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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2022): Nooo, I really don't. Virgins are soooooo bad at sex. Sure, it could be fun to teach someone, but who has time for that? They are usually very confused and can't even communicate what they want and like without blushing and stuttering like mad, or they simply don't know the terminology. And the sickos who say that they like it because they're easy to take advantage of are gross. It would really freak me out to do that to a poor girl, like that's really morally ambiguous... Basically, I prefer girls who have experience, know what they want in bed and instantly tell me if they don't like something I'm doing, cause consent is really important to me.
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reader, yogi  +, writes (25 December 2009):
in general men like virgins...men feel that its their right to deserve a pure untouched woman and i agree...on the other hand the men on the bottom of the food chain who only settle for what they can get will take the left overs but eventually still have a primal urge to have a virgin and will cheat because they were never satsified in the first place.
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reader, cathay +, writes (9 March 2009):
 it depends with the kind of guy. some men want you as a virgin, som dont, some dont even care about it. so my advice is check what kind of a man e is
Cathy.........
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reader, orangejuice24 +, writes (2 February 2009):
i agree with michaelS2. i am a virgin and for me i want my first time to be with a virgin becauseit would be special for both of us because we would love each other
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): i actually think that virginity adds more value to a woman (respect),that is like the only gift as women, that could be given ones in a life time. Any guy who does not appreciate that virtue is not worth it.............
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): I had this conversation with my frends the other day and some of my male frends said that they prefer experienced women because they have more fun and the other said that they perfer virgins because they're learning and don't know anything so in other words they take advantage of a girl who is confused...smh!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): It may be hard to believe judging by this thread, but some men like virgins just for normal non-twisted reasons.
I am a virgin in my 20s. I just want a woman who is as choosy and valued it as much as I have all these years. I have given up a lot of fun to stay this way and it has been partly for my wife's lifetime emotional benefit. So I think I deserve to be able to ask for the same thing from a wife.
I don't care anything about breaking a hymen. (In fact it sounds like a very unpleasant way to spoil the mood the first time.) I just care about her character and self-control and life experiences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): One word answer. Yes.
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reader, roadman  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 I personally like a car with a few miles on the clock..Its said an engine runs better once run in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Depends on the type of virgins and the type of guys.From my point of view (of a 26 year old male virgin :D) ... before I decide whether I like a particular virgin, there are some questions that need answers:1. How old is she?2. Is there a special motivation? Moral values (not necessarily this sort of *argumentation*: "in the bible is written that's a sin to forn*cate")? Scared of pregnancy, STDs? Something else?3. Physical characteristics?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Of course men like virgins.. there the first and virgin girls are better because they haven't been sleeping around and less able to catch std's.
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Men seek virgins because of the following insecurities:
1. They will be the first and this makes them instantly the best you have ever had. This is an ego boost to them.
2. A virgins vagina will typically be tighter and so it makes a small penis feel big.
Thats really all there is too it. This only applies to men who go out their way for a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): some men prefer virgin only.to them breaking hymen is something conquering and a torn bloodridden womanhood is thrilling.though virginity should be respected and treated with care and love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): Most guys only do because they think the sex will be better the first few times. After that you are thrown out and they will look for the next "virgin." Other guys like virgins because they don't want to worry about STDs and they don't want to end up with someone who has a different guy every night.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): No. They usually giggle and titter and won't put out. . . . .
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Sigh...another ambiguous polling question....
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reader, Sangoma  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 That answer can be answered with history books. Eish, they think that is the "prize" they get. Yes, over the years it is important to menn from all cultures. Some will just admit it more then others. Some will say, oh, it does not matter but aikona, in there heart that is what they would like. Not to say they will love you less if not a virgin, but yes, inside they will be happy and feel very proud. You ask the question because you are not sure what to do? Think carefully before you give the "prize"to just anybody. He must be worht it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): yes. They are untainted
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 MEN LOVE VIRGINS... !!
Trust me on that.. !! There is nothing like having sex with a virgin.. !! It's just Awesome.. !!
She is Tight, confused and lets you do everything you want.. !!
G'day
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reader, MichaelS2 +, writes (3 January 2009):
 I'm a virgin and I know I don't want my first time to be with a girl that has slept around a lot.
Later in life,Men want women that haven't slept around.
I'd say men like virgins because if they do have sex with them than they are extremely special to that individual
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Definitely, virgins are women to be appreciated. If I find one, I'll marry her right away.Even Allah promises 73 huge breasted virgins in heaven for followers who died in jihad or a war for the cause of Islam. Do men like virgins? I don't need to be a mujahadeen to answer that question.The Old Testament bible, Deutoronomy even emphazises that the Israelite groom must find a virgin bride. On the first night of their wedding he must show proof afterwards that his bride's virginity. Do men like virgins? I don't need to be a Torah believer to answer that question.When you shop at the grocery like mayo and other food stuffs, you do check the package for its genuineness. Often times, you see a label - Do not accept when seal is broken. When buying bottles of medicines and vitamins, you do check if its tamper resistant. Do men like virgins? I don't need to be a shopper to answer that question.Virginity is a huge plus factor and highly appreciated. But in a relationship, virgin or not will do for as long there is Love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): I am curious to hear a reply from a guy who says he doesn't like virgins.Let's see.
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reader, pietry  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 There are a lot of variety of men around. I know men that don't want to go out with virgins because they lack experience and can't satisfy them too well and I know men that just appreciate a girl for her innocence and her self respect. But I believe the first kind of men are looking for a woman to satisfy them as for the second kind are looking for a woman to be more spiritually involved and perhaps more on the long term.
Virginity is a natural status of a woman and it's nothing to be ashamed of it's actually more respectable and some men really appreciate it ( not as in to take it away from her but her as a human being/woman and what she means for herself and for them )
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reader, MichaelS2 +, writes (3 January 2009):
I am 18 years old and from the states as well.I know when I get married I don't want my wife to have slept with 300 people but at the same time I wouldn't be upset if she slept with a few.
I'm a virgin and I want my first time to be with someone I love or truly care about.If you think about it,All men love easy girls when they are young but when they grow older they don't want them as wives.
So I'd say men like virgins,but aren't upset if you have had sex with a small amount of partners.
But when your number of partners is extremely high,men are turned off.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 January 2009):
Some men do some men don't.
Good Luck!! xx
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