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writes: Hi,I feel that my girlfriend and I may be getting newr to the point of having sex. However not having had sex before I am unsure of what best to do leading up to it. I'm almost certian that we both want sex it's j ust neither of us have the confidence to reach that level without the other initiating it. Lets just say we were together in a big group of people outside somewhere and we get a few minutes where it is just the two of us. How could I take it from there to a room somewhere and eventually to sex.Thanks very much
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): Enjoy the hugging, kissing and cuddling; leave the sex for later; you will both know when the time is right; do not rush into sex; specially not a first time; for a first time, you will need LOTS of time;lots of planning and preparation; you need to discuss this and avoid having unprotected sex, oh and take care of things such as birht controll;
I SUGGEST:
Patience, patience, patience; be comfortable with each other; relax, enjoy the relationship;
DON'T just focus on wanting to have sex!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 First tell us how old are you?
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