Is he just playing us both?

A female age 36-40, *orever_His writes:

So it's only been 2 months since my boyfriend and I broke up. He is the love of my life, my first boyfriend. HE means the world to me. I am still very close with his mom and dad. So close that although he is seeing someone else right now, that they want me to come over for Thanksgiving dinner even if he's not there. I am going. Well my ex came over this morning to get some stuff and I asked him why he told me he loves me and misses me but then this new gf called me and said that he's happy. He has not once said that he's happy with her. Well when he came over this morning, we just talked although he is with this skank but it needed to be done. He said that he would see me at his parents' house for Thanksgiving. well when I told him that his dad is the one who invited me over, he said " I know, he did it for a reason." He always promised me that he would better himself for us. I brought that up this morning and his exact words were "I haven't broke that promise yet." So I really don't understand what he wants. Because like I said, he is dating someone else, but that he's trying to find another job behind her back. So is he just playing us both? Let me remind you that we were together for a year. This guy still means the world to me, especially because he is the one who took my virginity. I just want to be with him again and it's like he wants us both, but I don't know.

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