, I doubt that would be the best of ideas right now. Yes she is ... (read in full...)
I still love her and she still loves me...what should I do??
Q. Well, as I feared, she broke up with me. She "Could not do this anymore.". She insured that it was nothing I did, she was "having emotional problems and was in a bad place" as she put it. She does not know if we can be together in the future, ...
A. 29 October 2007: No, I am 15 years old. However, I am not really a kid. I mean, I look like a kid and all, and I do admit my maturity is not on its high, but this relationship was special. I feel as if I added to the problem though, and it could have been avoide... (read in full...)
Is he trying to get us back in a relationship?
Q. I probabaly know the answers here but need some validation from others as well. I was seeing a member of management at my job at the beginning of this year. Well, the people at our work started huge allegations about him and I so we stopped immediat...
A. 27 October 2007: He just wants to let you know he still has you on his mind, and wants the relationship to still be there. If the problems are going down, maybe he is hinting to start it back up again. Either way, it is your decision that counts. ... (read in full...)
My brother would do stuff to me while I would sleep.
Q. So I'm 16 and a few years ago my brother would do....stuff to me at night when he thought I was sleep, and it kept going on because I didn't know what to do. He would make me give him handjobs and blowjobs and he would finger me and stuff. during ...
A. 27 October 2007: Awwh.
I misunderstood. (*Smacks self*)
You see, I would not trust him either. Is there some way of letting some other person look after your niece? If not, you should call in every now and then to check on her. ... (read in full...)
It is hard to be away from her, but she is growing away
Q. What do I do when being away from her is way too much to take? It almost feels like it is not worth the pain. Most of which relates to me being convinced that she is cheating, or wants someone else. Even as I left her today, she acted different. ...
A. 27 October 2007: That is exactly my point. She is WAY over confident in telling me that. So I know she has, at least once, cheated on me. But then again I do not care, as long as she was happy. It just bothers me that she made a huge deal about not cheating on me, ... (read in full...)
How can I go about keeping him?
Q. so i have been dating this guy for about 9 months and everything was going great....he and i both agreed that we didnt want anything too serious at the moment but we wanted to be with each other....but recently he is trying to break up with me cuz ...
A. 27 October 2007: Well you are into this guy now. If you feel up to it, maybe ask him if he does want to move up a notch? Maybe spice things up? Or. if you do not want to go any further, than I would give up. If he wants to be a facktard, then let him. You can find ... (read in full...)
Am I lying to myself, or am I still in love with him?
Q. I've been with my BF for almost 2 years. He is my first love and boyfriend, my first kiss, i lost my virginity to him, bascially he's my first everything. He's dated and had experience in the past which is fine. Anyway, from the moment i met him i ...
A. 27 October 2007: Babe, you are just getting used to him now. It is like with your parents for example. You love them (maybe), but they are quite annoying sometimes. You do not really feel anything when you think about them, you just know that you care about them.
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How can I find out her size?
Q. Please help me with women's clothing sizes. My girlfriend wears a Medium in blouses and tops, but I want to buy her a nice dress without her knowing. I went shopping at the mall and they were listed by numbers like 4-5 and 5-6. What do these ...
A. 27 October 2007: Gah!
I forgot to mention you can find out her size by how much she weighs. If you do not know that, maybe randomly ask her what size she wares and change the subject. That is a tricky question, as almost all women think they are fat and never ad... (read in full...)
How can I find out her size?
Q. Please help me with women's clothing sizes. My girlfriend wears a Medium in blouses and tops, but I want to buy her a nice dress without her knowing. I went shopping at the mall and they were listed by numbers like 4-5 and 5-6. What do these ...
A. 27 October 2007: I know! Same with me!
However, I do know that medium sizes are 4-6. Which make no sense to me, as that is very skinny. Now and days if you are 130 pounds you are obese. What is wrong with todays standards?
If you are not sure, it might b... (read in full...)
How do I participate in 'Christian' sex and satisfy a woamn after marriage?
Q. i really would like to know as to how i can have sex after marriage. there are different styles of having sex this days however what are the right ways or styles of sex that are accepted for a christian couple to practise. please i need any respond ...
A. 27 October 2007: There are endless ways people can have sex. It does not matter what religion, just what you are BOTH into.
For example, she might randomly like being tied up, hanging upside down, tea bagged, and getting anally screwed wile getting candle w... (read in full...)
His looking at porn has brought me out in spots! How do I get over this?
Q. 3 months ago i found out my boyfriend of 7 years whom i lived with was looking at porn, searching for very specificthings (bending over ect) and chatting to girls in chat rooms, and was a member of a sex chat site. Most of...
A. 27 October 2007: Sounds to me, as if you have more of a problem with the sites than him looking at them.
First and foremost, you have every right to get pissed at him for looking at porn sites. Why do that when he has you right there, eh?
To get over it, for... (read in full...)
It is hard to be away from her, but she is growing away
Q. What do I do when being away from her is way too much to take? It almost feels like it is not worth the pain. Most of which relates to me being convinced that she is cheating, or wants someone else. Even as I left her today, she acted different. ...
A. 27 October 2007: But she is my girl, dude. Why after almost a year, would she not be comfortable with me? As for staying home a while and dieing, I have been doing that for a few years. I am home schooled and can only see her one a week ... IF I am lucky. You see, ... (read in full...)
Does the new guy like me, How do I break up with my boyfriend?
Q. Hello there! I've got a little problem. The main thing is that I'm not sure whether this guy I like still likes me or not, but to give you more help, I've decided to tell you the full story (short version). Well, here it is... October 4th, my...
A. 24 October 2007: 1. He might of had a crush on you, but he must have realized that you had a boyfriend by now. Maybe he gave up, maybe not.
2. If you are breaking up with him in hopes to get with this new guy, then do not do it. That is very mean and I am surprise... (read in full...)
We have a relationship and I feel this other woman from miles away who he told me not to worry about in the beginning, is still in the scripts, calling late at night etc.
Q. Dear Cupids My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, (I pat myself on the back) the relationship has been growing very nicely and we are so in love with each other. He has the best qualities i need from a man and he really knows how...
A. 24 October 2007: You have given him plenty of time already. If he is going to have someone else on the side, then you need to throw him to the side. Men who do not commit almost always just want sex. He is getting what he wants, right? So try not having sex with ... (read in full...)
The stars were not in favor of our love... or are they?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 9 months with a woman I have known for years. She is currently gettin divorced,but I started as her friend through the whole thing and then we started gettin serious. I fell in love w her as did she..we both ...
A. 24 October 2007: What?
She is getting divorced. When she is divorced, start your relationship again. If I were you, I would do something about her husband. If he is not treating her right, stand up for her. I do not know the full story so I can not help you out ... (read in full...)
I told him I wanted a serious relationship, yet showed him I'm physically attracted to him.
Q. The man that i had a serious disagreement before two weeks called me again. I had decided not call him again and i was very disappointed about the way that he spoke to me before two weeks because it seemed that he wasn't really interested in me. Now ...
A. 24 October 2007: Slow down baby girl!
Take one step at a time.
What you did was fine, just receive the call and keep being yourself. After words, when you both know each other better, ask him about a more serious relationship. Until then, just enjoy the time y... (read in full...)
I have pleanty of offers, but it's her I want.
Q. i'd been with this girl for bout a year im 30 she's 22 and a little stunner!! she moved in almost immediately cos She lived at her Nan and Grandads(who were v nice people and liked me) as most of her family seemed to use each other and back stab and ...
A. 24 October 2007: Well, it all comes down to the matter of that one night stand. She did, after all, break up with you. You had every right to do whatever you wanted. So do not feel bad about that. It sounds to me, she just really misses the sex. Not you ... (read in full...)
Why am I stubborn about communicating?
Q. I haven't talked to my bf since Sunday night. We've been going out for 1 year 8 months and lately we've been getting into little arguements that usually get resolved. My bf got mad the other day because he thought I was lying to him, or rather ...
A. 24 October 2007: Why would someone wait this long to answer this question?
Anyway, I do have some advice for you.
Just wait until does call/ text you and ask him to talk to your parents. Then he can find out for himself that they would not let you go with him.... (read in full...)
Break up or go on with this doubt.
Q. Dear Cupid my bf broke up with his gf before he met me. at least thats what he said. they broke up because the girl dont trust him as he is coming to the university which we both are studying in right now. the x gf is back at his home town. he...
A. 24 October 2007: Instead of going on with doubt, why not ask him? Ask him if he would stop seeing her. If he broke up with her, and made a commitment to you, he should stay committed. Either that, or ask him if he still loves her. You can ultimately decide for ... (read in full...)
My brother would do stuff to me while I would sleep.
Q. So I'm 16 and a few years ago my brother would do....stuff to me at night when he thought I was sleep, and it kept going on because I didn't know what to do. He would make me give him handjobs and blowjobs and he would finger me and stuff. during ...
A. 24 October 2007: Holly shit girl!
You are in trouble, you let it happen too long. Now that you like it, it is going to be hard to stop. Do NOT give that pig what he wants. He wants you to want him to do that shit to you. Do you really want this to turn into som... (read in full...)
He doesn't even know that I exist!
Q. I am 14 and in the begining of this school year I had a serious crush on a guy, i saw him on the Grade 9 orientation day, he looked really cute, I liked him immediatly after I saw him. He looks like he is in his early teens, no more than 15 or 16 ...
A. 24 October 2007: You are going to have to let him go. If he is in the twelfth grade and does not even know you, there is little you can do. Crushes come and go, and if you let him go, you can develop another crush, maybe one you could pursue. Either that, or try ... (read in full...)
How can I make him leave me alone?
Q. i dont know what to do at the minute, i broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago, because he was over protective of me, and i didn't like it, but yesterday night i was drinkin with friends and he decided to threaten some guys that i was ...
A. 24 October 2007: Also, he should know that you can make your own decisions. He does not need to interfere with your life anymore.... (read in full...)
How can I make him leave me alone?
Q. i dont know what to do at the minute, i broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago, because he was over protective of me, and i didn't like it, but yesterday night i was drinkin with friends and he decided to threaten some guys that i was ...
A. 24 October 2007: Simple. Ask him to leave you alone, completely. If he does not, you should get a restraining order. If you do not want to go through all of that trouble, just bluff and tell him you will get one. Then, if he continues, and you do not want to be ... (read in full...)
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