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writes:Why are older women so reluctant do date young guys? I've been trying to get an older women for two months now I've gotten NOWHERE. I've never had problems getting girlfriends my own age, but whenever I hit on a woman in her 30's or 40's she doesn't take me seriously or says "You're just a baby!" Or even worse are the women that tease you; they pretend their interested but when I ask for their number she giggles and runs away. This is soooo frustrating and I'm just wondering how to get older women to take me seriously.P.S. I want a real relationship, not just sex. A couple women offered to be friends with benifits, but that's not what I want. Reply to this Question
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reader, mr.blacklove87 +, writes (5 March 2009):
Dude you have to let go of your childish behaviors first but still keep one quality that us 21 and under still have and thats creativity and youth once she see
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for answering.I don't know why I like older women. Maybe it's cause they're better conversationalists. Or perhaps it's because they're more mature and confident.
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (25 November 2008):
I am an older woman (in my late 30s) and the last couple of men I have been involved with have been a lot younger (ie in their 20s/early 30s).
Usually at work older women find younger men they work around attractive so maybe look there!
I'm sure most women would be flattered - but then there is the question will you still find them attractive in 5 or 10 years time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): Ussualy it's impossible for a woman in her 40's to look on a young boy your age as ligitimate partner in life for serious relationship. I am in my early forties, I wasn't approached by guys your age for quite a bit now. But when I am approached by a guy younger he is ussually at least in his thirties. Also, there is ussually a child close to your age, so we tend to look at guys like you as children. My question is why do you want to be with older woman?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): as an older women, i've been hit on younger guys.
The youngest being 21. I gave it a chance but in the end ..it doesn't work out because we are way two mature and you are at two different levels at your life.
I say if you are interested in older women..date someone older no more than 5 years. More than that, there will be a lot of issues that the relationship gets very complicated. Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): There are a lot of women out there who love being with younger men! I went through a phase when all I dated were younger men! My 16 year marriage was to a man 7 years younger than me. Age is a state of mind, it's only numbers. Keep searching. And keep the numbers out of the equation...just search for the love of your life, no matter what her age!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 November 2008):
 Well keep plugging away, you're bound strike gold sooner or later.
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