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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (30 December 2008):
hun when she is 16 you will probably be with someone else. you can't wait around for her, she will probably be into someone else anyway. just forget about her and move on with someone your own age. you know when you quoted that she was in year 7 and not primary school, well it made me laugh...because year 7 is only a year out of primary school. i remember seeing yr 7 girls when i was in year 11 and they used to carry around their barbie lunchboxes and still look like they belonged in little school. you are fancying a child! it's not right. get over it! you may not like me calling her a child, but she is not a teenager or a adult yet. can't you understand how wrong that is. seriously leave her alone and forget about her.
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reader, Anonny +, writes (29 December 2008):
Yes eleven is WAY too young for both her or you to think about a relationship!!
Also - you need to take a reality check! - There are many men in prison today, who are there for dating children who were a lot older than eleven - BEWARE!!
Try coming back to her in 5 years time!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhang onn here she is in year 7, not primary school!
im in year 11 nerly leaving school to go to college.
But i agree, i shouldn't jump in! i was just looking for reasurance. However, i think i might wait until she is old enough at least 16?
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reader, miss.bexii +, writes (29 December 2008):
 the age difference is not the problem, its the fact that shes too young, wait until you are both older x
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (29 December 2008):
leave her alone. she is way too young to even think about a boyfriend. gosh when i was her age i was still riding my bike and playing with barbies. you need to stick to girls your own age! after all you will be classed as a legal sexual person when you reach 16, so if you end up dating an 11 year old and things go further you will be reported for rape of a minor and end up in prison. it's not worth it. leave her alone, she is a child!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): You may need to seek help. You are in year 11 right? or maybe 10. Near the end of your school life. She is in primary school. Do you understand how wrong that sounds? I don't care how immature you may be or how 'mature' she may be. No decent mother would let a guy that age around her daughter. BACK OFF.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 Whatever you do DON'T listen to the first answer. You'll end up in the place where you never want to drop the soap. When she is 14 you'll be classified as an adult. Back off Jack.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): tell (tell her not to tell anyone) but wait, people that dont know you will think that your a paedophile!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): wake up boy shes child learning at primary school find a gilr you age and grow up a bit.girl her age is still believing santa claus and play ing with barbie dolls.too young wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to young to young for that kep.you,ll get trouble with police and statury rape.you spend you teen dettetion certer till you 20
go foe older girl may be 16 or 17 yaers old.
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reader, FashionistaBaybee +, writes (29 December 2008):
leave her alone. she is wayyyyy too younq riqht now. wait until she's older- maybe 14. yull be 1c & then it will be more......acceptable.
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