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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: Best of Luck to you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy and sick for thinking my boyfriend is getting off with my kid's underwear?
Q. Hello I am very disturbed right now and need to get some feed back. Maybe I am crazy. I have been dating this guy for almost three years. Certain times I get the feeling that he has a sick sexual side. Besides the fact that we have major issues a...
A. 25 July 2008: I believe your onto something. What makes you crazy is trying to deny or justify another answer coming with the feelings your getting. His attitute and jumpy behavior alone explains there is something going on. You've noticed a change in his ... (read in full...)
UPDATE- we fight a lot, but could it still work?
Q. Hi, I just had a break up, my boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We still have feelings for each other,but we have been fighting a lot. I have now figured out that the fighting has mostly but not always been because of me. I am insecure and ...
A. 25 July 2008: All you can do is continue doing what you're doing. Working on yourself will show the difference by your changes. It's a process, not a quick fix. It's not his ego, it's feeling as if their is a possability of entering a situation which was not good ... (read in full...)
I want to talk to my children... any idea what to do, and what legal actions can I take?
Q. so here is the situation my kids live in another state with there dad, MY X boyfriend. I left in order to get my life together. Before I left I was not able to see my kids he would give me ultimatums like sleep with me or you can't see your kids, ...
A. 25 July 2008: First of all you have every right to talk to your kids. You pay child support, so there must be an order of visitation in place.
Asking you for money in exchange for talking to your kids, and asking you to sleep with him in exchange for visi... (read in full...)
He's a great father and I don't want to lose him!
Q. I did have a talk with him last night and he said he wants to be with, he just wants all the fightin to stop.BUt see he has a kid from a previous marriage and it is very hard getting along with his ex. HE always does what she wants over me, and it ...
A. 24 July 2008: If you could expand a bit more on what's going on, that would be appreciated. Also, what are you seeking advice about. Your comment isn't direct to what you are seeking to be advised on.... (read in full...)
What's the best way to leave my rageful husband?
Q. i am 24 and have been married for almost 5 years. things were wonderful for the 5 months before the wedding, but afterward, everything went to chaos. he goes through these frequent periods of what i can only assume to be depression (sinc...
A. 23 July 2008: It's great to hear your moving toward being safe. While free from this situation I want you to work hard on building yourself back up. Recaliming what he'd taken away with his anger, and the impact that has on you.
Build yourself to be the stro... (read in full...)
I don't think my mom loves me anymore...
Q. Hi. My mother fights me all the time. When I'm around she snickers at every word I say and rolls her eyes at me. I had to stay with her for a couple of weeks and she yelled at me for using the toilet paper I bought, tells me to do dishes and ...
A. 23 July 2008: Advice should be something you're open too. That is, if she learns to provide it in a constructive manner. I'd say, no taking the kids, unless she can share time equally between them both. So, what took place 4 years ago to cause her behavior to ... (read in full...)
Should I leave her alone now that she is free from my ignorance?
Q. My ex girlfriend of almost five years and I just recently broke up. We had a rocky relationship, that was mostly due to my taking her for granted. I always had a problem telling her that "I love you", i don't know why. I truly do love her, and ...
A. 22 July 2008: It's not a matter of being beyond repair. Maybe you are, and maybe you arent. Being honest is a good first step. Asking her for her forgiveness is a good second start. Tell her, not that your asking for a second chance, but because of your ... (read in full...)
Should I leave her alone now that she is free from my ignorance?
Q. My ex girlfriend of almost five years and I just recently broke up. We had a rocky relationship, that was mostly due to my taking her for granted. I always had a problem telling her that "I love you", i don't know why. I truly do love her, and ...
A. 22 July 2008: You recognize your ignorance. Now that you're being honest with yourself, try being honest with her.... (read in full...)
My husband left me, and I want him back. I don't know what else to do.
Q. Help. My husband of 13 years just left and but we have been together for almost 20 years. He has been gone for about 4 months now. I don't even remember what started this. Just an argument, and then he starts saying he doesn't know if he wants ...
A. 21 July 2008: I don't know how he can do that. Have you thought about the possability of a mid life crisis? It's my belief people should treasure marriage, and grow together throught the good and difficult times.
I'm not saying you lack intelligence. I have chil... (read in full...)
I'm alone and hurting badly...how do I keep myself from falling so fast?
Q. Im 34 years old, single and gay. I have been reading these letters and responses regarding falling in love so easily and getting hurt. I have always had this problem, when I meet a guy, and he would show some interest, I immediately fall oh so ...
A. 20 July 2008: I agree with the other poster. You need to take a step back and figure out what is causing all this. What I see is you desire not to be along, and have a relationship that you're willing to accept what people say as truth, and not telling you what ... (read in full...)
I feel like my wife's insecurities are preventing me from having friends!
Q. This is a question about making friends wrapped up with a relationship question. My wife and I have been together about ten years, though we were only married recently. We are about to move to a new city where we will both start grad school. ...
A. 20 July 2008: Which treatment did you use for depression. I have major depressive disorder. I take meds, but still just hang around and really not do much. I'm introverted, but as long as my kids are around, hanging out, I don't seek other relationships.
T... (read in full...)
He told me to leave him alone and stay away. I haven't heard a word for a week. Should I wait?
Q. don't know what to do here. the man i've been sleeping with for four years jusy recently cursed me out like a dog for coming down to his told me to leave him alone and to stay away from him. i in turn sent him a letter saying i was sorry for making ...
A. 20 July 2008: Your not in the wrong for going there to discuss it. He's completely in the wrong for the way he talked to you. Not a nice person, and extremely disrespectful.
I agree you need assistance in building your self esteem. If I were you, after the way ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to leave my rageful husband?
Q. i am 24 and have been married for almost 5 years. things were wonderful for the 5 months before the wedding, but afterward, everything went to chaos. he goes through these frequent periods of what i can only assume to be depression (sinc...
A. 20 July 2008: Should you wait until September? NO! Get out immediately. You should not have to endure this behavior any more. You've done so long enough. There comes a time when the only option is to call it quits, without hesitating at all. Staying until ... (read in full...)
He told me to leave him alone and stay away. I haven't heard a word for a week. Should I wait?
Q. don't know what to do here. the man i've been sleeping with for four years jusy recently cursed me out like a dog for coming down to his told me to leave him alone and to stay away from him. i in turn sent him a letter saying i was sorry for making ...
A. 20 July 2008: Is this just someone you've been seeing, or do you have a serious relationship with? Where did you go, which upset him? A bit more information about the type of relationship you had with him would be helpful. Thanks.... (read in full...)
My ex is always around but my fiancee wont let me even say hi!
Q. I feel in love for the first time at a young age. I was probably around 13. Everyone said it was puppy love and it'd go away. We dated for 4 years and he turned out to be everything I didn't want in life. So I left him in 2003. And I started dating ...
A. 20 July 2008: First of all, it's not okay for your fiance to control who you can and can't talk too. That is wrong. What else is wrong is allowing an ex-fiance to kiss you while your with someone else.
It's okay to keep communication with someone. You must thou... (read in full...)
Am I right to resent my stepdad?
Q. hi, me and my step dad really dont get on, for a start he always gets jelous when i spend time with my mum and moans when i ask her to do something for me... he uses drugs and never contributes to the house, hed rather do drugs...we argue all the...
A. 19 July 2008: Why would you be in the wrong for resenting someone who's been brought into the family and is assumingly not doing what's right for the family?
You are your moms child and always have the right to a full mother daughter relationship. His inte... (read in full...)
I need a second opinion on this guy who gave me relationship advice!
Q. hi i am a bit confused at the moment and was after a second opinion on this guy i have been writing to this man who gives relationship advice so i thought i would paste the questions i have asked him in here and then you could quickly skim them and ...
A. 19 July 2008: I want to know, what do you feel deep down, the part that really settles in your gut when you think about this. That would be your true feeling of what you should do. Think about it. Feeling without thought is true. Thought contradicts feelings but ... (read in full...)
I'm frustrated with my boyfriend's low libido. Help!
Q. Hi, I'm writing about my boyfriend's sex drive. I'm slightly too impatient to weed through all the others so sorry if you have answered this 100 times before. ^^ We have been together for 2 1/2 years. Like most couples, when we started, we had ...
A. 19 July 2008: Just because stress affects you one way. He may be affected quite differently. For instance, I have predominately non-attentive ADHD. With this form, I have a major inability to produce aggressive behaviors. Instead, in situations where others may ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he really has sincere reasons for not trying harder to get me into bed?
Q. I met someone online about six months ago. we live in different cities (few thousand miles apart). he visits my city for work every 2 mths or so. i finally agreed to meet him for drinks. i liked him. i had no clue what he thought but he called two ...
A. 19 July 2008: U must be use to guys who just want to jump in the sack. It could be that he sees something real with you. Seeing something real causes some to take everything slow. Wanting the first time together to be special and not just "lets do it".
There are ... (read in full...)
People say I can get any guy I want but..
Q. I can never get a real boyfriend. It seems like I can only sleep with any guy I want, but I dont want that. I want a relationship but guys just want me for sex and nothing else. I dont get it Im tall, thin (people say I look like a model) smart and ...
A. 19 July 2008: People aren't seeing you as you see yourself. Guys who see "model" beauty sometimes see a girl who's out of their league.
Look at the term "you can have any guy you want". That's great, but to the guy, they get attached, you find someone bett... (read in full...)
If a guy is scared of commitment and falling in love, how long does it take for them to snap out of it?
Q. I think that my boyfriend is falling for me, because he freaked out and began pulling away. I tried to talk to him, but he didn't want to talk about it. Now I don't know what to do. Should I just give him time and ignore him, and if I give him space ...
A. 19 July 2008: People are generally afraid of falling in love because of being hurt. I hear so many people who associate "love" with "pain".
This is usually a learned trait. Who hurt him? Did he loose someone he loved? (this could include friend or family as well... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going to lose me soon if he doesn't change his act. Any words of advice or encouragement?
Q. Dear Readers, Im 16 and i think im pregnate . "i think". but i think my boyfriend is cheating on me, with some trick, i try and ask him he just gets mad. i dont understand why he wants to or is cheating cause i make love to him almost every...
A. 19 July 2008: You keep saying, me, me, me, me. That's all good, but in a relationship it seems a bit one sided. Stop saying who does he come too. Start saying who allows him to come too. You may love him, but love is not an excuse to allow someone to treat you ... (read in full...)
My husband left me, and I want him back. I don't know what else to do.
Q. Help. My husband of 13 years just left and but we have been together for almost 20 years. He has been gone for about 4 months now. I don't even remember what started this. Just an argument, and then he starts saying he doesn't know if he wants ...
A. 19 July 2008: What comes to mind first is, although he leaves then comes back and plays this little game, adultry is still adultry. I feel as if he may be playing two sides. Telling you he's coming back, and telling the other one he's left you.
I also feel as i... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that he's making me feel sad, upset, angry and threatened?
Q. ok so i have this ex boyfriend (justin), we dated for a while but it was a on again off again thing, the last time we broke up (about 120 days ago) it was because he cheated on me, i felt like he was saying i wasnt good enough and it put me in a ...
A. 19 July 2008: Even being younger, you must know guys are not always what they seem. Do you have a feeling he may be with someone else? That would explain his withdrawing from you. It would also explain his behavior in being mean. He cheated on you and said sorry ... (read in full...)
When I was young, I touched my little sister...
Q. I've done something really bad. When I was young I touched my little sister. She was sleeping. I know I did something real wrong. Is there anything I could do about this? I've made a lot of mistakes and I wish I would have never done...
A. 18 July 2008: This guilt needs to no longer follow you. You were at the age between hanging out with the boys and really noticing the differences and why boys like girls. It was the experimental phase. I had that phase as well. I didn't have a sister, but mom ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I have an STD and that he may have it as well?
Q. Hi everyone. I have a serious issue. I just found out that I have HPV which is human papaloma virus in laymens terms. I have genital warts. I don't know from whom or even when I got them since It can take up to 5 to 10 years for the warts to show ...
A. 16 July 2008: I don't know much about HPV. I hope this helps you out. I pulled it off the net for you.
Key Points About HPV:
HPV (human papillomavirus) is a common virus that infects the skin and mucous membranes.
There are about 100 types of HPV. Approx... (read in full...)
How do I let go of this relationship once and for all, get my confidence back, and just love my new boyfriend even though he doesn't have any money and neither do i?
Q. I broke up with my abusive ex boyfriend 9 months ago. I went in debt living with him because he made me pay for groceries when i didn't have the money to. i wasn't helping pay his mortgage on a house he had owned long before he met me, so he thought ...
A. 15 July 2008: First of all, you can't just love your boyfriend, and expect all to be well. You need to work on yourself and getting back to a high level of self before any of what you want to take place will begin falling into place.
Wanting to become an actre... (read in full...)
She won't talk to me, and I found emails to her ex. Is she using this as revenge?
Q. me and my girl friend had a love relation for about 2 years... we used to have small fights but inside we loved each other.. i knew about her ex boy friend we had couple of fights related to him as well.. we are in love with each other in deep ...
A. 15 July 2008: You'd abuse her? That's bad....If you claim to love her, that's how you treat her, not the opposite. She'd act the way you hated. Of course, she knew it'd bother you. What you do is not let it, then she would have no reason to behave that way.
L... (read in full...)
My BF and I are happy together but I can't help thinking about my ex lover at times (he is married and still cheating his wife)...
Q. as I have posted here before, i fell in love with a married man who had two affairs out of marriage before with me. He said he was only serious about me and he seriously planned to divorce for me, he actually did ask her wife to agree to divorce, ...
A. 15 July 2008: You'd been played. He's with another one now. I bet he's saying "She's the only one" too and getting her hopes up for a future which is not going to happen.
He's not going to leave his wife. Were you there when he asked for divorce and she deni... (read in full...)
My friend gets picked on by other kids but when I told the principal he got beaten up, he got mad at me. What would you have done?
Q. My friend is being picked on all the time by the "popular" kids .He told me not to tell anyone. One day he got beaten up so badly that I couldn't take it anymore and I told the principal. The bullying has stop but you think my friend would be happy ...
A. 15 July 2008: I'm sure in a way. Your ages play a big factor as well. Some would rather be beat up than called a snitch. But, from your end, you're trying to protect your friend. That holds value as well.
It's difficult being younger with some of the deci... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my cousin touching me inappropriately...what should I do?
Q. I'm 14, almost 15. I'm very close to my cousins, and I often go to their house and spend the night. I usually stay in the same room with 2 of them cause theirs not enough space. In the beginning of this year, one cousin thats my age started touching ...
A. 13 July 2008: First realize this isn't your fault, and you don't deserve at any time to be violated.
Since you won't tell anyone, it's going to be up to you. You need to stand up for yourself. You have absolute right over your body and what you allow to happ... (read in full...)
Would he love me more if I was in a porn film?
Q. If your boyfriend watches Internet porn should you film an internet porn film of yourself? My boyfriend watches porn, even though he thinks I don't know it. He goes on the internet, and he consistently lies about going on the porn sites, even thou...
A. 13 July 2008: This isn't about him, it's about you. How do you feel about porn? How do you feel about his hiding this obsession? Are you willing to compromise yourself to please your boyfriend? If not, why are you allowing him to request you do so?
You are your... (read in full...)
Men, can you recount about your relationships with younger females?
Q. Older men (i.e. 30 and up)...have you ever considered a relationship with a significantly younger female? (I am not asking for petafiles to respond.) Did you pursue the relationship? If so, what convinced you to? If not, what were the rea...
A. 13 July 2008: Thought about it, didn't do it, I'm 37, too old and doubt I could keep up. It would be a detriment to them. ... (read in full...)
Should we go to separate psychiatrists and then go to a marriage counsellor?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 24 1/2 years. It has been getting rough recently. It has been building for quite a while though. I was almost killed in an automobile accident 7 1/2 years ago. I have recovered but still have quite a few ...
A. 13 July 2008: I believe staying together is a positive method. Separating, signifies what it says. By doing so it's much harder to bring the pieces back together as a whole.
First, I want to say, this problem is not a "marital" issue. None of them really are,... (read in full...)
Unexpected pregnancy when I only know him for 6 weeks, he'd respect my decision but I can tell he would prefer abortion, help?!
Q. I have been dating a really great guy for 6 weeks. We are both in our 30's and divorced and we are both making decent money. He has a child and I have children. We have had a wonderful time together and are very compatible so far. My youngest ...
A. 13 July 2008: It's always a gamble. I believe a child is about the child and not really about the situation. I'm a single parent. I'm raising two children and have two others who I love dearly and see often. I feel blessed for every one of them, and they have all ... (read in full...)
My friend gets picked on by other kids but when I told the principal he got beaten up, he got mad at me. What would you have done?
Q. My friend is being picked on all the time by the "popular" kids .He told me not to tell anyone. One day he got beaten up so badly that I couldn't take it anymore and I told the principal. The bullying has stop but you think my friend would be happy ...
A. 12 July 2008: He's mad because he's the one this is happening to. You tell, he gets it worse. It's kind of like "toss him to the dogs."
Why are they picking on him? Is he that different? A bit nerdy? Too nice? Gets all the girls? or Leaving himself to open for ... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to send her the money to file for a divorce. What do you think?
Q. Hi there, two weeks ago I posted my concern at "dearcupid". It was about my thai wife who got pregnant from a Thai man. Yesterday she sent me an email to let me know that she is going to divorce me. Thus I got to call her up. She claimed that she...
A. 12 July 2008: She wants to file for divorce and meet with an attorney, those are her expenses. You're not responsable for paying her bills. We each take responsability for our own actions. Her actions in filing for divorce, her pocket book in paying for the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend tells me how beautiful I am to him, I think otherwise, please help me, how do I see myself in a positive way?
Q. hi evryone ok i need guys opinions and possibly girls my bf tells me i have a amazing body but i dont see it i have no hips no curves no waist no boobs its very boyish and athletic more athletic i just dont understand y he loves my body so much ...
A. 12 July 2008: In society who came up with the idea of what the perfect body should look like? Did you think maybe he enjoyes being with you because you are you? Do you find it wrong that he finds you beautiful?
We have a society that has made up this look thro... (read in full...)
My best friend won't get help over losing a baby. What can I do?
Q. please help nothing is working!! I posted here yesterday about my friend who lost a baby his time last year - her boyfriend of 3 years moved back home to tunisia about 1 month a go she only told me about losing the baby yesterday! I rea...
A. 12 July 2008: If she's going down in the direction of doing something to herself, I'd betray her trust. Ask her, truthfully, if this happened to you, would she toss you asside or wrap you up and try to help you.
You need to understand the difficulty in tryi... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 July 2008: Hasn't your solicitor heard of a continuance. You have the right to be hard in all matters of law.
After these decisions are made, do you have a higher court to appeal the ruling of a lower court? I don't believe your solicitor did a job the best... (read in full...)
Am I reading more into this FWB relationship? I'm seeing some signs...
Q. I am in involved with a FWB, but when we are having sex he makes constant eye contact with me or starring at me and cuddles (I’m generally not the cuddle type), also whn we have spent the night together, sleeps holding on to me like I was going to ...
A. 11 July 2008: It's okay to experience some friendly attachment for a friends with benefits. He sounds like a bit of a romantic. Some people are the cuddle type and some are not.
Is he that bad of a guy to no seek more with at some point? Asside from just the... (read in full...)
When I was young, I touched my little sister...
Q. I've done something really bad. When I was young I touched my little sister. She was sleeping. I know I did something real wrong. Is there anything I could do about this? I've made a lot of mistakes and I wish I would have never done...
A. 8 July 2008: how's your relationship with your sister now?
I know this was wrong, and you're regreting some things you've done in the past. How old were you when this incident happened? Is this something she has been or is aware of happening? How long has... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Sounds like you're doing better, as a manner of speaking. Your right it doesn't look good to the judge to drag out court.
Just a bit of warning. Seeing someone prior to the end of the divorce can be used in court as well. Legal marriage, is lega... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 June 2008: That's what you need to concentrate on. As far as his taking the solicitor out to lunch and such. Violation of ethics. People here get their licenses taken away or suspended for those behaviors.
Keep a calendar of all issues. Everytime he cance... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 May 2008: If you can establish proof of his dating his solicitor, that should establish a conflict of interest, which would pull her off the case, and may cause issues with her ability to continue law.
I woulnd't accept less than what you feel you dese... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 May 2008: If he seeks an injunction, a hearing should be set to answer to it. If his calls were done by home phone, have your phone company pull a copy of those records which show his phone calls to you. If they are done by cell phone, your bill should ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2008: I know this is hard for you to deal with. Working with people who have been through divorce and seeing the after affects, it's heart breaking. I can't figure out your question either of how someone can act or live as if they love and care for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 19 April 2008: The first piece of advice anyone one law gives is to not speak to the other person. Speak through your legal professionals. Reason being, "anything you say can be used against you in court." Couples who split up can get into some heated arguments. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm glad everything is working out for you. I can see where your solicitor is coming from. I'm in law as well and hoping to begin in family law. My two big pet peeves in family law are adultry and any lack of responsability on the best interest of ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2008: First of all, make sure you file your response within the time the court has allowed, it's generall (at least here) 30 days from the date you receive the paperwork. Remember too, the response, if you do it prior to meeting with the solicitor, i... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2008: Great, have your son contact me on here, I'll let him know you give your permission to toss your phone in the river.
Let me ask you this. If you didn't have your phone, would that stop you, or would you find another way?
Do you believe life... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Your doing what's right. I hope your strength keeps building. I know it's hard sometimes around the holidays to be alone. Before I got custody of my children. I would eat Christmas dinner alone at a diner. But other than that, being alone was OK. I ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: I am soooo glad to hear you are moving on with your life. It's better for you and your son. You don't want him growing up imitating his dad's behavior. You are a wonderful person and someone who really loves their child and plans to put him first. I ... (read in full...)
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