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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:This guy is with me since 2 years ago. We have kissed and caressed each other. He is asking me for sex, but without love and emotions. On New year eve he called me up and again asked me for sexual relations. I said him that i love him, and i also want a loving man and respect. U KNOW WHAT HE SAID TO ME:I CAN'T DIGEST LOVE. YOU DESERVE ONLY RESPECT AND I BET, IN LIFE YOU WILL ONLY GET RESPECT, NOTHING ELSE.At that moment i could not reply him, but i want to give him answer. Plz tell me what should i do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 If you feel like you HAVE to reply, then reply with a Yes, you are right, I'm not into a F-buddy relationship, that is not who I am. Have a good life.
That is it. Don't waste more time on him. He's a himbo.. move on.
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Consider yourself wise and fortunate to have escaped his grimy claws. What a tool.
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female
reader, dearkelja +, writes (3 January 2009):
 This does not sound like what you are looking for in a relationship. Time to find someone new as he is only wasting your time and for two years has not allowed you to go out there and find the man who will respect you and will be emotionally ready for a relationship.
Move on. New Year, New beginnings.
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reader, Sangoma  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Aikona, aikona, he wants a bargain! You are no cheap bargain! Eish, he thinks you are cheap, he wants it for mahalla(free) no commitment, no pay. No ways he does not love you and is not in a committed relationship with you; he is not paying you because you are not a prsotitue. Now he thinks it's free. Aikona and what about you and your feeings? Getting hurt! Aikona, he is bad news, forget him, he does not love, respect or value you. He does not deserve you. Tell him you are not cheap. He have diginity and slefrespect. You give it to him to keep him, no way, he will not settle with you if he gets for free...never...he will think you are to easy and to cheap. No you tell him to move on. Vooerstj...GO!!!!!
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reader, MichaelS2 +, writes (3 January 2009):
 I'm a virgin but I'm assuming sex with emotion behind it is more powerful and fulfilling than having sex with someone who doesn't care about you.
I want my first time to be with someone I love or actually care about,I don't want to be with someone who sleeps around casually.
Meaning is extremely important and if something is meaningful than it is more likely to be cherished by you.
If I were you I'd tell him that you don't want to have sex and that you want a relationship...
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Typical male. He has mistaken you for a ho. Tell him to get a ho. If you fall for him, you become a ho.
Christmas is over. Santa is not saying ho ho ho anymore.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 January 2009):
You don't need to reply.
You have stated that you don't have casual sex because you are a Lady, and he has said ok that's great, well done on that.
He's told you what he wants, you've told him what you want, he's agreed to disagree.
Move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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