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*madancingbabie
writes: i posted a question the other day. i had unproctected sex with my boss on dec 27. he didnt cum inside of me and he was only in me for about 5 mins. my period is due on the 10th and i counted back and the day b4 we had sex i was at my most fertile. iv been feeling really strange like my belly is different and im feeling sick sometimes and some stomache cramps at night. so i took a test this morning and it came back neg. do you think it could have been wrong? anyone any ideas why im feeling so weird/? please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): Keep taking home pregnancy tests. Buy the multipack, so you can take it a few times, in case there is an error. Check and double check. I think some of them say they detect the pregnancy hormone 5 days before your period is due. That would be today. Wait and see if your period comes on the 10th. Most of all, and this is easier said that done, don't stress out right now. That may be why your stomach feels weird/sick. You are making yourself sick with stress. Maybe you feel guilty about what you did, or the position you could be in now, but don't worry until you know for sure. Stressing so much and worrying so much could also delay your period. If you are pregnant, there are so many options out there. Unfortunately, the burden falls on the woman. Be strong! If you are not pregnant, maybe now is a good time to get on the pill or something like that, just in case this should happen again. We are passionate beings, and this just happened. There is no need to be ashamed about this. Good luck. I will be praying for you.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 January 2009):
You should wait until you have missed your period, then take the test. It's too early to have any symptoms of pregnancy so whatever you are feeling is due to something else or just in your mind. I hope you aren't pregnant, babies deserve to be planned. I hope you have learned a very important lesson and will never have unprotected sex until you are ready for the consequences.
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