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female
age
41-50,
*auren50
writes:Hi, I am 32 and totally in love with a 50 year old unhappily married man. We fell in love completely by mistake and I would have prevented it, but it just happened without my realizing and then I tried to deny it for a long time. I have been separated from a 10 year marriage for 3 months. (did not leave my husband for this married man by the way) I haved only ever been with my husband and married as a "next step", we were graduating college and were good friends. I know, wrong reasons! We have a 2 year old and are friends and he is a great dad. Anyway, the man i am in love with was my boss, up until April when I was promoted. He is incredible and we have a strong, undeniable connection. I know I am headed for probable heartache and I wish I could have prevented this. He is on his 3rd marriage which has only lasted 2.5 years as his wife was pregnant and that is why they married. He is planning to leave her, however she first needs a job and a place to live which she is working on now. He is just one of those people that thought he was marrying the right person, but did it to keep from being lonely etc. I know how it sounds and it is a long story, but we have a wonderful relationship that was built on a very strong unexpected friendship and connection that just happened. Please help me! I am dying inside.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 July 2008):
 I don't understand why you are dying inside. He's leaving his wife and she looking for a new job and a place to live. So it's just a matter of time and logistics, right? Or is he just giving you a load of bull crap and you know it?
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